I am fortunate enough that the current prices in LA don't really deter me.
I find great value in my frolicking with the lovely women I've been able to spend time with lately. As a side note, I find it mildly amusing that QB gets a ration of shit for overexposure, but this poor beaten to death horse, i.e. pricing, gets yet another flogging on the same day.Is it just me?
About a month ago someone posed the question about mongering over the holidays. I usually tries to see my favorites a bit more and add tips/gifts to acknowledge the season.
But this year is different. Yes, I'm getting out as much as usual. yes, I'm focusing on my current favorites, but most of these providers have an a la carte or add-on menu. So this year, I'm diving deeper into the menu rather than giving a straight-up holiday gift. I figure it's still a win-win.
Anyone else feeling less generous even if your resources are still aplenty?
Ho Ho Ho.
Anal is the only thing I can think that many girls charge more for...and threesomes. I am sure I am missing something though.
Probably bbfs. Many ladies will offer this as a add on or even free to guys they have seen several times, trust, and like. Often, the ladies that claim to that they would never do this are the ones that do.
It is of course up to consenting adults what they decide to do in the privacy of their bedroom, but I can tell you one of the fastest ways for me to not see you (even repeat clients!) is to ask to forgo a condom. Please do not spread nefarious speculation about safe and professional providers that do not ever provide such services. To say this "often" happens is blatantly false and dangerous misinformation about our community.
I am not so naive to think BBFS never, ever happens in p4p, but for him to say it is "probably BBFS" seems incredibly ignorant or just plain troll worthy. Thanks for your post. 
naive. Voice made a reasonable suggestion given the current market climate, and the OP confirmed that BBFS/secret menu items are some of the possibilities.
Do you see the irony in YOU asking what it is (while not having a clue) and then attacking Voice for giving you the answer?
Leave it to you to white knight for idiocy. But continue your hot takes and troll posts. Who could stop you? lol.
calling me a white knight when you regularly suck up to every provider on this board. Here's a link to an example from YESTERDAY. You just can't help being a simp, can you? Lol
You changed the subject before your attack, so I assume yo9u have NO substantive rebuttal to what I said about your disgraceful treatment of Voice after he answered your question. Maybe you should man up and apologize for jumping on the provider-brown-nose bandwagon. It would a good test of whether there is anything respectful about Respectful Robert . . . . OR, . . . . You could just melt down again. Lol
Mr. Lion,
You seem to be mistaken as to *who* you should be brown nosing to. Why in the world would you think it is advantageous to suck up to other gents here? Robert is trying to get providers in bed, not clients. LOL We are all adults here having adult conversations. There are no clubs and this is not a game of providers vs. clients. As long as everyone is respectful and honest let's keep the conversation going. There is no need to "pick sides". We are not still in high school.
for Robert to get providers in bed, and he has to brown-nose on top of paying, tells you a lot about his approach to this business. It's ironic that you think I'm anti-provider when the posters on another board often accuse me of always taking the side of providers. I take the side of what I think is the right thing to do. If a customer is right, I will back a customer, if a provider is correct, I will back her. I have supported you on many of your posts, so you should know this about me already. If you have forgotten that I often back you up, I can add some links to my prior posts. I just do it in an adult way and don't add suck-up language to my comments. There is a difference between backing up a provider who knows what she is talking about on a particular topic and being a fawning simp like Robert. I have never had a provider who refused to see me or did not invite me to repeat, but of course, I don't tell them I'm CDL from TER when I'm booking. Lol
On a website devoted to men finding sexy women...he is triggered by me telling a sexy woman....she is sexy. lol.
But where his misogyny really shines is that he feels the need to defend himself by pointing to "another board" where THERE, so he says, he treats woman with respect. Oh, ok, Thanks for clearing that up Cdl. lol.
Seems to me, if you really like and cherish women, you would be fair and treat them well on EVERY platform. Great job drawing him out and allowing him to embarrass himself yet again to the masses. Well played Scarlet!
should be treated differently than men, so who is the misogynist here? I treat everyone the same, which is the ultimate show of respect for women. You look down on women and think if you suck up to them, you will get to bed them. This works for providers because you are also PAYING, but suck up to civvie women and they will laugh at you. The fact that I treat women as equals has earned me many outside dates OTC with providers and over a dozen real life relationships.
If you had much real life experience with women, you would know that treating them the same as you treat men is the ultimate show of respect. Sucking up with empty compliments will only fool the dim-witted ladies. Thanks for reaffirming that you are the quintessential simp, fawning over women you put on a pedestal merely because of their looks, not knowing that they despise your type in real life, but will play games with you here because you have money to spend on pussy. There is some irony in you lecturing on respect. Respect does not mean you can't stand up to a woman when they are wrong. If you don't. it just makes you look weak. My philosophy when it comes to respecting women is that they all get my respect, but IT'S THEIRS TO LOSE, and many do by word or deed with some of the stupid shit they post here.
Let me give you an example of respecting ALL women, not just the ones you can bed for money. I was entering an apartment complex once to see a provider, and when the elevator stopped, an old lady got on dragging a 50-pound bag of dog food across the floor. I told her to let me help her with that, picked it up and when we got to her floor, I carried it to her apartment. We chatted for a few minutes and I left with her effusive thanks. It made me 15 minutes late to my session, but I told the provider to take it off of my 2-hours as soon as I arrived. I did it because it was the right thing to do, not because she was sexy LOOKING and I thought I could fuck her. Do you see how hollow and transparent you are with your "respect for providers" drivel? This is what makes you a simp. It must really suck to be you. LOL
you did several curls with it, then laid on your back and bench-pressed it. LOL.
you got here there was 45 pounds of dog food missing. Lol
You are twisting yourself all up in a knot, with a word salad response, to try and convince us, or maybe yourself, you respect women! But if you REALLY did respect women, you wouldn't have to explain it to ANYONE as it would be obvious to all. 
By your faulty logic, everyone here should know you're a disingenuous simp because you act like one, fawning over the ladies like you do. If you think that shows respect, you know little about women. "Respectful" Robert is a complete fraud. I only have to explain things when there is a low denominator in the conversation. Ahem, . . . . that would be you. How many OTC dates have YOU had with providers that included sex and you didn't have to pay. I'll listen for the crickets. Lol
You don't even attempt a cursory denial that you treat women differently than you do men, so it's ironic that YOU would call anyone else a misogynist. Your white-knighting for providers is all over these boards. You can't hide form this question, it's who you are, an opportunistic cad. They are on to you, but because most of the providers here are smarter than you, they will be happy to take your phony AND your phony compliments.
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Only 2 of my regular girls offered a secret menu. One offered *more* after like the 8th time I saw her, but she's now my ATF who we've started to hang out OTC now. But yeah, that's like less than 10%. I guess like everything else, YMMV?
Well, starting in the FBSM world, almost everything is an add-on. Nude, body slides, all the way up to full service.
Similarly, escorts may have a different rate for non-GFE vs. GFE.
And as Voice mentioned, "secret menus" for returning/regular clients abound.
But my point is that I'm just feeling less generous this year. I'm not being critical of a la carte menus or add-ons per se.
It's not my playground but my guess would be from anywhere from, say 120-200, depending on city.
And if that's the deal, then it bothers you that there's add?
Yeah, they're YOUR favorite but apparently you're not theirs.
And yeah, it does seem like you're critical of their menu.
I am fortunate enough that the current prices in LA don't really deter me.
I find great value in my frolicking with the lovely women I've been able to spend time with lately.
As a side note, I find it mildly amusing that QB gets a ration of shit for overexposure, but this poor beaten to death horse, i.e. pricing, gets yet another flogging on the same day.
Excellent post! But in my next life, I want to come back as your wallet. lol. You live in an incredibly provider rich area so good for you for having the ability to play there.
In fact, I counted two just last night--while watching them sex each other!
As for my next life, I want to come back as Paulie Walnuts.
you will be putting a review of this menage up soon? Can you give us the names so we can watch for the review?
I feel *more* generous around this time of year. I’ll blame it on Dickens.
I’m lucky to be seeing my ATF and two other long-time fav providers around the year-end holidays. I’ll be bringing each of them a gift, as I’ve done for years. They don’t have ala carte or add-on menus. Maybe that’s one of the reasons I keep seeing them again and again.
I don't either, the only thing I request extra for is a dominatrix session, simply because of the time and effort it takes to prepare for one and execute a session.
It just seems so weird to me to be like "touching boobs is extra $50. touching cooch is extra $50. kissing is extra $50."
Sometimes during a date we do all, sometimes not. I guess I prefer to just go with the flow. As long as you are gentle I am very open. Except if you have bad teeth/breath. Gross in and of itself, but also decay germs can be transferred during kissing/oral which I want to avoid. Brush, floss, mouthwash, and go to the dentist!!!
Amen to your comments about dental hygiene! It’s not difficult and makes a big difference. I would add in the use of a tongue scraper. While making out in front of the door at the end of our third session together, one lady told me “I love how your mouth always tastes so clean”. Best compliment ever. Damnit she’s an awesome kisser. I think I’ll call her this week…
I understand why the “a la carte” model is weird to you. Like the OP, I’ve met several women who advertise themselves as strictly FBSM, then after a session or two, if they like me, they put other options on the table. Never had a secret menu quite as itemized as your example, but maybe three tiers of playtime.
These are women who are willing, and even want to play up to and including GFE, but they’re uncomfortable doing so with someone they don’t know, and don’t want to do it with everyone. In that light, I find it very understandable. Since they don’t want to do it with every client, I leave it out of reviews.
Usually, whatever they end up offering is comparably priced to others who advertise the same services up front so I don’t mind it.
The ones who advertise along the lines of your example, each thing with a price tag like a yard sale; the grand total is usually exorbitant. It’s just mercenary. I don’t contact them.
In addition to flossing, brushing (Sonicare), and using a Waterpik, I rinse nightly with hydrogen peroxide (diluted). It acts not only as an anti-bacterial but an anti-viral as well. First used it when I had covid to clear up my sore throat. I did some reading and found that it's a great tool for general oral hygiene and my dentist and hygienist agree. Plus it helps whiten your teeth.
Regularly chew gum with xylitol sugar. It interferes with the microbiome that causes tooth decay. Some recommend it for pregnant women so as to prevent passing that microbiome onto their babies.
First of all, As it was said before we all are adults. So, whatever someone else is doing....... Don't worry about it!!! It's not your business. You can't control what others do.