What is it with P411 members' cancellation percentage?  I don't know if I'm the only one having this problem, but out of my last 8 appointments,  pre-booked well in advance mind you, 6 were from P411 whom I've never met, & only 1 has actually made it to my front door.  The other 5 result in 4 'day-of' cancellations, with 1 of those cancelling an hour before the meeting, then 1 NCNS.  WTF?  And yes, I do further research their profiles & cross-ref wherever possible, & have contacted their refs (their onsite 'Provider Okays') with granted permission.  For me, & this is just my preference, but I reject the idea of a deposit, so any suggestions on that would be a waste of time, though I appreciate the thought.  I'm not bashing all P411 members, but like any group, it has its share of careless morons.  I obviously belong to this site & I definitely respect everyone's time as being precious & limited, just because mine isn't (uughtt ummm).  Oh, & the excuses are the standard template:  "family emergency" (my fave!), "trip was cancelled", "trip cut short due to emergency business meeting", bla, bla, bla.  Not saying any or all of them lied, but those are crazy odds!  Maybe I have spinach in my teeth again, or something on my face?  Thanx for the venting venue... just one of the things I love about industry boards.

This can happen on whatever site a gent finds you.Luckily,I rarely have cancellations from P411 gents but who knows if their excuses are valid or they just decided to see another lady.Some gents will book an appointment with you and might have another lady he is interested in as well.So,now he has to decide who he is going to see so one of the ladies are going to be cancelled on.It sucks but it happens I do not think it is with just P411 members.I have had TER members do this to me as well just like gents have had this happen to them.Unfortunately,just the nature of the business and sometimes things do happen and sometimes gents book with multiple ladies for the same day.If a gent cancels on me with proper notice and wants to book an appointment later I always give a person a second chance but if it continues to be a pattern then that I will decline any future appointment requests.
Just my .02

just kidding, but seriously, I used to visit there a few years ago when I was still kind of new to the hobby, and the two times I visited, having set up dates weeks in advance after reading a ton of reviews, both did the same thing to me. One was a NCNS, and the other was an agency lady who decided that since it was father's day, she had to visit her parents? Normally, as a P411 member, I follow through, regardless, since I don't want to get on any shit lists, but that's just me.

I love p411.  I don't think any of my many bookings through p411 have cancelled.  Many book long appointments, too.  You've had such bad luck, I don't blame you for wondering.  I just thought I'd let you know that when I see a p 411 appointment request email I expect good things to happen.  Sorry to hear that's not been your experience.

newbies tend to get cold feet.  I don't know how you find this out...

Same here.. I think I've only had one P411 appt cancel on me... besides that, nada... maybe it has something to do with the city your in, or were a lot of them "newbies"?

maybe it just came in a bunch.


On the opposite end, I had a similar problem recently with quite a few providers (consecutively) not returning appt.requests.


That's sort of my biggest problem with p411 so far.Seems like many providers only want to use as verification and not as a way to set the appt.That is, filling out their website ver.form is a requirement for a date.