Fisting? I do that fetish but am not sure whether to advertise or if someone shows interest in it. I am a well reviewed provide and don't want other gents to think it's "stretchy" you know what I mean. It's not and never ever hand any complaints. Just wondering what the proper way to advertise it would be and if it would turn some people off.

i'm looking forward to reading the guys' responses to this one.

Personally I think it's hot, although I certainly understand your concerns about advertising it per se, however the fact is if you provide that service even without advertising eventually it will make it's way into your reviews (has it yet?). If so then the info is already fairly public knowledge, at least for TER members, so why not advertise it if you enjoy it. If guys are worried they will need to tie a 2 x 4 to their ass afterward then they know little about antamony, and have never compared their fist to average baby's head!!LOL

I love puppetry.  It will freak out some people, but you probably don't want to hang with them anyway.

My ass a tad too delicate to handle such things.

I have to say it was a truly different experience.  I wouldn't mind trying it again with a willing partner.

I've got pretty good-sized construction worker hands, I'm not sure they'd even work.  I'd want to be coached EVERY SECOND of the way, causing a provider any pain would be an instant turn-off for me.  It'd sure be interesting though.

  If I saw that a provider advertised fisting, it wouldn't make me think she's 'loose' at all. To me, it's not so much natural tightness, it's more the way she moves, and tightens the pc muscles.  Really, it's more the overall experience that does it for me.

 Some providers advertise what they'll do, I like that alot, it cuts back on the awkwardness of asking for something. Much better to know up front.

  P.S. Alot of guys likely don't know what fisting is, let alone that it's even possible, I really don't know how you'd address that.

The only time I tried it was by accident in the heat of the moment.  

I met a lady at an incall spa in Houston and during the course of DATY I ended up with all five fingers in her.  We completely ruined the futon because her juices soaked through it.  

It was a turn-on bucause of how much we enjoyed each others company not for the act itself.

I dunno...it just seems more "biological" than "sexual" to me.  I know some women really get turned on from it, but I would have to be with someone who really wanted it to make the effort for them.  I would feel less like a lover than an OB/GYN.

Of course, I am also not very into anal, either, so it probably is just me.

I'd recommend vinyl gloves though.

I don't really have anything against it, but I have no real desire to try.  It reminds me of trying to fit bunches of people in a Volkswagon or a phone booth (remember when those existed?).

I suppose if a lady wanted me to, I'd indulge her, but I can't imagine a scenario where I'd initiate it.

You're not used to BBrain's posts are you? He always turns things around. One of the funniest posters on the board. B... I almost pissed my pants laughing at this one!

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We finished she said to me with a smile "have you ever have a rusty trombone?"
Now I'm a convert.

I've had lots of experience with it and love the feeling.  I've actively sought out providers who are into this.