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SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 2785 reads
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1 / 39

membership to sites like DateCheck and P411? I know these sites are important for gents as far as we are concerned. But how important are they for us as far as gents are concerned?

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 1125 reads
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2 / 39

to verify them if you aren't a member of the site?

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 1099 reads
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3 / 39

i use P411 almost exclusively..easy to set up appointments and convenient for the ladies to check references..basic P411 membership is free and invaluable..i can even recommend you because you are so sweet and sexy..

Posted By: SoftlySarah
membership to sites like DateCheck and P411? I know these sites are important for gents as far as we are concerned. But how important are they for us as far as gents are concerned?

DJ1985 21 Reviews 929 reads
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4 / 39

TER combined with P411 is my primary method of finding a new lady.

STPhomer 176 Reviews 970 reads
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5 / 39

Having a positive presence on TER and a good review history is the most important thing to me.
But membership in other site like the ones you mention is also helpful. For one thing it might be what gets ya on my radar.  Plus if it is a varification site like Date-Check it is an additional good tool for you to feel comfortable with me.

inicky46 61 Reviews 870 reads
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6 / 39

guys find providers in many different ways.  So it's best to cover all your bases and have membership at both sites.  Neither of them are my primary way of finding out who's around but they are very good as fallbacks.  Also, for some guys, especially newbies, they may be the primary means.

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 945 reads
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7 / 39

Aww! So sweet! Thank you. :)

I am actually already a member of both of those, but my Date check is expired and was just wondering how important it is for ladies to have profiles there. I am not aware that I've met anyone through there yet.
Posted By: macdaddy1944
i use P411 almost exclusively..easy to set up appointments and convenient for the ladies to check references..basic P411 membership is free and invaluable..i can even recommend you because you are so sweet and sexy..  
   
Posted By: SoftlySarah
membership to sites like DateCheck and P411? I know these sites are important for gents as far as we are concerned. But how important are they for us as far as gents are concerned?

tralala_xxx 9 Reviews 837 reads
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8 / 39
perfectstorm 19 Reviews 799 reads
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9 / 39

It is just one of many sources I use in looking for providers, but I am in a small market. I use TER, p411, date-check, eros, BP, other ad mall sites, and other review sites as sources to see what and who is available. I could see if I was in a big city, possibly just using one source like p411. P411 does make it easy for contact and screening, but in my area, at any given time there are only 10-20 ladies on there and the majority are not my type or budget.

From the providers' standpoint though, I can't see why one wouldn't join those sites. Membership is free for providers. It's another advertising site, (free ads unless you elect to do the premium type ads) plus they are good screening tools.

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 911 reads
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10 / 39

I don't see enough new gents to keep my membership for free, but DC is not that much $. I don't get much traffic from them, but membership doesn't hurt. And you're right- about covering my bases.  

Thanks!

escalade1964 65 Reviews 796 reads
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11 / 39

So nowadays I only see ladies that advertise on Date-Check, P411 or TER  

Even if they are on Date-Check or P411, I feel they must have some TER reviews.

I don't care about the review as YMMV but for safety reasons.

steeltipped 41 Reviews 657 reads
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12 / 39

Fairly important for p411 and DC
Most important that they have reviews that are verifiable (ie by reviewers on here that have more than 5 reviews and do not read like shills or bots...)

But most important of all is simplicity and ease of verification... I'm sure on yor side it's no different than us, if we have to dig for info, is probably too good to be true or possible bacon bits...

89Springer 757 reads
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13 / 39

So far I've been able to find everything I need by either searching reviews on TER or just looking online.  

I recently had a horrible experience with Date-Check. I gave them more information than I gave the bank the last time I refinanced my mortgage. They kept sending me automated emails saying that I hadn't provided some piece of information, which I had. I kept replying, and they kept sending. This went on for three days before I told them to give it up.

I finally joined P411 for their $129 price. They probably got less information on me than a store clerk does when I cash a check (ok, slight exaggeration) and I was approved in a couple of hours.

If the provider hadn't required one of these two services, I wouldn't have used them. The other providers I've booked with have had their own screeners, which is much, much better for me.

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 811 reads
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14 / 39

Dear Sarah:
Keep in mind that we are connoisseurs and purveyors of companionship and comfort. Henceforth, we are a selective and discerning group of consumers that shop and participate in the hobby safely.  Thus you ask why are hobby site so important. They have an immense salience because unlike a lot of mainstream businesses they tend to be part in parcel of the adult companionship participant's agency of the Better Business Bureau. We know and providers know that once they have membership in those sites, that they will attract a higher grade and quality of customer. Thus they begin to charge accordingly and begin to receive there compensation on the economies of scale for  the hobby. They also know that they have reached a certain tier within the hobby and within the ranks of order of those who ply their trade for compensation once they have begun to establish themselves in cyberspace.
 The verification sites are like a rite of passage and a necessity to the progress providers because they tend to separate the wheat from the chaff as the providers tend to seek the upwardly mobile men in the community that can afford and provide them the revenue and social interaction that they seek within their careers.  At this point they truly have set a standard because only a select few men have membership of these sites and it is the concomitant of being on linked in for the white collar professional. At this point, these esteemed providers can confirm, conversate and verify with women who are like them and have an equal presence in cyberspace.  Thus it is a way of saying to those who constantly ask this question on the newbie board that you are well on your way to success and progression. However these sites have their place and are growing in importance within the hobby however it is also equally important to have a presence and interaction on an industry board.
 The salience on being on an industry board is critical because you learn certain things that are happening within the industry. Also the chat rooms
and the interaction you can have with other providers and hobbyist that you might not necessarily run into come in handy because the provider can being to act like a double agent as she begins to verify the hobbyist lightly as a potential client. It is also important because it has a provider's and hobbyist only board where one can discuss issues relevant to the hobby and trade information on potential client's, LE, and other issues related to travel within the industry. Finally this is a way to become more immersed within the hobby because it is a venue where you can openly advertise meet and greets. This is a very critical networking tool for both hobbyist and providers. From here they can plan interact and address their business and social needs as they increase their roster of clients and All time  favorites.
 This is why these sites are essential and critical to the growth and development of the modern day adult companionship professional. Due to the fact that we all know that we can't be totally open with everyone about our thing, these are places designed to help keep you safe as well as help you cultivate relationships which are critical to the modern day participant in the cyberspace age.

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 674 reads
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15 / 39

more cryptic long winded bullshit..

Posted By: Duplicitouslust
Dear Sarah:
Keep in mind that we are connoisseurs and purveyors of companionship and comfort. Henceforth, we are a selective and discerning group of consumers that shop and participate in the hobby safely.  Thus you ask why are hobby site so important. They have an immense salience because unlike a lot of mainstream businesses they tend to be part in parcel of the adult companionship participant's agency of the Better Business Bureau. We know and providers know that once they have membership in those sites, that they will attract a higher grade and quality of customer. Thus they begin to charge accordingly and begin to receive there compensation on the economies of scale for  the hobby. They also know that they have reached a certain tier within the hobby and within the ranks of order of those who ply their trade for compensation once they have begun to establish themselves in cyberspace.
  The verification sites are like a rite of passage and a necessity to the progress providers because they tend to separate the wheat from the chaff as the providers tend to seek the upwardly mobile men in the community that can afford and provide them the revenue and social interaction that they seek within their careers.  At this point they truly have set a standard because only a select few men have membership of these sites and it is the concomitant of being on linked in for the white collar professional. At this point, these esteemed providers can confirm, conversate and verify with women who are like them and have an equal presence in cyberspace.  Thus it is a way of saying to those who constantly ask this question on the newbie board that you are well on your way to success and progression. However these sites have their place and are growing in importance within the hobby however it is also equally important to have a presence and interaction on an industry board.  
  The salience on being on an industry board is critical because you learn certain things that are happening within the industry. Also the chat rooms  
and the interaction you can have with other providers and hobbyist that you might not necessarily run into come in handy because the provider can being to act like a double agent as she begins to verify the hobbyist lightly as a potential client. It is also important because it has a provider's and hobbyist only board where one can discuss issues relevant to the hobby and trade information on potential client's, LE, and other issues related to travel within the industry. Finally this is a way to become more immersed within the hobby because it is a venue where you can openly advertise meet and greets. This is a very critical networking tool for both hobbyist and providers. From here they can plan interact and address their business and social needs as they increase their roster of clients and All time  favorites.  
  This is why these sites are essential and critical to the growth and development of the modern day adult companionship professional. Due to the fact that we all know that we can't be totally open with everyone about our thing, these are places designed to help keep you safe as well as help you cultivate relationships which are critical to the modern day participant in the cyberspace age.

inicky46 61 Reviews 783 reads
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16 / 39
macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 756 reads
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17 / 39

even Rasha makes more sense than this imbecilic twit...

Posted By: inicky46
TER's Official Word Clown?  
 

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 753 reads
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19 / 39

The reason I asked, as I mentioned a couple times above, is that my DC membership recently expired. I don't see enough newbies to keep my membership by referrals, so I will have to go ahead and get a paid membership. I was just wondering if that would be worth it because I hadn't to my knowledge garnered any clients from there yet. But I guess it can't hurt, and it isn't that expensive.  

I probably don't capitalize enough on the opportunities that P411 or DC provide because I have no idea how to. I get that it is important to be signed in as much as possible, but other than that not quite sure how to maximize my exposure there. Also, P411 doesn't show up as a referral on my web stats, so I have no idea how much traffic they are sending; which means I have no idea how much an ad I might place there picks up.

This is my last question about this: How often do you read the ads on these sites? How do you find ladies on these sites- or do you just verify them there?

(Well, I guess that was technically two questions... lol!)

Thanks again!

inicky46 61 Reviews 725 reads
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20 / 39

Actually, rasha makes more sense then almost anyone else in this looney bin.  I'll also bet she looks a LOT better than Dupy.  I've seen one of them.  Guess which?

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 726 reads
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21 / 39

if you are a provider on P411 as you said..putting the P411 info on your ad website on your profile would certainly help..i know i did not see it..

Posted By: SoftlySarah
The reason I asked, as I mentioned a couple times above, is that my DC membership recently expired. I don't see enough newbies to keep my membership by referrals, so I will have to go ahead and get a paid membership. I was just wondering if that would be worth it because I hadn't to my knowledge garnered any clients from there yet. But I guess it can't hurt, and it isn't that expensive.  
   
 I probably don't capitalize enough on the opportunities that P411 or DC provide because I have no idea how to. I get that it is important to be signed in as much as possible, but other than that not quite sure how to maximize my exposure there. Also, P411 doesn't show up as a referral on my web stats, so I have no idea how much traffic they are sending; which means I have no idea how much an ad I might place there picks up.  
   
 This is my last question about this: How often do you read the ads on these sites? How do you find ladies on these sites- or do you just verify them there?  
   
 (Well, I guess that was technically two questions... lol!)  
   
 Thanks again!

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 928 reads
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22 / 39

P411 is a private network of men who will only see other women on that site in many cases, so considering it costs nothing for us to use it, may as well.

Dr Who revived 670 reads
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23 / 39

Or was my guess wrong  :D

keystonekid 114 Reviews 882 reads
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24 / 39

the sites, DC and P411 (not RS2K in FL) may be a hobbyist's primary source of finding a provider to spend time with. Some parts of the country are stronger with DC or P411 as opposed to TER.

Local hobbyists in Florida may or may utilize these sites to find potential providers to see. Personally, I rely more on TER than the other two options mentioned combined.

Hope this helps.

inicky46 61 Reviews 843 reads
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25 / 39

Simple humanity caused me to still my pen.  I mean, the man has to live, right?  Had I reviewed him, he might have had to move out of his refrigerator carton down by the river.
Oh, and Devin says, "hi!"

Dr Who revived 811 reads
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26 / 39

Something about a skin tight red dress?

Too bad I couldn't have said "Hi" myself.

But it is a long walk.
 
Posted By: inicky46
Simple humanity caused me to still my pen.  I mean, the man has to live, right?  Had I reviewed him, he might have had to move out of his refrigerator carton down by the river.  
 Oh, and Devin says, "hi!"

DJ1985 21 Reviews 779 reads
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27 / 39

Since joining P411 I haven't seen anyone not using it. I feel more comfortable with one more layer of validation of my new friends. I check the ads a couple times a week and scanning the profiles keeps my favorite ladies in my mind.
Having P411 on your website would pique my interest as much as your TER presence does.

inicky46 61 Reviews 789 reads
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28 / 39

It set those lovely curves off nicely.
PS:  She says you're really a pussycat.  Or was it just a pussy.  I forget.

Jstgttnstrtd 18 Reviews 735 reads
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29 / 39

Though I do cross-check here to read their reviews of course.
My okays there just make the scheduling so easy.
Plus, like you say, it's another layer of protection, which is important to me.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 669 reads
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30 / 39

I thought providers have free memberships. This makes no sense. If you have to pay to remain a member there, how is it that they have so many profiles of providers who retired years ago?? They are obviously not paying for memberships.

Anyway, if that's true that you have to pay, and you don't get business from them, then fuck 'em. It's not worth it.

FlaSailorRon 24 Reviews 734 reads
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31 / 39

There are ladies listed on those sites that have horrible reputations, but you couldn't tell from the listing.

oralconniseur 10 Reviews 825 reads
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32 / 39
natashalynne See my TER Reviews 678 reads
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33 / 39

I have gotten business from both P411 and DC, but definitely much more from P411.  My DC free 'trial' membership is good through Dec 2015 right now thanks to references given, so I will keep it, but if I had to pay for it, I would let it go.  I find the DC website to be cumbersome and unintuitive and the business I've gotten from it is not worth paying for.

The P411 encryption technology intentionally make it so that you don't see hits from that site on your website.  I don't really understand the technology of it, but Gina once explained why she did it that way, and it has to do with keeping the technology safe.  She would tell you to look at your stats on P411 if you want to see who is looking at you there.  Having said that, every once in a blue moon P411 turns up on my website analytics program, so there must be some exception to her encryption 'rule.

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 875 reads
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34 / 39

Well, you don't have to pay as long as you keep referring gents to them. But I see mostly regulars and an occasional new guy, and usually the new guy is already a member. So I would have to pay to remain a member. They keep our profiles up for the gents to see, but I can't screen anyone there if I don't pay or refer.

Posted By: perfectstorm
I thought providers have free memberships. This makes no sense. If you have to pay to remain a member there, how is it that they have so many profiles of providers who retired years ago?? They are obviously not paying for memberships.  
   
 Anyway, if that's true that you have to pay, and you don't get business from them, then fuck 'em. It's not worth it.

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 783 reads
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35 / 39

I've never paid for it, but based on the recommendations I've given for various clients over the years, I have accrued a large amount of credits (I'm good through the end of 2015 at this point).  

Other than having links to it on my website, I have never specifically recommended it to anyone.  I, and my website, do specifically recommend P411.  I would not pay for DC if I had to, but since they are giving it to me for free, I will keep it.

dicktracy 3 Reviews 819 reads
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36 / 39

I am on datecheck, but haven't bothered renewing. I found it next to useless. Many providers want provider references in addition to datecheck. I haven't used it since I was new to the hobby. I have considered renewing for a month to update my references though, in case I ever use it.

MissAliceQuinn See my TER Reviews 657 reads
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37 / 39

thinking that if I'd ever need it I'd pay.

Well, that was about 10 months ago....  

No need for it.

Having said that, that is my situation. DC is more popular in various parts of the country and different ladies screen in different ways. So you have to make the decision for yourself.

If a guy ONLY has DC, that's a huge red flag for me, for various reasons. I won't see him, and therefore DC doesn't matter (in my case).

I know that some guys like it because a lifelong membership there is about a year's at p411. Or something crazy like that. Bullshit, if he's in the hobby at all P411 is most definitely affordable and should be a priority membership.

Kiss me,

Kate

tinhobbyist 46 Reviews 737 reads
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38 / 39

Same here. P411 gets my thumbs up.

Posted By: DJ1985
TER combined with P411 is my primary method of finding a new lady.

aspenedwards See my TER Reviews 808 reads
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39 / 39

Could you also recommend me - because I am having a heck of a time getting started with the sites! :-)

Posted By: macdaddy1944
i use P411 almost exclusively..easy to set up appointments and convenient for the ladies to check references..basic P411 membership is free and invaluable..i can even recommend you because you are so sweet and sexy..  
   
Posted By: SoftlySarah
membership to sites like DateCheck and P411? I know these sites are important for gents as far as we are concerned. But how important are they for us as far as gents are concerned?

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