The world was a lot different when Carter was president!
It might have eliminated a lot of the awkwardness about being a clumsy kid, but that's just one part of the process of growing up, isn't it?
If I imagine myself back then looking around here today, there would be a lot of tough choices to make for a goofy kid with a raging boner. How jacked up would that be, a raging teen monger, where many providers prefer a mature, adult gentleman? The palm of my hand would have looked like Peter Frampton's hair-do back in the day!!
Has anyone here lost their virginity to a provider/sex worker? First 5 times I ever got laid was with a provider. I ended up losing mine at age 19 with a really pretty latina provider. Once I was naked I was upfront with her and told her the truth, mostly so she didn't have to wonder why I was so awkward at sex lol. She was pretty surprised but nonetheless cool with it and I went on to see her two more times. I've gotta say I learned a lot from those sessions and had some amazing times. It also made having sex with my first girlfriend a lot less weird since I already had experience and I didn't have to risk possibly being judged if I were a virgin.
Also, I'm curious to know what you ladies think of virgins and if you have seen any. Do you think it's creepy, or maybe even exciting and you'd be happy to see one?
I saw an older gent who sent his son to see me on his 18th Bday back in the day!
I had several HJ and BJ sessions with providers for my first sexual encounters (Obviously excepting masturbation.)
A few months later I had intercourse with my first girl friend with whom I had a sexual relationship with.
I was 22 years old at the time.
Speaking of creepy, couldn't you come up with a less self-depreciating moniker?
Are you saying you hate yourself for having lost your virginity to a provider?
I suppose that in retrospect I would have preferred to have been able to have girl friends without having to resort too paying for sex; but over time that issue seems to be fairly insignificant now.
I was just very eager to see a beaver and couldn't wait any longer. I am glad I took matters into hand, so to speak.
Ever since reading Michener's "Hawaii," in which a man takes his son to a prostitute to lose his virginity. I always wished someone had done that for me. I have a 16-year-old nephew for whom I've imagined arranging a session if he gets to the age of 18 with his virginity intact. I doubt it will happen, but it's a gift I'd love to give.
He was 30 though. Not sure if I could for someone who was 18-22 though.
It was a pretty intense experience. One that I will have to write about to fully absorb.
My first was with my girlfriend at the time. I had no interest in losing my virginity to someone I didn't have a relationship with.
I only started hobbying after several years of (sexless) marriage.
Also, I'm curious to know what you ladies think of virgins and if you have seen any. Do you think it's creepy, or maybe even exciting and you'd be happy to see one?
There's a lot that sounds good about it, such as having someone who knows what she's doing teach.
I lost my virginity (and hers) with my ex when we were in high school. I don't think I'd want that to be any different.
The world was a lot different when Carter was president!
It might have eliminated a lot of the awkwardness about being a clumsy kid, but that's just one part of the process of growing up, isn't it?
If I imagine myself back then looking around here today, there would be a lot of tough choices to make for a goofy kid with a raging boner. How jacked up would that be, a raging teen monger, where many providers prefer a mature, adult gentleman? The palm of my hand would have looked like Peter Frampton's hair-do back in the day!!
but I did not lose my virginity that way.
I lost my virginity to an "older woman" (17) who wanted to get back at her lying and cheating boyfriend, who happened to be my best friends older brother, and she thought the best way to get back at him would be to fuck the little twerp of the best friend of his little brother (me)
I so loved being used, I think I fell in love that night, but she most likely didn't even remember my name afterwards. I think she ended up running off with a coke dealer. Oh well, she must be pushing 60 by now, I wonder if she knows Robin? lmao
I didnt discover providers until the end of a loveless marriage.
In my teens and twenties I had zero luck with the ladies. I wasn't and still aren't the best looking of men and had zero conference in what I had to offer a woman. I had one one girlfriend in those two decades and she wanted nothing to do with me other than a punching bag and never put out. When I was 29 I decided the only way I was going to get laid was to pay for it. Well I was stupid and instead of getting laid I got robbed. It was extremely depressing to say the least. I did get a fifteen minutes or less had job before she ran off with two thousand she stole.
Good news, a female friend gave me a mercy fuck, and I met my future wife shortly after who taught me how to pick up women. Things got better and better from there.
I was out of my teens and wanted to get it done. Always too shy with the ladies. I went with a provider who I had seen once before. The first time we didn't do the "deed". I think it was just BJs and not much else. I forget why. Maybe my nerves. The second time I saw her I went all the way. She got on top of me and I slipped it in and I recall thinking to myself in that instant that I was no longer a virgin. Whew! Crossed off one thing off my to do list and my acne finally cleared up
My gf in high school were each the other one's "first". Neither one of us had any idea what we were doing, I got very nervous and had a difficult time staying erect, she found it somewhat painful, etc.
If I had had some experience with someone who (heh) was experienced, I'm sure my gf and I would have had a much more enjoyable "first time".
I'm not that young either. Have just always been very reserved. Have learned a lot in the past year. Much more confident. First time was with an amazing Thai lady - I'd love to see her again if she ever came back to my area (her agency dissappeared after running into some trouble).