Question for both parties.
Every now and again I am approached by older, succesful men who desire to relive the pleasures of their youth, mayhap they've never experienced such and wish to live it once. Requests to go clubbing, private parties and over indulging in different activities have passed my way many times.
Alas I'm not really the go to party girl. My ideal night out might involve a cigar bar with some Johnny Walker and jazz not fist pumping techno or dubstep.
While privately these gents insist I cause them to feel youthful I sincerely doubt I could do so out of doors at some rave club. I find it hard to fake having a good time.
So I repeat my title question. Has anyone experienced taking out a lady who is used to quiet nights in and shown her the town? Ladies have you been introduced to something out of your element?
And the results?
Also swingers clubs do not count as raves. Some are very very enjoyable and low key.
I know this sounds pretty stupid but I'd love feedback please.
If I am out with a woman, I don't want her to have to "fake" her enjoyment of our non BCD time together.
Of course I enjoy both wild, drunken party nights as well as a night on the couch with a bottle of wine and a pizza almost equally, it just depends on my mood at the time.
I don't like to drag "down home" girls into fancy restaurants anymore than I am going to "force" a lady with "champagne" tastes to go slumming with me at the local pool hall, unless of course she wants to go slumming that is
Personally I find it a bit sad to see some old guy in his sixties desperately trying to relive his youth by showing up at a rave with a twenty something. I try not to judge, but I think going to those kind extremes is a bit pathetic to witness. but hey, each to his own
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Why as soon as get my new prosthetic hip fixed and my botox shot and my new toupee I intend to step out on the town with a pair of 22 year old providers. And they've assured me that they really REALLY want to go. Though I'm not sure why they were laughing as they said it. Anyway got to go get a new onion for my belt.
Wait. Where was I again?
It's fun for a while, but I pay for it the next day.
Oh, the wages of sin.
Why doesn't the government tax them for a change?
my various debaucheries. I'd love to see the government take a share of them away from me.
I'm acutely aware that the government takes a big cut from all the various legal sinning going on, especially gambling.
They manage to even take a cut from the sex trade by way of bribes and fines in most major cities.
You always pay for it, one way or another.
Why else would they give you an incentive to get married, if they didn't like the odds?
Not by clubbing or "night on the town" stuff. I have no interest in it, since I didn't miss much in my mis-spent youth. I do enjoy OTC time with several of my provider friends but it's more in the line of dinner, just the two of us or another couple. The only clubbing I've done is to take two insanely hot Canadian stripper/hookers to The Spearmint Rhino on my birthday. But that did not make me feel young. What made me feel young was taking them back to the hotel later for a doubles session.
PS: I did not pay them for their time at the club, but bought them drinks and lap dances. My motto on that is, "I will happily pay you for sex. I will happily pay for your dinner. But I will not pay to watch you eat it."
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i'll pay for a lady's time while we eat dinner, on the condition that she's feeling my crotch under the table, whispering dirty things in my ear all night and generally making me feel like she can't wait to jump my bones...maybe we will inthe bathroom.
if a girl just wants dinner, you're right, i'll buy it but i won't pay to watch her eat it.
So no need for footsie, just laughter and good conversation.
I am 31, so don't get those requests but I do find I have a lot of younger guys who listen to my music (Death Punch, Breaking Benjamin, Volbeat, Halestorm, etc.) and I do get invited to a lot of concerts by guys in their 50s, which is NOT my style of music. I don't go, because rarely are these men wiling to compensate me for the 3 plus hours I would have to endure of crappy music and utter boredom. For full pay, sure why not lol. I would be more willing to go to a rave than some swinger's club though. It's simply not my idea of fun, and in my six years as a hooker, I have never went to one of those places with a client. I just can't risk being seen. People talk, form judgments, etc. and the very same men who are there as well, will tell BOB (Your boss) where he saw you, and rumors will fly at work. I don't need the extra hassle. A rave...they would just call me a grandma lol.
I think many men use the hobby to recapture their youth and get confused about how some providers make them feel...they actually think it's REAL. The provider who seems so wild and new, would be the same way as his wife is after 10 plus years...that's the part they don't seem to consider. Do what you are comfortable with, but don't put yourself in a place where you're pulling your hair out. Raves were my thing at 16, because I had a fake ID and could get into any club I wanted in my hometown. By the time I started college, most of that partying was out of me, though I did date older men...was 16 dating a 25 year old cop, but it was for lust, not money.
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So a George Strait concert is out of the question?
and I become the recipient then absolutely. 420, hide it from me.
and I am not exactly comfortable being out in public with hookers either. If I am seeing a hooker half my age I would prefer something a little quieter or low key like a dead dark bar with a CD machine.
Younger hookers don't make me feel younger and I am not looking to recapture any lost youth and I would not put a provider in that predicament especially out in public. I can understand if there would be some discomfort at your end.
At the same time, you are being compensated for your time and there should be some flexibility on your part within reason.
So how about if you just order the food for delivery and we will spend the time fucking and playing video games?
I can go out in public with show stoppingly hot 20 year old, and the only eyebrows that will be raised will be by other guys checking her out. I feel perfectly comfortable with being seen in public with women less than half my age. It doesn't necessarily make me feel "younger" but it doesn't bother me a bit.
Also for the record I have a FWB former provider that was an actual GF for a while that I go "out" with all the time. We have been around each other for so long that we don't even get raised eyebrows when we check into hotels together as a couple, We just look like a couple despite the age difference. So I just don't see it as a big deal
my attitude and opinion would be different. In a place like that where it is obvious that mongering is going on and it is much more acceptable, I don't think I would have any hangups.
but yes, in most of Latin America there are very few hangups about older men and younger women.
I'm in Costa Rica right now and I"m not taking anyone out to dinner. Actually, it's back in the states that I do that. Took one 21 year old to a fine NY steakhouse with another monger/provider couple and was ready for some old biddy to say, "Shame on you! Don't you know that girl is young enough to be your daughter?"
I would have smiled and replied, "No, ma'am, this girl is far too young to me my daughter."
You promised to take me to dinner tonight, even if I won't put out
Unless you have two Chicas to join you that is. Give Nicky the bottom bunk though. Seniority applies.
If you think I'm buying lobster for some chica you're nuckin' futs! The plan is to drink some more, eat lobster and wait for the primo chicas to show up after 8. It's worked before. Eat your fuckin' heart out.
Yep. You got me there. It's fucking 37 degrees here and I am not to happy about that. Enjoy the nice weather (and chicas) while you can because it is snowing in your neck of the woods.
Dear P: This evening's dinner was at a place right on the beach. Ceviche followed by a mixed grill of Langustine, Dorado and Shrimp, washed down with a better than average Chardonnay. Desert was a Columbiana. I know, I know, I'm such a prick for reveling in this so blatantly. But if you can get your ass to the Cocal in Jaco, you will thank me. Moonlight now glistening off the Pacific. I may move here.
I only bought a one way ticket, but planned on popping back to the states a week or two ago to take care of some business, but every time I would think about booking a return ticket, i would check the weather back in the states and end up saying to myself "Fuck That" Oh well, I have to go back eventually, but I am not looking forward to it.
Salt, meet wound. Both of you two will be getting a bucket of ice from me.
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I only bought a one way ticket, but planned on popping back to the states a week or two ago to take care of some business, but every time I would think about booking a return ticket, i would check the weather back in the states and end up saying to myself "Fuck That" Oh well, I have to go back eventually, but I am not looking forward to it.
It's actually a bit warm today, some might even call it hot. lmao
nudest resort. Only time I have ever been to one. It was strange to hear her being called by her real name while wondering if the others knew I was "John" for the evening. While she was talented in many ways, we never did get together again.
The guys would call up the first agency that popped up on google (which is also how I found the agency, too...I didn't know any more than they did about B&S or TER). They'd want someone to basically stay up till 4AM and 'bring the party' lolol. Some of my most interesting stories (and both of my client-bfs) were from that early part of my career - but I am no 'party girl' in any sense of the word.
I'd just never go back to that sh**, altho I have to admit that I enjoyed stepping out of my element...just briefly.
If a client experienced with nightlife wanted to take ME out, then I'd go along for the ride. But if he wanted ME to show him some great clubs and dancing...stay out till 4AM...and he wanted ME to be the driving force of the evening...I don't quite think I could manage.
I do have a girlfriend in this business who is a total party animal...I'd suggest that he go with her, or maybe we make it a double. But if he wasn't willing to consider either scenario, I'd explain to him that I didn't think I could provide the type of experience he was looking for...I mean, it's kind of like asking a girl born and raised in Manhattan to take you on a cow-tipping excursion.
I wasn't born in Manhattan..but neither was I raided in cow-tipping regions.
I like animals too much, anyway. The poor cows!!
