Hi everyone,

I am a bit perturbed right now so please excuse my rant if you do not feel the same way.  Everyday I try to think of new things to post on this site to make it more fun and interesting for everyone.  I am sure that a lot of you do the same thing yourselves.  It is even more difficult for us girls because we have to also post photos and weekly ads along with participating in the board dialogue.  Actually many don't because they do not really care about the content of the dialogue if it doesn't equate to dollars and cents.  That is cool with me because I realize that we providers are all business persons.

I have been a member of this site since 2008 and in the business for a few years prior to that.  I've stayed in it because I enjoy what I do and the people I do it with.  One of the things I really enjoy is participating in the board dialogue.  Yes . . .  some might say that is somewhat self serving if they are cynical but the fact is I get very very little business from TER since I moved to Panama City about 3 years ago.  The Fact is I really being a contributing part of the TER Community.  

Eariler today I posted a reply to a tread titled below as "Webcam - by Imcumn".   My rely was titled "I haven't done webcam but I have done XXX video . . . Here is a free link to one . . . enjoy".  Within my post I discussed why I enjoy doing video because it gratifies the exhibitionist side of me.  I did include a link to a video I did a while back because I thought the guys and some of the gals would enjoy it.  Yes I got a kick out of posting the link to the clip but I didn't receive one cent for doing it.  Since my stage name I used in the movie was "Ruby" the movie does nothing for my branding.  It was just supposed to be fun.  

It didn't take long before I femininity was attacked by one of TER's most tiresome sourpusses.  I reported his post and his attack was removed.  I guess that pissed him off so he or one of his few friends flagged my original reply and TER decided to pull my post down saying it was too much like an ad.

Isn't this board supposed to be entertaining?  If it is then it a certain element sure is making it hard for a girl to contribute to the process.  I guess if you really get down to it Every post we providers put up could be construed as self serving but in my case I just enjoy having fun when I am not working.  

I am one of the few girls who try to generate the conversation with stimulating topics that I believe make this site more fun for everyone even when it means I am the object of the fun such as the time I posted the photo of me peeing in the Florida board Wednesday Wet and Wild tread.  I didn't see anyone flagging my photo then when everyone was having such a good time belittling me.  Actually I enjoyed all the dialogue and bit-back and forth.

I didn't post the link this time because I didn't want anyone to misconstrue this post to be an ad.  It doesn't really matter what I post.  As long as you are reading it someone will construe it to be self-serving.

I may be self-serving but I really do try to be fun in the process.  To bad I couldn't post that link here because I believe it would have been a lot more fun watching that than writing or reading this.  

Why not . . . I've got the link, hell I got the move, so I am going to get my vibrator out and play with myself while I watch myself get fucked silly during that mini gangbang!

I guess the rest of you will have to continue watching the grass growing gif I did include for your viewing pleasure.  

TER hasn't made any improvements to it's format since I have been a member here.  It really is too bad because allowing video clips Would make this site a lot more interesting and would certainly enable the hobbyists to see what us girls looked like without all that photo retouching.

It would certainly make it harder for my friend Jimmy to confuse me for my driver.  What does everyone else think

they do have to maintain some sort of control, and with the amount of posts and people they're dealing with day by day, I suppose they have to follow protocol and abide to it if reported, just to keep things semi-fair.. nothing is perfect.

BUT.

You're right, that video would make things fun, lol. You're welcome to PM it to anyone should they request it!

I've noticed it's been kinda' boring too. Maybe the private boards are more fun at the moment, IDK. lol. Maybe the guys are all bitching at each other on the reviewers only board, lol.

Nah, I think it's because it's getting darker earlier and people are drinking too much to even put drunken posts on here, lol. They're falling asleep, or the alcohol is pulling out their 'deep thoughts' instead of their 'running mouths' lol.

I'm bout to do some drinkin'. Gonna' run down and do some fireball whiskey, then come back and type away.

This too shall pass.

xoxoxoxoxo

ou are long and boring. Not only that but when you weed out the meaningless minute details and actually center on the main point, guess what, it has been discussed a thousand times before. Go back to sleep.

But from my POV I don't really give a rats ass.  As long as a gal is interested in putting something up that is entertaining...as you have and do...it shouldn't be construed as an ad.  But it seems some folks like to attack others...and I'm one of them to be honest.  

I think one of the worst features that became part of this site was the RAP and ignore buttons.  More that the RAP was a "cheap" way to shit can the moderators and let the inmates self police.  Needless to say that has been and is a total fucking disaster.  The ignore button should only be used by those under 10...and they aren't supposed to be allowed on this site as I believe 18 is the minimum age.

But I doubt TER is bringing the mods back anytime soon...and the morons who hit the RAP will continue to be morons.  Frankly if someone (as in an adult over 18) is reading these boards and doesn't like some post...hey, don't fucking read it.

And honestly I think that is the majority that are on these boards.  There are some very immature hookers who post that they use the ignore feature...and a few incredibly immature johns who do the same.  But the asswipes who use the RAP have an agenda...such as iwishicouldcumbutcant.

Oh well...keep on posting amy as I would rather read your drivel any day than that of many of those who simply want to bitch about the obvious.

Lead, follow or get the hell out of the way.  Too bad some don't understand what that means.

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Don't give a rats ass what a hooker has to say !
Your angry about some post but bury these facts with a bunch of rambling to confuse us .
Who cares that your bored !
Who cares your feelings are hurt ?
Who cares a post got deleted ?
Who cares "you" think it's boring here ?
Go someplace else and spread your joy !
GGGEEZZZ ......... We don't give a rats ass about what YOU think this board should be !
I think Raisin Bran should have more raisins but realize its pointless to start ranting over it and buy Froot loops instead . It solves my problem and saves people a lot of time reading my ranting dribble !

And I'm willing to pop for some professional mental health care since I know you don't have any insurance to pay for this.

I guess you're hatred is quite deep rooted...perhaps all the way back to your childhood.  Was your mother a hooker?  Did she insist that you perform DATY on her.

Let's explore some of these things and maybe...just maybe you'll become an asset to society.

That means to me that I must be doing something right.  To be honest  I expect I will be doing it somewhere else soon.I like to hang out and have fun and lately I have had about six posts pulled for some bullshit reason or another.  I am tired of writing defences to my posts when I could be doing something fun and constructive.  That should make some thinskinned people happy but so be it.  

I have always been willing to offer my advice to any who asked or I saw needed help weather they be a provider or a hobbyist.  I know that you  can see from my reviews that I have always been honest or it would of been reported..  I know , just as most providers know, this game like the back of my hand.  I've been it since 2003.  Yeah, I can do the math.  I actually kept count during 2008 . . .   I won't share that number but there is not a hobbyist on this board with as many notches on their score card so when I do contribute especially.about screening or safety you can take it to the bank.

This is still the best review board "so far" but things change.  I am still hoping Ter changes with the times but I am becoming doubtful.  If I want to have my posts moderated by someone from India I would have just stayed at home in Burma.  It is best not to keep all ones eggs in the same basket.  I will still post on here, in the weekly photo treads and on the Florida ad board.  If you miss me send me an email and I''ll let you know where I have decided to hang out.  I am considering several places.

In the meantime everyone stay safe

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But to announce that you've had a few posts pulled...and maybe are being moderated...that you will "take your ball and go home"....sounds like what so many cried about a couple of years ago.  And most have come back to play here anyhow  LOL    But you still have a few that refuse to come back and would rather chat with the other 4 members who refuse to come back as well  

So I say to you...grow up and deal with the moderation.  Hey, why not send TER an email and ask if you can be unmoderated?  Novel approach  LOL

Or let a couple of immature asswipes drive you off the boards here.  Yep...that'll teach those mean boys/girls.  LOL

Oh well...maybe you aren't who I thought you were.  Too bad too...as most enjoyed your posts.  But if you're that thin skinned (hey...didn't you make that comment too?) that you'll run away...cest la vie.

He'll take the penalty as it's much cheaper than major med.

Plus I don't think ACA has a misogynist clause yet.  So nope...he still won't be covered  

and it looks like a few of the "sourpusses" took the bait. And guess what, all their responses were self-serving!  

Hey, PM me the video link, I wanna help out with your exhibitionist urge! We can mutually.. you know.  

Thanks for the post. Not boring (but damn, it Was long). lol

You may recall  was very vocal.  The reason I returned at all is that I have several friends who hang out heare from my old Atlanta crowd.  I am not going away completely . . .I never did before.  I will jut be hanging out elsewhere.  I did have a lot of fun here recently because I felt I could be a bit more open amid relaxed because my brread is not buttered here.  I really do not get very much income from ter anymore.  I am really surprised to have gotten three recent reviews here.

I could of just disappeared but was writing this to TER staff as much as everyone else.  I am not being moderated now but they never told me why I was in the first place or responded to why my post was pulled.  I imagine they are embarrassed.  I am sorry for disappointing you buy I just want to have some fun when I'm here and it hasn't been much fun lately.

I'll see you around and let you and my other friend know where I'm posting my fun stuff.  I just not going to post anything that contributes to the betterment an profitability of ter until the stop treating me like some 2 bit whore . . . Even if I am.

And I have been around to know more than I care to  recall about that.

Since you were writing this for TER staff as much as anyone else, we thought we would respond.

We responded to you on the 29th (same day you sent us a message) and advised you were not moderated. We also explained at times the system might delay some posts.  It has nothing to do with the poster.  This has actually been discussed several times on the Newbie Board and the Suggestion and Policy boards.

You have not been moderated since Feb 7, 2012 when you told us you understood the rules and would not again post personal information on the boards.

Now, while we like pics and YouTube and other videos as much as the majority of people on the boards,  putting personal pictures or videos on the General Boards and Regional Boards, still makes a post sound self-promoting, thus an ad.

We do not know how trying to apply standards/guidelines fairly is treating you like 'some 2 bit whore'

are interesting and some days, not so much.

For what it's worth, I like your posts, and I don't let the dumb posts get in the way of my enjoyment of the good ones.

Why not publish the moderation status of the poster somewhere on the site?.. On the right hand top corner, where it shows Today's date, VIP/Basic Member and TER member since "year", would be a good place..

Then publish on top of every board that certain random posts might be delayed even for those who are not moderated..

I could make post on S&P board, but thought I should add here since its relevant.

Can you huh? huh? lol. I was more thinking just the moderation status. I think asking them to post when the boards are delayed may be a bit much.

That or at least let people know
1. When they've been reported and for what - don't keep secrets... if a boss has a problem with an employee and he/she doesn't tell her employee something's wrong, he/she can't dock points on reviews or fire them. (My boss used to say that, lol)
2. When they're being moderated and why. (People continue to make mistakes not realizing they are. There are a lot of rules, understandably so, on here and someone may miss some... like me... you should see me drive,_
3. I don't have a third idea. I just needed a 3.

xoxo!

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1. I think that would add just too much drama...Since we won't work for TER, the usual employer-employee relationship doesn't exist here.  

2. They will tell you if you are moderated or not and why. They told me.. It was because of making insensitive comment.. Or at least whats deemed insensitive by popular culture. How do you know you are moderated? Your every single post goes in approval queue, but instead of keeping an eye on it, it would be nice if we could see the status.

I wouldn't have allowed it either. The GD has always been an "Ad Free" board, It says so plainly, just like all the other national boards. Whether DE was demented or not is besides the point. Current management is simply following the rules that have been in effect for well over a decade. Do I agree with them on everything? Of course not, and I am a huge opponent of "RAP" but in this case I have to agree with them 100% If I were still modding the board, your video would have been pulled in mere minutes. Sorry.

As for Jimmy's apparent obsession with you. that's a different matter and I will let you two fight your own battle, it's bad enough that I am White Knighting for admin, I am not getting involved in a hooker/john battle, well at least not today. lol

I always welcome Admin's response because it clears the air and don't have to try and guess what is going on behind the scenes.  

I would first like to clarify to the staff that I was not disparaging you with the two-bit whore remark.  I made that remark in the heat of the moment and in frustration after having been slandered in earlier tread that was taken down by staff and after an earlier reply to this tread in which I was called a rats ass hooker.  I am sorry that you thought I was referring to you.  Be assured that I wasn't.

I was moderated on Feb 7, 2012 regarding my posting personal the information of email spammer that included name, address, and phone number who was contacting us providers BY EMAIL offering to post false reviews here on TER because I had no doubt that what that person was doing would invalidate the usefulness of the TER review process if it was allowed to continue.  I did not nor would I EVER out anyone that I know personal information about through the course of my business or learned as the result of my participation as a member of TER.  My posting this information was a reply to a tread started by another provider.  As I recall the whole tread was removed but I am not certain of that now.

I discussed this with the Staff at the time in a series of messages back and forth in which I explained my motivations which I recall were accepted as genuine and without malice to the members of this board and TER.  As I recall my moderation was removed shortly and I did agree not to make such a public post again even if the person was not a member of this board but rather report it directly to the staff to take the appropriate action.  I realized later that TER could have a liability issue that I had not thought through before I was so naively careless.  

I have always protected the personal information of my dates and those I interact with on TER as if it was my own!

Finally, I finally received your response to my inquiry regarding being moderated late last evening long after I made my inquiry to you.  I accept that my post was randomly selected to be reviewed as you stated in your response to me but at the time the only experience I have ever had with a delayed posting of a tread or response to a tread was when I was being moderated or on the Politics and Religion Board.  I am sorry that I misunderstood what had happened to my post but I believe my original conclusion to be reasonable as I had never heard of nor experienced this since becoming a member in 2008.  I was surprised when my replies to comments within this tread started being posted immediately a short time after the original tread posted.

As to posting video clips. I did not believe that I was technically out of line since the links that I posted did not cause a photo of me to appear in my reply and I believed the posting of the link to be ok since it was within topic and I did not originate the tread.  The fact is every we providers participate in anyway with the dialogue on this site can be construed as self-promoting because it draws attention to us.  At the same time TER would be a very dreary place if we didn't.

Yes I will begin dropping such links into my weekly provider ad's in the future so stay tuned!  At the same time I really do think it would liven things up here if we could drop such content here, on the city / regional boards as it applies to a tread we didn't originate, if it was in response to the original topic, and if it was NOT directly self promoting.  

In any case, thank you for taking the time to reply to my tread because I feel a lot better now that I understand the staffs position and hope that you understand why I was so negative yesterday.

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I was trying hard to have a good day yesterday and was trying to liven things up a bit here.  Unfortunately it all backfired.  I do appreciate everyone's encouraging words and am looking forward to having a good day today!

I never get told I"m moderated, I can just tell. I'm only told when I ask.

I thought it was cool they responded too.

Do you think they are entertained by our drama, or do they get bored from the same ole' drama?

lol

I like your posts too. You're too cute.

in the fall and spring, when you live in the Florida panhandle. No place else I'd rather be in Oct. & Nov. and again in April & May. The summer is just too damned hot and sometimes the winter can be cold.