How many gents who actively post here have been a providers 'first?' Was it good, bad or indifferent?  

Each lady was absolutely wonderful. A bit nervous at first, which was understandable.  But after we chatted and eased our way into it with LFK, they relaxed and the rest is history.  

Sometimes it's been great and reminiscent of being a teenager again. A couple of times I could tell the girl was feeling rather awkward about having sex with a total stranger, but once we warmed up it was all good.

You surprised me saying you have been someone's first. I wouldn't have expected to find you walking that path - new to the industry yes, for all the reasons you stated, but not brand spanking new. Thinking about it...can they actually still stand after seeing you? 'Run ragged' is a visual that springs to mind lol...

I was actually asked by a provider I know to be the first for a friend of hers who wanted to get into 'the industry'.  She told me I'd be a 'perfect first date'.  I was truly flattered until it occurred to me that I'm probably so boring that she could count on the encounter being easy and uneventful lol.

I think that's very cool. I think firsts can completely elevate or fuck with your mindset. Mine was a guy called John (oh the irony). I was with an agency and I guess they told him I was English. I pulled up to his house and he'd hung up a Union Jack and came to the door laughing wearing a bloody bowler hat. He was a daft sod but defo made it memorable. Second guy thought he was riding the rodeo until he got bucked off. What a twat he was. Ahhhh... we live and learn 🙃

One thing I have found that you alluded to is that most younger girls who are not pros don't have a lot of experience with a guy with "staying power" because with very few exceptions all of their sexual experience has been with young guys who can rarely last more than five (or two)  minutes at a time. lol They are also VERY appreciative of a good tongue lashing as most of the non bi girls haven't ever been eaten properly

Oh, how chronology can change the course of history.  If John #1 behaved like john #2, well maybe that might have been your last rodeo and we'd never have this post, and instead we'd be dealing with some post about dick size in its place lol. So thanks to the daft sod for indirectly being responsible for your elevating the level of conversation here  Fun question as, like it or not, the first of anything is surely what we recall the best.    

Ahhh....so true
And on that note, firsts that were beyond my often high expectations:
Orgasm  
FMF experience
Driving lesson
House purchase  

I love this post which is fucking with my head a bit because again I wasn't expecting this. I'm not going to say you're cool GaG. I'm not. I'm not. I feel like a John. I need to 'see' you again before I write the review!

Some posters are just out and out fucking jerks on EVERY post. Others are spineless jellyfish who suck up to EVERY woman on EVERY post. I try to at least keep people guessing at just which GaGambler will show up on any given post. lol

... and I can identify with them all (except for the Oblivion as I've avoided rollercoasters/roads imitating rollercoasters regardless of the continent).  

Interesting that you think you've probably been every providers first solo woman but it make sense
I have to say whilst I'm aware of a shitload of male gay escorts I don't think I've ever come across a gay female escort who ONLY sees women.....
I bet that's made for some interesting encounters...

I've seen several posts by at least two other women on other boards.

She started to cry, I asked her to leave and suggested she try to make a living another way. Worst experience ever.

I think in her rush to post a brief message that fit totally within the subject line, she left out some words.
She probably meant she was the first solo female monger to "every provider she has seen," not "every provider."

Only once with a newbie who was a friend of a provider I had seen before.  She turned out to be one of the most beautiful woman  I had ever seen or been with.  Our two hour session was dreamy.  I brought her gifts, wine and a card to welcome her to the hobby and thank her for letting me be her first.  She went on to become quite popular (Chicago) and left the business within the first year having fallen for a client and moved to California and got married.  I often wonder about her and hope she is happy.  Was one of my best memories in 8 years of hobbying.

a certain regular of mine who suggested a 3 way with a friend of hers she had just met.   The let on to this friend that she was an escort, and she seemed intrigued, so she checked with me since we had done 3 ways with other acquaintances of hers and she thought this friend would be a good match for me.  She was.  We still meet when she's in town over 30 years later.

But he is male. There actually a review site for male providers whose clients are mainly or exclusively women and/or couples.  No it doesn't have the numbers TER has, but male providers for women do exist.  

One went like a normal doubles session. A lady I have seen a few times had friend that was curious about her friends lifestyle. She new I was safe, respectful, and easy going. She asked if I would be interested in see them both and I did. Other then one of the ladies being visibly nervous at first. It went  great. I never seen an ad for the new lady. Maybe I scared her off?

Yes it was. Thanks for the correction. I fix at least that typo. I don't know how "fat" became "Cat". I wish I could type ether on a keyboard or phone would work. Again thanks.

And I knew it from speaking to the agency. I picked up some flowers and her favorite beverage( speaking to the agency again). She was a bit neverous, but I just knew she was going to do very well as a provider, and she has done very well ...it's nice to think about being her "first", but I don't tell people about it usually. There is just something tacky about that.

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But what's their reaction when you ask them to rum you, but you tell them you won't return the favor? Maybe you are more of a Lesbian than we all thought.  

Captain Morgan suggests you bend over and rum yourself.

I was the second client of a delightful young woman who was paying off student loan debt. She was delightful and became a repeat for me. Her attitude that first time was sort of bemused, perhaps just a tiny bit detached, because she was learning how to act during an appointment, but the charming thing was that she really didn't understand that she would be very good at this and highly sought after. Her comment that day was "I really didn't think I could be any good at this!"

Had a friend in Vegas who I saw every now and then. After our last date she ask if I'd be interested in seeing her friend who is new in town after leaving her husband. She wanted to try the business and my friend thought I'b be perfect for her first.
I was hesitant at first till I saw her pictures. Very attractive early 30 with a nice looking body. So I said yes.
But there was one condition, my friend wanted to be in the same room, to watch, monitor and maybe to coach her along.
I thought it was weird but I said "Fuck it, sure why not".
We met and she was real nervous, I assured everything would be fine, just follow me lead. As we're having our fun, everything was actually going very good. There was a strong passionate connection. All the while our friend is watching.
Then our friend pulls up next to the bed and takes her top off. Now this girl had a set of DD's that were awesome.
So as I'm with the newbie, I'm also playing with my friend tits, the whole kissing and sucking thing...it was like a "mild" duo.
At the end all three of us had a good laugh over it....The new girl lasted a few months. She got an ad, had a few good reviews then she went back to her husband.... probably alittle more savvy in the bedroom I would assume.

I had made an appointment to see someone at an AMP. I was brought to the room and Mamasan said that my date was not available. But, "New girl. You like." She led in a new girl who must have been VERY new, as in first day. She was still in civvies (jeans, sweater), not customary garb for those places. She was very nervous. Mamasan had her sit on the bed next to where I was sitting (fully clothed). The girl was sobbing quietly. Mamsan tried to press the issue ("New girl. You like.") but I told Mamasan to be quiet. I tried to communicate with the new girl in my best Korean Sign Language "you. me. no. don't worry."  
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I got up and left, saying something non-committal to Mamasan like, "Maybe I'll call later to see if so-and-so is really available."  Maybe I should have said more than that.  
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I have since met other "new" girls who were ready and willing ... and maybe not really "new".

As others have experienced, my ATF had a friend who wanted to get started in the business, so she asked if I'd like to do a 3-way with them, something I can't ever resist. Turned out she was a former dancer who turned out to be very good at her new career. In fact, that 3-some was one of my top experiences ever. Made me think it may not have been her first time. Saw her again as her 'first' one on one (or so I was told) at what was not the greatest incall location (higher end motel), for which she apologized profusely. Again she was incredible. After that she was always at one of the best hotels in town and went on to make quite a name for herself (with the accompanying increase in her rate, although I was always grandfathered).  Fell off the radar a couple of years ago and is really missed.

... coz they are straight girls who aren't interested in anyone but themselves. Usually found on college campuses and edgy bars/clubs where they can make themselves seen and later claim to have had a lesbian experience to impress their friends.

She told me that I was her first, that may have been a lie, who knows. I'm not sure if she fully understood the Agency/Provider dynamic, in fact I know I don't understand it for certain. She didn't speak specifically about her relationship with the Agency, but her general comments led me to my conclusion. I was her only review, not sure if I was her only client. Too bad too, she is really cute and her performance was well better than average.

Autocorrect will get you everytime ... I think it's sneaky too.

But did he put the Union Jack up the right way?

My original ATF went through a phase years ago where she was more of a pimp than a provider. She thought that I would be a good first experience for her girls and reached out to me a couple of times, offering a discount.  

You're damn right he did. He knew how to navigate the United Kingdom - on multiple levels