Like most of you, I have a full PRIVATE life outside of all this.  And like most of you, I do everything in my power to keep it that way.  Luckily, most clients know better than to pry and respect my boundaries.  

I simply fess up and admit I just got laid.

Lucky you!

I have been able to create an image of talking much less than I actually need to. It wasn't easy, but its effective. My typical nature is exactly the opposite.  

The fact that my friends are providers is something they don't need to know.  Here at home, going out for an evening is not a problem...it's my travels to faraway places that are sometimes not so easily explained.  But it's manageable, and fun.  They know I like to travel, and have the resources to do so pretty much at will.  Plus that, they like to see the pictures of the places I go to when I'm not playing in my hotel room...

Schedule your appointments in times where they aren't looking for you or increase your meeting times so it doesn't look so suspicious... The guys can wait, hour long appointments usually take longer than just an hour anyways, and you don't have to have the whole day "open" to be successful... Stop buying expensive things and save the money, it comes and gos in this business and rainy days will happen- no one likes a desperate provider who couldn't manage her money... Keep a side job that has odd hours and will pay you cash/tips; picking up extra "shifts" and having a purse full of cash will look "normal"... And finally, tell the people in your life to butt the fuck out! Assuming you are in this business by your own free will, over 18/21, and are self sufficient, then what does it matter? I pay my own bills and my family doesn't know how, but as long as I am not asking them to fund me then they have no room to question nor ask. If you sound guilty, then you are guilty. Nothing to see here. LOL!

We all have choices to make in life, one of mine is to NOT live me life as a lie.

Which is, every pattern has nearly equal chance of occurring and tha is my secret.  

A very distant third to "you are stupid" and "you are grumpy" which is what most people say about you.

but limits me to the same routine.........day/time.........yet it seems to work for me.  Can choose to really go play poker with the guys.........or visit one of our wonderful Las Vegas providers.

you were married.........and did not have a kitchen pass.........and wanted to maintain a certain degree of peace and decorum in your household?

First of all, I am not ashamed of my choices in the least.  I love what I do and, when in the company of like minded individuals, I'm all too happy to share stories and discuss it.  

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I'm single and work for myself. Makes it easy for me to disappear anytime without a need for a story.  

and one of the main reasons I have no shame about what I am doing is that I am not hurting anyone, nor am I cheating on anyone.

Truth, plus juicy enough to keep anyone from prying more.

Being a hooker is and so is being a john, but Gag you know that the stigma is heaped heavily on the ladies..like most people can kinda get their head around two women fucking but are, for the most part, revolted at the thought of two men fucking...just look at the comments on here about man on man.

Why lie, if you don't have too? Lying and making up excuses is too much work and not fun. I hobby for fun after all.

It is admittedly much easier for a man to come out as a whore monger, Charlie Sheen is a name that comes to mind, than it is for a hooker who will immediately paint a bullseye on her back for arrest, but my point is, SOMEBODY has to eventually stand up and be counted if things are ever going to change

She thought I was joking!

Many johns disrespect hookers (IMHO) even though they patronize them. If that respect started here, then it might gain some  momentum.  

There are still anti-sodomy laws on the books in some parts of the country.  

That crosses over into hetero territory. I agree his bigger point is valid. However you can be gay and not indulge in sodomy...many gay women do not ass fuck. Not all gay men do either.  

Consequences much more serious than anything any of us face today. You might not be old enough to remember just how bad things were for gay people once upon a time. It took true courage to come out back then.

For me it's my real life hobbies. My hobbies can take me to many different in, or out of town places. Sometimes, there are hobby events that coincide with a session. I never deviate from this formula. Sometimes atfs write, and ask why I haven't come to see them. Well, the answer is in the hobby. Sometimes I can create my own event, much like your wedding band, but sometimes I have to wait for an event, in which case certain atfs must show patience.  

Dear Ms. St. Claire:
Just wondering what are the non-verbal clues that you get and how probative are the questions that you get with that?  Although you would tone your look down when you are in a professional setting, has anyone had any suspicion of you having a certain nocturnal occupation?  Also  have any inquiries come close to being right on target with respect to your obvious absence?  Finally just wondering if you can do it, are you thinking about rescheduling some of your appointments so that you can lower inquiries and suspicions of your co-workers and superiors?

That's fucking perfect!

If many in this world lack respect for this world, both the clients and providers, how can we expect different from the rest of the world? Just a few threads down there is a perfect example of this disrespect. As a group we need to realize if we want to see real change in laws and society it has to start with respectING each other.

And sometimes she asks me to find out if she sees the ladies. There is a difference.

exist for guys and ladies, even before ever approaching the p4p aspect.  While I have nothing to hide and would likely say the same as you, that I just got laid, if asked....I don't believe our female counterparts would feel as comfortable making the same confession as often as we all would have to if having to account to someone.  This is just considering regularly getting laid, without even bringing p4p conditions into view.  We fellas come in and show the just got laid look, even 3 or 4 times a week, and we get envy and high fives.  A lady shows up that way, and the labels start getting applied.  So, the need for "secrecy" is much stronger with the ladies.

I am on your side. It still was not illegal and one day when it is legal or at the very least decriminalized, things might start to happen. I am more worried about the cops than some religious fuck or some pissed off wife.

I for one make no effort to hide the fact that it's mainly hookers that I am fucking. So be careful when using absolutes like "all of us"

Hi Ava,