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Not comparing the viruses but the situations (eom)
Sheila Starr See my TER Reviews 3421 reads
posted
1 / 27

Avoiding The  Corona Virus ?

And staying safe having SeX ?

Tk you

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 121 reads
posted
2 / 27

...I was laying naked in bed yesterday with a 24-year-old SB who is uniquely interested in the rest of my sex life, and in the process of that discussion we meandered into her sugar world.  Turns out, her other SD is an MD who spends 2 weeks a month working in Los Angeles -- and he is coming back tomorrow.

So before our second round started, my (very) slightly ADD mind did the math -- I am currently seeing 5 women -- three of which are medical -- one in an emergency room, one in physical therapy and one home visit nurse.  And now number 4 is sugar-dating an MD from an area where community transmission is an acknowledged reality.  (I know, I know, the entire world is now on community transmission, but that's how my mind was working in the good old days of yesterday afternoon.)

I am not an alarmist in any way, but in the five hours after I put my skivvies back on and kissed Baby good-bye, the NCAA banned crowds, a local high school closed, the NBA suspended their season, a niece self-quarantined because she works at that high school, and Donald Trump at least began to acknowledge there might be a problem.  

So two issues -- the economy will start to slow, and many of us have lost a bundle in the stock market already.  So in my case, play money will begin to seem tighter, even if it really isn't.  And if the real estate market slows too much, it will become tight.   And second -- how are you guys and gals going to make a decision on playing -- who, where, and what activities?   Are you going to screen SBs differently?  Will traveling providers be just as attractive?  AMPs still possibilities?   Shower together BEFORE instead of after?  No kissing?  All P4P sex outdoors in a light breeze?

36363jensen 4 Reviews 126 reads
posted
3 / 27

Came across this simple formula for estimating the probability of someone having the virus at some type of gathering.  

Basic formula is: 1-(1-c/p)^g where c = the estimated number of carriers (infected), p = population size (here it might be the total number of a providers potential customers), g=group size (here that would be number of sessions a day).

The twist for providers (or mongers) is that one needs to sum the probabilities over a number of days (so some of the variables in the formula may change but you can probably just multiply by number of days to get a rough estimate of cumulative probability).

You can also use this formula, 1-(1-c/p)^g//N, on the Wolfram Alpha if you don't have a spreadsheet application you want to use.

For example, say a provider might see any of 5000 mongers on any given day. She has 4 sessions a day. Of the 5000, 5 are carriers.  The chances that she could be exposed to the virus are about 0.4%. Assume she works 5 days a week and the pandemic will continue 4 more weeks. 20 x 0.4 = 7.9%

Those as just numbers I made up so everyone can make their own estimates for their own situation.

LenaDuvall See my TER Reviews 185 reads
posted
4 / 27

Reading it has alleviated a little of my anxiety. Even besides P4P / civvie intimacy, I'm feeling so conflicted about socializing in general. I'm a clean freak and an introvert so some of the tips are things I've already been doing. Using hand sanitizer, frequent hand washing, and covering my mouth when sneezing with my elbow are all things I've done for years. And I would joke with my friends about being a hermit. But the thought of not going anywhere at all even as someone who isn't a wild partyer and doesn't need to leave my house all the time for a 9-5 job is stressing me out.

JIMBOY 149 Reviews 143 reads
posted
5 / 27

Video is about 6 1/2 minutes long and definitely NSFW!

Sheila Starr See my TER Reviews 159 reads
posted
6 / 27

Wow...Great!
I guess that allmost says it All..

1.
& Very good Hygiene .
Shower
brush teeth  
Mouthwash
Before Session
Take Your Vitamins  
2.
Doctors Visit
Have A Check up
Get Physical
Etc...
Then Lets Get Physical  
SeX Baby

36363jensen 4 Reviews 125 reads
posted
8 / 27

Of course the problem is it only takes one person to fill up their car at the pump after someone sneezed on it 10 minutes earlier, not wash their hands and then pick their nose.

So, numbers game, and, like the AML mantra: know you customers (or provider ;-)

But yes, life is short anyhow so make the most of it!

GaGambler 114 reads
posted
10 / 27

Have you EVER sneezed on a gas pump handle? I can't even imagine how that could even happen. rofl.

 
But yes I get your point, I Just tried to come up with a mental image on how I might end up sneezing on a gasoline pump handle and it cracked me up.  

 
It also reinforces my opinion that since you can catch the cold, flu or Corona so easily by casual contact, or in your gas pump example, no contact at all. I would much rather come in much closer contact with a handful of attractive young ladies than come into casual contact with hundreds or even thousands of people by being in crowds, stores, banks, subway stations etc.

-- Modified on 3/16/2020 1:39:34 PM

36363jensen 4 Reviews 107 reads
posted
11 / 27

lol

Personally, no. I tend not to sneeze on much other than the inside of my elbow if I don't have a tissue, napkin or something similar handy.

But I agree the imagery of someone sneezing at the gas pump is amusing.

I have seen people sneeze and cough without covering in a lot places, and I suspect even if I have not seen it personally more than one person in the metro area I live has done so at a gas station I have filled up at.

I agree with your general proposition that 1) the application of some basic common sense in health and hygiene will go a long way in protecting a person from catching the virus, 2) there is a random element to getting infected that even the most virusphobic person here will still have exposure to and so a lot of what we're seeing is going to be looked back at with a bit of a laugh.  

I think we differ on the assessment of what the virus might be doing. I don't think the risk of death is the only concern, and to some extent not even the major concern for me. This virus hits a lot of organs besides the lungs, and it is not clear yet if that is temporary or will produce long term effects. Nor do we know just how well correlated to severity of the symptoms any long term impacts might be.

Robertini 4 Reviews 133 reads
posted
12 / 27

thinking that nobody had said anything. But you have and probably others have too.  
OK I'll check the links posted here later today.  
But for now this is what I posted:  
Nobody is saying anything about hobby safety on the News. The people who are married and will be inside the same house will be OK. So will the be people in relationships. They can make each other sick, right? Hmmm, no because they will go their own ways after they "get together". Some people date. I don't date. I never dated. But I hear about social distancing but I don't hear anything about people having sex. So I'm confused.  
I was thinking that maybe they should tell providers and hobbyist if not everybody to practice safer positions where the two people don't face each other. Then to take a shower before they part. When it was they HIV virus they were telling people to use condoms, now nothing.  Maybe I'm wrong. But I don't know. Nobody is saying anything.  

I don't really care or worry that much. But I just wonder about stuff sometimes (before reading what others have posted or looking it up on the internets)

harvey44 33 Reviews 147 reads
posted
13 / 27

It's obvious.

No close contact.  That includes sex.  It's over until we find a cure.  Simple.

Sure, families are together.  We have no choice.  But if we could isolate every single person, we could flatten the curve in no time.  No contact-no transmission.  Unfortunately,  not possible.  

Presume you are infected.  (For this site, presume they are infected.)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 131 reads
posted
14 / 27

fat lady moans, and since I don't see fat ladies, its not ever going to be over for me unless I have to quarantine myself.  I've seen over 20 new providers since this all started, and I'm not ready to join the hysteria yet.  

-- Modified on 3/18/2020 3:55:01 AM

Kaylie See my TER Reviews 138 reads
posted
15 / 27

Sadly I just cancelled my first big money making tour of 2020.  I normally drive (alone) and stay in nice hotels (alone)  and honestly see on average one client per day, that's zero in some cities and as many as 4 per hotel in places like Arlington VA  (for example a 4-530pm, 7-930pm and 8-9am, 10-11am).  Of course I shower between clients.  Now  I have spray sanitizer for all surfaces and bring extra pillow cases to be sure we have fresh clean ones for each...  Unfortunately, many of my friends are older and simply not leaving their homes.  Better safe than sorry... but at some point we all have rent to pay...Let's hope it doesn't get to the point where folks stop taking precautions!

Robertini 4 Reviews 101 reads
posted
16 / 27

and get immune to this. Whoever dies, dies and this will be a virus that humanity will have to live with forever.  
Just like when a bunch of Natives of these lands died of new stuff to them.

I have never washed my hands so much as now. Some people believe that not so clean hands keeps you healthy.  
Kids who used to play outside (I know they don't do that anymore) in the dirt were more healthy than over protected kids, who were disinfected and kept inside.  

I don't know it could be an option and it's nature. Like Rambo said, If I die, I die.

impposter 49 Reviews 132 reads
posted
17 / 27

Posted By: Robertini
When it was they HIV virus they were telling people to use condoms, now nothing.
Not all viruses are the same.  
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HIV is spread by transfer of body fluids, including semen. Keep the fluids in the bag and it does not transfer to the partner.  HIV, the virus itself, does not survive very long outside of a host. It ceases to be infectious after a very short time exposed to air at room temp.  
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The current coronavirus is spread by aerosol transfer (breathing in droplets or dust particles floating in the air) and several other common methods. Also, CV remains infectious for many days once it is on a surface or in the air. I don't think that anyone has bothered to measure semen samples for viral load and whether it can infect a partner in utero, in mouth-o, or on face-o.

mrposition 10 Reviews 122 reads
posted
19 / 27

..had covered doggie in the shower/no curtain/kept our space while pre-washing using our own soaps...covered up..no touching except my balls slapping against her ass....hope we kept safe,but it was weirdly exciting.. going again 2nite

36363jensen 4 Reviews 120 reads
posted
20 / 27

There was a reference to a study I was a couple of weeks back that seemed to conclude the virus was not transferred vie seminal fluid. I don't think there has been much research on the line -- and clearly little interest in publishing it.

As far as the suggesting about limiting positions and using masks, that seems to just fit into the whole social distancing and hygiene theme.

eagleiii 8 Reviews 115 reads
posted
21 / 27

The good news is that even though I have temporarily removed myself from the scene, my budget for recreational activities continues to grow (stock market not withstanding).

So when we get to the other side I will be ready to burn that recreational budget.  

WICardinalfan 115 reads
posted
22 / 27

And how old are you?  Frankly, I would like to live a bit longer, visit more ladies, and see my daughter have children.

I am of that age that is older and on the cusp of being, I hate to say it, a "Senior".  We are not Italy, letting the elderly die from lack of resources.  

So if you die, you die....fine with me. I, for one, plan to hang on for a while longer.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 161 reads
posted
23 / 27

Is usually not an accommodation they allow fathers.  Most hospitals will only let he husband watch.  

 
You didn't have to say "Senior" here.  Keep the dirty language to yourself.  Lol

lololancer 33 Reviews 128 reads
posted
24 / 27
coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 108 reads
posted
25 / 27

If you shut up long enough, you can learn how to be humorous in a subtle way.  Your three stooges style isn't working for anyone here.  Other people are starting you advise you to shut up.  Get a clue.

silkynsweet See my TER Reviews 129 reads
posted
26 / 27

... before I became an escort and I would love to do it again. I like dressing up in different outfits and I liked requests for different outfits and content like fetishes. I am down to Skype and play. :)

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 123 reads
posted
27 / 27
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