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balathazar 1 Reviews 253 reads
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...I have two pieces of advice. One, check her website, a lot of ladies state on their website a list of nice gifts they would like. Two, ask her outright. After a wonderful session with her, ask her about some of her favorite things like music, scents, bath needs, lingerie, etc...

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chitownswede1629 reads

I have special provider that I really like.  I have seen her twice and intend to see her many more times. I enjoy giving small presents to my ladies when we meet.  Since I plan on seeing this particular lady alot, I need recommendations for gifts.  I usually give $50.00 Victoria Secret gift cards or good perfume. This has worked out great for me for up to two visits. I need to expand the list of gifts that I give. I would think that providers appreciate gifts that can be used or spent. Flowers are nice and not out of the question but do not show as much thought as a nice personally selected/wrapped gift.

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balathazar254 reads

...I have two pieces of advice. One, check her website, a lot of ladies state on their website a list of nice gifts they would like. Two, ask her outright. After a wonderful session with her, ask her about some of her favorite things like music, scents, bath needs, lingerie, etc...

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cecilia of dc264 reads

offer to take her shopping, or ask her what her favorite store is,
find out her size too,
most women love shoes, you could get her a gift card for that too.

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Bostonguy57458 reads

I have an ATF that I have been seeing once or twice a month for well over a year now. I also like to bring small gifts when I go to see her. She loves scented candles and this has worked out very well as the candle store seems to have a never-ending supply of new fragrances. Also CD's and books as gifts are a great way to personalize the experience though you may need to get to know her a little better before you can figure out what her preferences are.

FWIW, most ladies I know love flowers but not when they are working.  Discretion is very important and a steady stream of gentlemen callers walking through a hotel lobby with flowers all heading for the same room would set off quite a red flag!

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GodsGiftToWomen763 reads

That doesn't work, Give more Money.  It's business, not a date.

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shudaknownbetter231 reads

chitownswede, I'm not a lady but I have been seeing a Fav Provider for over a year.  I have recently found a second Fav, so you can see it's a short list.  I do bring small gifts.  Scented candles is most common, music you both like is a good gift.  Luxury bath products come to mind but be sure she's not alergic to anything first.  I often chat with my fav's after & I pay attention.  One explained her heritage to me in depth & I later found a trinket which honors that tradition & she recieved it warmly.  

Now, I have to ask...  Are you objective here?  Are you falling for her?      

-- Modified on 3/1/2008 6:35:09 PM

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chitownswede459 reads

You guys (and gals) are great. Thanks for the ideas and thoughts. Candles are next with a $ bonus.....then I will see if our pre/post convervation reveals any ideas.  
And yes, if she and I were in different circumstances, I could easily fall for her.

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oleguy606 reads

Take her something that she can't get for herself.  Something that may be special or have a special meaning to just the two of you.  I know what my ATF likes and I think the world of her.  Am I falling for her?  Of course.  How can you not visit with someone regularly and not develop feeling of friendship and not like them at the same time?   Heck, I think I love all the women I've visited with, at least when I'm with them.

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chitownswede169 reads

Thanks, guys(and gals) this does help. Oh! and yes , I could easily fall for this one. as has been said here--"at least when i am with her".

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smilesandsuch259 reads

WOW... sorry that I have missed you ;)~

here are some sweet not so crazy high priced ideas...how about a coach keychain or some other nice designer keychain? They also have nice ladies pen sets, things like that. If the ladie likes martinis a couple martini glasses and fun yummy martini mix, stationary is great with flowers nice touch, GC for mani and pedicure,
ask her about her interests ....if she likes Horses find a nice big book on something she cares about, I will tell you what...a nice long massage goes a LONG way, and you will be thanked and remembered and seen again I am sure ;)~

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