I met a new client this weekend.  
We talked about his very recent introduction to the hobby.
He is so new and innocent, sweet but he has so much to learn!

It would probably cost me more money trying to recoup my loss.

This would be a Jail or Death experience with her driver. I'm really a nice guy Brenda most of the people who have seen me will tell you I am funny entertaining and a easy client. You don't see 20 girls in this hobby without making connections. I will say this. I'm not a push over. I'm not afraid to go to jail for what I believe in. You can form your own conclusions that it wouldn't end pretty. I wouldn't lay a hand on her but the driver or pimp would get me the money back. I have no doubt in my mind  

Absolutely. It would be a well thought out plan so I wouldnt act in haste and make some dumb mistake.I would be relentless and make no mistake about it, would get my money back, and probably some extra for my troubles. I play by the rules in here as most of us do so when someone pulls that crap it really pisses me off. And I feel the same way when when some jerk short changes a lady or worse. You are right Brenda, just another reason this should all be legal.

It's not like you can go to the police and report getting ripped off by an escort. And trying to get it back from the escort could leave you with a knife in the gut or a bullet in the brain. Count your losses and move on.

Your friend has to ask himself "just how far is he willing to go to get his money back if indeed he gets here face to face?"

Report her, so she's doesn't do this to someone else...  Tell him there's a hobbyist only section on TER to involved with & probably other venues for him to report.... If she's on TER tell him to contact Ter admin/support ... So her profiles is deleted.. This business, both hobbyist & providers are going to meet low life's like that who rips both side off but site like this weeds them out...  

Several years ago I was in Phoenix on business. Had a few drinks at the bar and decided to call a service that I found in the Yellow Pages in the phone book. ( told you it was several years ago! ).

I have.. and I'm sure others have as well..

Someone I knew in high school tried something similar. He answered an ad on Craigslist to purchase a computer for $600 he showed up and this two black guys robbed him. Instead of cutting his loses he chased them down and got shot multiple times and died with his girlfriend in the car.  

First, that sucks! Second,  She sucks!  
I would out that fucking thief everywhere possible.  
She's got that coming, but that's all he can do.  
He should never see her again because there is NOTHING  
he can do that wouldn't catch him a criminal charge.  
It's an expensive lesson. Never let them leave with the money.  
I've heard of the "no condoms" trick where the  
Provider will leave her bag while she runs to the store  
(her bag is from the GoodWill Store stuffed with junk) and she never comes back.  
Welcome to the hobby.  
It's shit like this that makes me stick to my regular's
Definitely inform other hobbyists about this SNAKE!

So you are going to put yourself in a volatile situation where there is a high probability you end up in an armed confrontation?  That driver is in the business of ripping people off, so he is going to be prepared.  So you want to risk a hearse ride or jail time for $900?  Really?  

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All the TERs in the world are not going to prevent hos from burning tricks.

If she says she has a driver, or someone else she needs to give the money to, I would immediately inform her that the date was at an end, and she can leave the donation where it's sitting.  I'm hyper alert to any situation in which a woman could pull a cash and dash on me.

I'd still just let it go, if I was ripped off by a hooker

Plus a dangerous game.
The guy doesn't appear to have " hobby savvy". Until you , whom he's lucky to have met , I bet he was booking tgtbt BP or EROS ladies who had no reviews ....just a sexy ad and a phone number.

Eventually it'll catch up with them. I've had some poor sessions, but never a rob.

While it didn't put the cash back in your pocket, and it's not going to stop them from continuing to operate the same way, you wasted her time, and the agency's time, and at least she wasn't out ripping off someone else while she was out looking for you. As long as you had the time to kill, and it made you feel better, why not?

I agree that it is best to cut your losses and learn from your mistakes. Unfortunately, not every person in the hobby has the best intentions. But there are some spectacular ladies and gents out there. Despite being ripped off a few times, I still love the hobby and appreciate all the great people I have encountered. The good certainly outweighs the bad.

then believing in Karma is very naive. Thinking "what goes around comes around" or "it will catch up to them" in this life is silly. While some people get what they deserve, tons of people go through life fucking people over constantly with no repurcussions, and tons of good people go through life never doing a mean thing and still have all kinds of bad things happen to them. It's just "life happens." There is no "karma."

f the donation was $3000 would you still chalk it up to a bad experience? I guess 900 is not a lot of money to most people here. Since most people said they would do nothing. I value a buck and it's more principle than anything. At what point do you have to do something to get your investment back? If it's a bad session I can deal with that. No session and just to be robbed like that your messing with the wrong guy.  

That is one of the reasons why this should be legal,there are other reasons like poor sessions form the providers to discourage you to come back,providers who charge $600 or more and performed very poor and many more,but like I said karma is a bitch and everything that people do will come back and bite  you in the ass!,one day will be legal just like marijuana and them all of these abusive providers will have to accept to work under a regulated fee and with a smile on their faces or not make any money it all,everything that we do in life sooner or later has consequences,be ready!

There is no way to get the money back.

Bravo.

waited in the parking lot to see what car she was in then followed her/them. (If you had a car).  May have found out where she lives, were the car is parked,  etc.  
From then on let your imagination run wild.  You won't get your money back as GaGambler said but there is some sport in this.

So, you never cheated on your taxes.  Never went overboard with a deduction, which you knew was improper.  Always claimed the exact amount of charitable contributions.  None of us is entirely innocent.  Moreover, risking your life or jail time for a $900 or $3,000 ripoff is just plain idiocy.  Actually, insane.

You are now officially my hero!!

Assault can be just as simple as a threat, battery is obviously physically attacking someone.  
Despite what tv demonstrates the responding cop knows that A&B trumps the fact that someone got ripped off.  
So hobbyist or provider you'd best chalk it up to schooling.  
I'm not married but I can imagine someone explaining the arrest to wifey

So I'm guessing you've had these kinds of showdowns in the past. You'd make a good martyr ... a role model of what not to do IMHO ... Get your testosterone in check and save it for the ladies.  

Heck, I agree with this. Chase after the car and pop some rounds into the driver's tires and mirrors. Most under the table "businesses" are scams in this day and age.

reporting doesn't help. too many wk's on ter profiles with bogus review information. inflated reviews. some guys get blacklisted for no good reason at all.

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And that's what you will see in jail: lots of salt and someone will stick their battery up your ass

near mine if I knew was empty.

just expect a little return fire once you pull your piece.  

A world where all good people lived great, happy lives and where bad people never prospered,

I never said his ass would get money back.. I said report it so it doesn't happen in the future.. You should actual read the responses instead of skimming & reply snarky remarks!!! 😡😡😡

I was fortunate that my first encounter with a lady from SoFla went as good as could be...almost 12 yrs. ago in NYC, and we still meet at least a dozen times a year in NYC, FL, and elsewhere.