...to cut off the relationship at any point.

...to  not be interrupted during my baseball and football games. No GF and Wife BS....

...to hobby outside the SB/SD relationship..

Now, only if I had that kind of disposable income...sure.

If I'm the Daddy. I need a Momma.
I mean..
If I were ever to do that type of thing. It would be to better myself.
Learn women?
I can't and wouldn't just buy a girl stuff so I felt cool.
It wouldn't make me feel cool anyway.
What I am trying to say I guess.. Is..
I would only get into a SD relationship if she would tell me the woman's secrets.
Show me what the ladies like.. Educate me..

I like the ability to have variety when I want. If a provider is a good I will see her again. There have been providers that I have 10 to 12 times. After a while it gets boring see the same ole girl. Also in both provider and sugar-babe relationship the women are not always available. It is much easier to find a provider at the last minute that has been on your shopping list.

If I could afford it, with the right girl I would be interested, but it won't happen because it is not in my budget. Unlike some of the guys here who hobby daily, weekly, biweekly, monthly, etc., I have a few sessions per year.

Say I pay a healthy monthly figure (maybe $5k). How do I know she will let me fuck her as often as would be reasonable (once or twice a week) with the same high level of performance and booking convenience as if I scheduled her on a per session basis?

I've had a provider I saw repeatedly over many months gradually decline in her appearance and in both the enthusiasm of her performance and the number of cups in a session. When that happened, I simply focused on other women until she got lonely for my money and sent me a sweet email seeking another booking. In that case, the most money I'd lose is the donation for one sub-par session.

In the case of a SD deal, she could slack off or become unavailable for 30 days. Which would be absolutely fucked up for me and logical for her given she's still hooking daily with others.

Also, why would I prepay and commit when she's still doing multiple daily sessions with other Johns? Makes little sense to me outside of a long-term (e.g., annual) exclusivity deal where she's taken off the market and I have daily access or guaranteed 3x/week access and she pulls her website, TER profile and Eros ads, and kills her escort email after sending a blast email to all clients explaining her "retirement". Even then, I don't know whose cock she's sucking or fucking when it's not mine.

We kept in touch by phone, and when I want a night out that's what we did. Dinner, activities, then overnight at my hotel. I paid for everything and when I took her in the morning I gave her  3 or 4 hundred. It worked well while it lasted. She had never hooked, didn't intend to and was very happy with the money. I was much older, so she would call me for advice and help, sometimes for a little extra cash - 50 or 100 - that was fine.

But I would not do a monthly allowance.

Interestingly I have recognized more that a few providers I know on SD/sb sites. I'm not interested in a SD arrangement with a pro.

I assume you can have sex whenever you want - non-negotiable (within reason). So If I had the income that allowed me this, most certainly. I would rotate favs every 3 months or so.

-- Modified on 3/24/2013 4:00:03 PM

Both have their pro's and con's but you're right, more bang for the buck with SB's.

Have met several SB's, all 20 years or more younger than me, and the price of an overnight was only a nice dinner and maybe $300 - $500.  Can't beat it when the situation is good.