You can not use an alias to post a review.

Is there a way to post a review under a different screen name?  I want to review a provider that made the point of asking not to be reviewed.  However, I believe in the TER concept and team responsibility in this regard.  This involves a case where the performance wasn't awful, but the pictures posted were absolutely and completely misleading.  I figure she can always go for de-listing in the future, if she really wants to.  Unfortunately, I think I gave her too much personal information in regard to prior references I've reviewed, and I don't want her to trace things back to me.

post a problem report (See the link of the gal's profile.)  Tell TER management why you think her photos are bogus.

This process should ensure your anonymity.

in which you are allowed two TER IDs is if you write TS reviews.
It seems there is some issue with guys that see TS women (specifically pre-operative) not wanting folks to know or fearing difficulty seeing other ladies, so they are allowed two IDs, otherwise I am pretty sure you are only allowed one ID...
Now, if the original poster's issue of misleading photos is because the lady he saw was a pre-operative TS lady and there was no penis in the pictures... then , yep he can use a second ID.

However, she might still link the two together.

Again, to my knowledge, the only time you can have two IDs is if you review TS providers.

If you create a second account to do this review you risk having both accounts banned.

What I would suggest is writing "support" or "staff" and asking what your options are.
They could allow you a second ID for the sole purpose of writing the one review, or be able to tell you how you may be able to report this without "outing" yourself, and / or risking the woman knowing who you are.

It would suck if you created a second account to write the review, and lost both accounts so that the review wouldn't be able to be used by anyone anyway, since it (and reviews under your original handle) would be gone.

What would be the problem if she knew who posted it? Or do you want to see her again?

Why fucking even do a review? Keep your fucking mouth shut.

I mean, you're here to meet these ladies, but you want to write a review under an assumed name? WTF's your fucking problem?!

Either do it truthfully, or don't do it at all.

Goddam. Rocket scientists and brain surgeons. Fucking freaks come out at night, I guess....

Like I say, I gave her too much information.  If she was intent on revenge, she could possibly locate me and cause untold damage to my personal life.

It's just a responsibility I feel to inform fellow hobbyists that might otherwise make the same mistake.  I mean, it's supposed to be fun.  It sucks to be mislead and disappointed.  I certainly wouldn't have wasted either my time or money if I had been informed, so I would like others to be.  Flame me if you must, but it's just me, I guess.

Do you really believe that???  WTF!   If everyone followed that advice, the whole TER process would be useless.  I even strongly disagree with the "de-listing" procedure being available to providers however I assume it's a legal issue.

BTW. it is "write a review"  , not "right a review".  Geez, Louise!

Most of us, at least those of us with our nutsacks intact, prefer the truth.

As for the right/write spelling mistake, maybe it's freudian in nature, or more likely, he got so upset at you that all the blood rushed from his brain down to his vagina. rofl

Unfortunately the system is not perfect.

Maybe you could write to admin and ask if they have any suggestions, that and perhaps make a post on the "suggestion and policy" board.

I know the White Knights here believe that all providers are made of "everything nice", but those of us who live in the real world know better. "Hell hath no fury like a fuglie exposed" lmao

...admin about your question, as well as file a  problem report, as others have posted. If you’re on reviewer’s board, post this info & provider name on it as an alias, also can back channel hobbyist via PM.

The OP has already stated he felt very misled, he goes on to say that he fears retalliation if his calls her out publicly as he has apparently provided her with an amount of personal info that exceeds his comfort limit.

The question here is whether his desire to share this information with his fellow hobbyists should trump his wish to not have his life turned upside down by a vengeful provider.

I can't answer that question for him, and neither can you. It would be easy for me to say, "Fuck the consequences, out the bitch" but it's not my life that is in danger of being ruined.

then I think that request should be honored. However, if it is a RO, B&S or extremely poor service in some way then all bets are off.

What would happen if Jiffy Lube wrecked your engine during an oil change and asked you to please not write a review at the Better Business Bureau?

This is why TER exists. Absolutely there are fine lines as to what constitutes B&S with regard to outdated photos. That decision must lie with the reviewer.

If a lady asks not to be reviewed you should honor said request except for cases that others need to be warned. Examples are like you stated B&S,  Robber, less than advertised service, upsell, or any other kind of fraud. In the case of old out dated pictures it is up to the client to beside if it is a bait and switch or not. I do feel that a lady should know who her accuser is though. If I was the OP I would post the review under my TER handle if I felt a warning review needed and let the chips fall as they may.

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I was just saying what I would do, not what the OP should do in his situation. I have little to fear from being outed as those I am closest to, like my wife and father, already know I hobby. Now blacklisting is a bit bigger risk but I do have a few providers who would stand up for me and I would know as soon as she did it. Anyway I can get it at home so the hobby is not all that important to me. It is why I give providers a large amount of information if requested. It is also why I wouldn't hesitate to post a necessary warning if needed as a provider could not ruin my life.

I was only stating what I would do. Now, if he gave out more information than is wise in his situation, he may have to ignore the whole B&S thing and not review. He should also learn not to give out more information than he is comfortable with being outed as sooner or later any information given out may get spread. It may be wise for the OP to remain silent as he may have way to much to lose like his wife and kids. Only he can decide what he can risk in order to warn us of this B&S. I never state what he should do as I do not have the information needed to make that call.

I do feel that if he decides to "Fuck the consequences, out the bitch" he should do so in a way that she knows who her accuser is. I think it is cowardly to blast someone's reputation and hide that it was you who done so. If I had too much to lose to publicly out her B&S in a way she would know it was me, I would remain silent and hope someone with less to lose would do so. Of course it is easy for me to say this as I have little to lose and am not in the OP situation.

P.S. I heavily screen to avoid messes like this.