How many of you hobbiest immediately X-Out a women when her profile states '"CBJ"? I know for myself, it is generally an immediate "move on to another profile". I am not one to cum very often from BJ's but still it is an immediate disqualified for me.
I saw one gal who did CBJs on the basis of a recommendation from someone I trusted who told me that her CBJ beat most gals BBBJ. So, I took a chance and indeed, they were right. Sadly, they are no longer in the biz
but if I meet a massage provider and we graduate to full service as is sometimes the case, I don't require BBBJ.
We meet, she gives great FBSM, as I continue to visit frequently, she adds kissing, then DATY, then toy play, and then full service. If she won't suck my cock I'll get over it. I really don't even want a CBJ if that's all that is offered.
Fortunately for me, the current object of my lust seems to love licking my dick.
How many of you hobbiest immediately X-Out a women when her profile states '"CBJ"? I know for myself, it is generally an immediate "move on to another profile". I am not one to cum very often from BJ's but still it is an immediate disqualified for me.
I was scarred about BBBJs when I started with the hobby but as I grew in experience I realized that that was foolish and I was being paranoid , however I never cum form a BJ covered or not so in essence I don't know if this would make much difference for me.
That being said , I think I would be ok seeing a lady who only does CBJ, however that makes me wonder about more restrictions that she might have and that would probably scare me off the most and I may not go through with the date.
EX : I had seen a gorgeous provider in the past , I fell in love with her looks and immediately set up an appointment . I got there and we get down to it and she covers me up for BJ, I was like " ok " but whatever , after that I wanted to lick her pussy and she tares up a condom and says you can do DATY but using a dental dam . And no DFK ...... I lost it at that point , I couldn't even stay hard It was a total bomb. Although the woman was stunning , but all those damn restrictions made the whole experience unnatural and therefore not enjoyable. So I probably would stay away unless she has many Steller reviews and no any other restrictions other than naturally a condom.
I hate limits , such as no DFK , No FIV, no DATY etc
... CBJ can be a YMMV thing. For example, I know a provider who gives a great CBJ, plus is exceptional in other areas. But once she trusts you not to CIM, she'll go BB. Finding gems like that is why I'd never rule out CBJ without looking at the full picture.
I got back from seeing someone this evening who did bbbj and dfk off and on throughout the whole session. It was fantastic! Adding a condom in that mix wouldn't have worked. I would have been wearing it most of the session.
I have had good experiences with girls who did cbj, but they've never been the best sexually. I guess if you really like the look of someone, or the reviews indicate a personality type you find attractive it can still be worth it. But generally speaking a girl who does bbbj is going to be more erotic, more sure of her seductive nature, and more focused on teasing the guy into esctasy... so there is more to it than a piece of latex between the mouth and dick.
I saw another girl recently who did cbj. I picked her out because her body was a 9.x and I liked her face. The agency I used guarantees bbbj and dfk. I didn't get either. She was a lot of fun, we laughed a lot. I took her to dinner after the session off the clock. We had a smoke together on a bench before I left and talked for another ten minutes. Warm feelings, and I didn't even consider contacting the agency about the discrepancy. Of course, if the bitch had kicked me out on time I would have been all over that agency
my 2 cents.
Posted By: TennGambler
How many of you hobbiest immediately X-Out a women when her profile states '"CBJ"? I know for myself, it is generally an immediate "move on to another profile". I am not one to cum very often from BJ's but still it is an immediate disqualified for me.
Actually menu isn't a huge factor in my choice. Only must haves is massage and HJ. I have happily seen FBSM ladies, "safety girls", GFE, PSE, and subsequently and enjoyed my time with each. Personally, looks, and professionalism all trump menu. I only insist on HJ being on the menu as often it is the only way I can finish. And I love a good back rub. Repeat positive reviews about a ladies massage skills trump repeated praise of her BBBJ skills in my screening. But I am a mangina, so what do I know?
I prefer a BBBJ like most guys but many CBJ providers have a lot lower rates. With a $200 (max 250) provider, I'm ok with a CBJ if I like her looks and other things about her. At 300 and above I expect a BBBJ. So, it is not a deal breaker for me until it reaches a certain price point.
I had one client who was used to brothels, and he insisted he wear a condom during his blowjob. The request was unexpected and I was unprepared (I didn't have flavored condoms with me) and YUCK, I will never forget the horrid taste of rubber in my mouth. I was also nervous, when I was deep throating his cock, the condom might slip off and I'd swallow it. Which leads me to my final hatred of CBJ's...I didn't get to swallow and enjoy the taste of his warm cream.
How many of you hobbiest immediately X-Out a women when her profile states '"CBJ"? I know for myself, it is generally an immediate "move on to another profile". I am not one to cum very often from BJ's but still it is an immediate disqualified for me.
Interested in hearing active hobbiest opinions.
When I know I am visiting a non-GFE (e.g., AMP), CBJ is the norm (with occasional bonus BBBJ thrown in) and I am fine with that, within the setting.
When I am looking to visit a GFE, I say she is not GFE w/o BBBJ (from Profile and Reviews).
So, yes, if advertising as GFE, CBJ is a big negative for me
While I greatly prefer a BBBJ (um, who doesn't?!?), having a profile that states CBJ isn't a deal killer. First, I'd be interested in the rest of her profile and her reviews. If everything else seems like a good match, then I'd probably still see the provider. Second, unless I'm looking for a quick nut, I'm there for a lot more than the BJ anyway.
I used to think the same way, but a good provider isn't going to make you cum ASAP. My first experience with this we were doing 69 for about 15 minutes and apparently she was waiting on me to say I was ready for FS, which I had no idea.
I've had another experience where the BJ was off and on 5 minutes at a time, soft and slow, some DT, some BL and SL, then some attention to the rest of my body and back to it, and when I finally was getting close I told her "don't stop". At that point she because very vigorous and finished me.
I guess we don't know what a good BJ is until we've had one. That experience raised the bar. I don't generally do reviews but the requirements for being a 10 on performance has gone up.
I guess we don't know what a good BJ is until we've had one. That experience raised the bar.
"Did I ever tell you about the worst BJ I ever had? ... It was GREAT!" -- stolen from someone else's TER post from around 2009 or so.
Actually, I have had TERRIBLE BJs. I described one of them in a review that got rejected:
I'll leave out the verbal details, but here's some of the summary:
overall looks: 9 [beautiful model material!] overall attitude: spoiled bitchiness overall atmosphere: measured, not pleasured overall performance: 2 - Should have stayed home
I met with a well known provider, average look and performance score both about 8.5. She regularly get's 9/10s. The BJ was all teeth. She was very nice and I didn't have the heart to stop her even though I was cringing the whole time.
Just thinking about it... comparing the feeling of a beautiful woman with a sexy bod bouncing up and down on me, breasts bouncing in rhythm, watching her face as she hits the right spots... or in mish, our bodies moving together in unison with her legs up over my shoulders, kissing at intervals... or the feeling of my thighs slapping against her gorgeous ass as she tells me to go harder, harder... or...
Anyway, you get the idea.
BBBJs are great, but I'm trying to figure out how they've better than FS.
Imagine my reality: a favorite lady of mine: big fake boobies which I love on a spinner frame, beautiful face and deep blue eyes. And this lady can suck cock like very few can. Imagine 80 minutes of a 90 minute session, being rimmed, TF, BBBJ, DT, HJ, and PM....brought to the edge over and over again. imagine her finger rubbing your prostate, cock deep in her mouth, her tongue swirling your head and she gazes at you with azure eyes. Strongest, longest deepest orgasms in your life. Because she swallows, post-orgasmic pleasure as she continues to gently blow your softening cock.
But IMO 80 minutes of a 90 minute session exploring many and varied FS positions is at least as fun as what you described, and unless the woman really enjoys doing a BJ for 80 minutes, she'll probably enjoy the FS route more, especially if intermixed with DATY etc. (which is fair since the BJ session you described had more than BJ in it).
So I'm still trying to figure out how the BJ beats FS... IMO of course.
..and CBJs are fine. Just use a heat-passing non latex condom, such as the Supra, and some lube, and it feels damned good. BBBJs pass gonnorhea, which is rapidly becoming drug-resistant.
BBBJ is far more unsafe than DATY ans kissing when it comes to bacterial born illnesses, as the link in my previous post says, because it invilves the back of the throat, and the other two do not.
Noone ever got gonorrhea in their THROAT from going down on a woman. Contrary to some actor's claims of getting chlamydia or whatever in his throat from his actress wife - the only way he got anything in his throat was by having a dick down there.
And for her to get anything that she could give to you through DATY, one of two things has to happen. She either has has had BBFS with someone infected and/or someone with an oral infection went down on her. If you have gonorrhea on your mouth (like herpes), if it is infected and contagious (1) its pretty obvious and (2) how in the hell are you feeling like putting your painful or sore covered mouth near anything????
So messing around with someone who does BBFS? The problem isn't her but your choice to not use condoms.
will check all other options first. Of course there are some ladies that are just too damn good at the other things they do to let this stop me from seeing them.
It's gonna take me a lot longer to cum an at some point to take it off an finish with a HJ. It's always nice to have a girl go down on me with or without a condom. But I definitely don't prefer it an would continue looking unless I really wanted to see her
Depends on price and appearance. I will immediately X-Out a provider if the price is significantly higher than other providers with a profile that states "CBJ" Otherwise, if the reviews read well and the provider is attractive to me, then it is not a deal-breaker.
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