We all know in the hobby game a provider and hobbyist may not click. For whatever reason the hobbyist, and provider may get into a heated text, verbal, or e-mail war with one another many insults being thrown around.

As longs as no one's trying to phyiscally hurt the other person, or doing some crazy stalking ish, I see nothing wrong with a little roast battle between the two.

However whats up with hobbyist making fun of providers for selling the booty? And Providers making fun of Hobbyist for paying for the booty? Something brought you two here, so how you insult the other person for being here?

Is there some sort of self hate going on in the hobby world?

after she decided not to see him that
"he was pathetic for having to pay to
get laid". he DOES NOT if he chooses not
to. some people have elevated themselves
so high that they can't see their feet, or
their livelyhood, anymore.

Dude, I'm all for altering my mind. It's fucking crazy out here. Turn me on, brother. I can dig oxycontin and all the opiate extracts.....  

The OP has to be the stupidest post since McDonald000's last post.  Or maybe your last post.  Enjoy your orgy together.  Fuck!

Damn it nicky... I thought you were MP's friend?  That was pretty mean.  

He's endured my prose for an hour or so on the phone.

To him it was probably an eternity, lol!

Matter of fact, I got so sick of my own shit I fell asleep and now I'm back to regale everyone else with my expertise!...

From what I understand you're a lady of exceptional quality. Someone to be seen, and be seen with.

Someone called you a whore. So what. We're all whores. Doesn't matter specifically what we do. We just do the impossible for the ungrateful and get little, if anything, in return.

The thing with you is you're a beautiful and resourceful lady. Your time will come, and in a good way. You won't want for anything, ever.

This alias is for you, magic.

Do hobbyist and providers actually get into verbal altercations? I'm sure it has happened. I'm not sure it is common; certainly not enough to be a premise for reasonable discourse...

I will forever think of you as "The Stupidist."
As typist is one who types, a stupidist is one who 'stupids.' For you the monikor is apropo, grammerical error and all. It is bestowed with the fondness one has for a person who makes them laugh.

Please continue to share your thoughts and observations.


HH

I find it humorous when the replies use analogies to compare us. guess we got something in common. Don't let their teasing discourage u from asking questions that benefit the hobbying community.

Answer to ur question: as u may have noticed. There r all types of "haters" in the world. Some may dislike ur appearance, ego, success, career, the way u talk, or what ever. They find small things that to pick on. The term is called cultural dissonance. Superiority vs inferiority. Ethnocentrism vs cultural relativism. Anyways, simple put, our egos may get in the way of our humility. One may feel belittled by others success, power, or whatever. They make those statements to make themselves feel better. A part of that is also self-esteem. They have to boast in that manner to have dignity.

An intelligent man boast his power with his lectures, a strong man through his physical attributes, a rich man through his possessions. And, some1 without power, well, what is there to do but insults.

There is hate all around u, and no1 can escape that. The world is not perfect, u may have noticed that. If the provider insult the hobbyist, she's got insecurity issues. If the hobbyist insult the provider, he also has insecurity issues. Both parties need to know professionalism.

Anyways, I have had some experiences like that before, but it wasn't a direct insult, it was more passive. So, I left her and found another. BTW, keep posting, despite their teasing!

She was new to the whole escorting thing. Her ad showed up that very day. I was asked by a mutual friend to book a session and write a review on TER and a local review board. So I gave her a call made an appointment for later that day and I rented a room as she didn't have an incall to host. I warned her that I was obese. When she got to the door she called me a "fat fucker" and left.

Her friend made up for it later and reamed her friend in front of me for the way she mistreated me. The provider that called me a "fat fucker" didn't last long. I don't know if she ever managed to bed anyone for money or not. She was obviously not meant to be a provider. I wish her well in what ever she ended up doing.

I posted about it at the time. The link to that thread is below.

Now on a happier note, Here is Demi C from MetArt.com. Enjoy

A TRICK

your a trick?

Self hate?  No.  More like a love-hate relationship that many sex workers have with their clients and vice-versa.  Not all, but some and certainly more than most of us would care to admit until a member of one side of the transaction gets pissed at a member of the other side of the transaction and the insults of "whore" and "loser who has to pay for it" start flying.  

It is what it is.