from the menu the gal is offering.

No decent provider will ever hold it against you to avoid something you don't feel comfortable, to say nothing of happy with doing.

If she asks you to do something like DATY and you don't want to do it for whatever reason, just say that you'd like to pass on that.

Or men are supposed to DATY even though you don't BBBJ.
What is the expectation of provider?

for performing BBBJ on a man, than on receiving DATY

I fully respect the right of a provider to make business decisions that she considers to be in the interest of her health, and those others she comes into contact with

Because it is a business, providers generally do not *expect* daty either - that is for you to decide, if you enjoy it.

My own preference is for BBBJCIM and daty. That's how I shop.

DATY is work for me and I love doing it only for certain providers. I would only do it if I like her and that she enjoys it.

As for BBBJ vs CBJ. I don't mind CBJs but I would not refuse a BBBJ. In fact, I prefer CBJ, or HJ over any BJ. The reason is that I love to kiss and I would rather not taste the cock of the guy ahead of me. But that's just me.

If you decide you want to do it that's your business.  No one is forcing you.

Envelope, decent hygiene then?

Providers as whole are looking for men that are polite, have good hygiene, and an envelope with the right amount of money in it. Some have other standards on things like age and other stuff but those are the big three. Very few lady's will see a jerk twice. Anything else is a bonus.

You said scoed...btw how are you doing?

Nothing personal GTM but you have posted this meaningless link many times even though you yourself pay it no heed! We all know there is some risk in any sexual behavior but I find a link describing risk but leaving out percentages completely useless!

Seriously, how do the various risks compare to crossing a busy street, driving a car, swimming in the ocean, etc, etc...  I could die tomorrow from a bite from a black widow spider. Is that more or less risky than a bbbj!? There is already WAY to much misinformation in this world. Please don't make it worse.

that the *possible* risks of a lady receiving daty are much fewer than a lady giving BBBJ.

It's that simple.  But of course, nobody can tell you the probability density of the associated risks....

Providing is a business.

She has to balance income / services offered / risks to her own liking. And many providers choose to place credence in information advocating "safer sex". Hell - it's her body..... even if I am renting it for an hour lol....

You and I both choose BBBJ.  We are free to choose the risk / reward that pleases us. And so far receiving BBBJ has never bit me in the ass.