A dude you just wanna' hook up with for fun is knocking down your door. Do you tell him what you do to avoid the "You lied to me, I'll get you for this" or do you keep it a secret and go for it?

And keep your business to yourself.

Keep your secret a secret.

just go for it..good 'wanna' fucks do not come along every day..unless you plan on making him your SO..secrets are best kept secret..

I am curious more to what "knocking down my door means"  is he being demanding?  Could smell future trouble.
If not...go for it in secret.  I would love to be a providers "wanna fuck" someday

I'm not looking for a significant other. When I say knocking down my door, I mean pursuing, any disrespect obviously would not be... I've just had died I've wanted to get with consistently pursue me, & I obliged. I doubt they would be trouble if we both consented to an NSA encounter.

personally. If he has enough personal information on you, he could make your life miserable, either way! If he doesn't, don't tell him, and when you're ready to break it off with him, tell him your old boyfriend wants you back. You're in trouble though if you find you really want to develop a relationship with him. If you suspect, right off the bat, you may want to develop a relationship with him, best tell him up front. But, remember, don't expected rational behavior, on his part, when the passions start to flow! Perhaps, not even on your part!  

Unless and until things start to  head toward a lasting relationship.

Funny thing about those numbers, the ladies have to reduce theirs and the guys generally increase theirs.

I never tell people that I know that are "not in the hobby"  Why should I??  Have fun!!!  Go for it!!!

Yeah, the double standard still persists.  I don't believe in it, but it's still around for a lot of guys.  

Someone I would only be using for sex has no right to know shit about me.

by the time I get close to a serious relationship, I may need to come up with a different ratio lol :/

I don't know what my actual number is, but it's got to be somewhere around 3,000. How do you tell a woman she is number 3,001?

I remember having to admit to a woman that she was number five of the day. Of course she had already figured it out anyhow. Well not the exact number, but she knew I had fucked enough that day that getting me to cum again at 3 AM, after several other ladies and enough booze that I most likely would have flunked a breath test two days later without drinking another drop, was an effort in futility. lol

Is to meet a provider and date her without ever knowing she is or was a provider.

and then see if he can still get wood with ya!

"I thought I was just doing really well with you".
Go for it. Call me lol

Once the information's out, you lose control of it.

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*hides behind the hotel room door*

No?