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I'd say my answer would be conditioned on how much he knows about you..,
mattradd 40 Reviews 270 reads
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personally. If he has enough personal information on you, he could make your life miserable, either way! If he doesn't, don't tell him, and when you're ready to break it off with him, tell him your old boyfriend wants you back. You're in trouble though if you find you really want to develop a relationship with him. If you suspect, right off the bat, you may want to develop a relationship with him, best tell him up front. But, remember, don't expected rational behavior, on his part, when the passions start to flow! Perhaps, not even on your part!  ;)

Jacque_Jenesais1918 reads

A dude you just wanna' hook up with for fun is knocking down your door. Do you tell him what you do to avoid the "You lied to me, I'll get you for this" or do you keep it a secret and go for it?

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Crisis25455 reads

And keep your business to yourself.

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justanillusion426 reads

Keep your secret a secret.

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Rudy50336 reads

Unless and until things start to  head toward a lasting relationship.

If and when the topic of sexual histories comes up, ask him first:  "So, what's your number? And escort hookups don't count."  That way when the question comes back, you can leave out your 2,345 professional sessions. ;)

(Oops, meant to be a reply to Courtney at the top of the thread.)


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justanillusion329 reads

Funny thing about those numbers, the ladies have to reduce theirs and the guys generally increase theirs.

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Rudy50311 reads

Yeah, the double standard still persists.  I don't believe in it, but it's still around for a lot of guys.  

From the movie American Pie 2 (2001):

 [Talking to Vicky while she's hanging clothes back up on the racks at work]

Jessica: If a guy tells you how many girls he's hooked up with, it's not even close to that. You take that number and divide it by three, then you get the real total. OK, so if Kevin is saying it's been three girls it's more like one or none.

Vicky: None?

Jessica: The rule of three. It's an exact science. Consistent as gravity.

[Later, in a discussion among the guys]

Stifler: When a girl tells you how many guys she's slept with, multiply it by three and that's the real number. Didn't you fuckers learn anything in college?

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Jacque_Jenesais407 reads

by the time I get close to a serious relationship, I may need to come up with a different ratio lol :/

Posted By: Rudy50
Yeah, the double standard still persists.  I don't believe in it, but it's still around for a lot of guys.    
   
 From the movie American Pie 2 (2001):  
   
  [Talking to Vicky while she's hanging clothes back up on the racks at work]  
   
 Jessica: If a guy tells you how many girls he's hooked up with, it's not even close to that. You take that number and divide it by three, then you get the real total. OK, so if Kevin is saying it's been three girls it's more like one or none.  
   
 Vicky: None?  
   
 Jessica: The rule of three. It's an exact science. Consistent as gravity.  
   
 [Later, in a discussion among the guys]  
   
 Stifler: When a girl tells you how many guys she's slept with, multiply it by three and that's the real number. Didn't you fuckers learn anything in college?

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GaGambler373 reads

I don't know what my actual number is, but it's got to be somewhere around 3,000. How do you tell a woman she is number 3,001?

I remember having to admit to a woman that she was number five of the day. Of course she had already figured it out anyhow. Well not the exact number, but she knew I had fucked enough that day that getting me to cum again at 3 AM, after several other ladies and enough booze that I most likely would have flunked a breath test two days later without drinking another drop, was an effort in futility. lol

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macdaddy1944351 reads

just go for it..good 'wanna' fucks do not come along every day..unless you plan on making him your SO..secrets are best kept secret..

Posted By: Courtney.ova
A dude you just wanna' hook up with for fun is knocking down your door. Do you tell him what you do to avoid the "You lied to me, I'll get you for this" or do you keep it a secret and go for it?

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klark101358 reads

I am curious more to what "knocking down my door means"  is he being demanding?  Could smell future trouble.
If not...go for it in secret.  I would love to be a providers "wanna fuck" someday

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Jacque_Jenesais328 reads

I'm not looking for a significant other. When I say knocking down my door, I mean pursuing, any disrespect obviously would not be... I've just had died I've wanted to get with consistently pursue me, & I obliged. I doubt they would be trouble if we both consented to an NSA encounter.

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mattradd271 reads

personally. If he has enough personal information on you, he could make your life miserable, either way! If he doesn't, don't tell him, and when you're ready to break it off with him, tell him your old boyfriend wants you back. You're in trouble though if you find you really want to develop a relationship with him. If you suspect, right off the bat, you may want to develop a relationship with him, best tell him up front. But, remember, don't expected rational behavior, on his part, when the passions start to flow! Perhaps, not even on your part!  ;)

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JennaCovelli385 reads

I never tell people that I know that are "not in the hobby"  Why should I??  Have fun!!!  Go for it!!!

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London Rayne335 reads

Someone I would only be using for sex has no right to know shit about me.

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Jacque_Jenesais318 reads

*hides behind the hotel room door*

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escalade1964312 reads

Is to meet a provider and date her without ever knowing she is or was a provider.

HOT!!!!!!!!!!

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BizzaroSuperdude302 reads

and then see if he can still get wood with ya!

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OSP317 reads

"I thought I was just doing really well with you".
Go for it. Call me lol

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tg_baby310 reads

Once the information's out, you lose control of it.

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Jacque_Jenesais418 reads

No?

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