I had an early morning date this past weekend with my favorite provider. Upon my arrival we Exchanged a passionate hug and a great DFK after which I excused myself to the restroom to wash my hands. In the bathroom I found the towel basket which is usually empty on my visits completely full. Umm okay. Tried not to think of it and told myself this is P4P after all. Still it was a big boner killer. Upon returning to the bedroom  we started with fully clothed foreplay. After we were both  fully warmed up we got comfortable and there they were, bruising on her thighs.Boner killer number two. I made no mention of it but she saw me staring at them, I couldn't help it since they were very obvious. I've had vigorous sex with civvies and providers before but never left bruises.Do some guys mark providers like hikers leave rock piles while hiking to let others know they were there?  This was actually the second time now I've seen her with bruising on her thighs.  
  We still had a great session but my high afterwards was greatly diminished by the stark reminders that this is P4P. Guys, have you ever experined things with a favorite that was a Buzzkill?Providers,do you have any tricks or techniques you use to conceal or get rid of bruises left by your dates?

SO a few weeks ago I had a civvie date, and I absolutely LOVE it when a guy licks, kisses, sucks on, and practically bites my neck... I have NEVER had any long lasting marks...  

She might have taken a tumble or likes to play some kind of contact sport.

Why not just ask her what happened?

She should have ditched the dirty towels.

I don't know how many times I wacked my leg against a bedpost or dresser trying to walk around a dark hotel room.  

God I cringe just thinking of this....

Aren't you supposed to be more adventurous than this...

CK, I really like your style.  Very wise & classy of you.  

and sometimes even stretching can cause bruises if I'm stretching on a hard floor. I get plenty of bruises on my thighs from dancing. If she's fit you should just chock the bruises up to exercise. If she has low iron bruises will just happen for what sometimes feels like no reason.

or administer psychotherapy. If she was not okay she would not have been working what was an obvious full day.

You're right. She truly is a sweetheart who always treated me right and I should've thought I hope she's not being abused.I took the glass half empty view,the laundry basket full of used towels didn't help

n fact, there was a provider in your area no less, on the Newbie Board asking about how to cover bruises because she was on a Roller Derby Team. She could just be clumsy. I busted my ass twice last week, and it was not during sex lol.

London, your ass in not busted, it just has a crack in it...

I feel your disappointment.
Simple tips I wish some providers could heed:
1)Order fresh towels; it is nice to see that you don't get the "last towel"
Removing used ones is included.
2) remove clutter from around the bed, room, bathroom...just nice to see a provider make an effort
3) bruising: sex or otherwise ... happens & we gotta deal.

What's the matter, no one can believe that some girls have pimps who beat them? And they beat them in the body so as to not mess up the face?

And some guys, even after a shower, still smell la little musty.

the reverse is also true. Guys who go around thinking all providers must have pimps, are clearly seeing cheaper girls and project that mentality onto women who could not be anything other than Independent. Rarely, is someone over 400 an hour being pimped. Most pimped women are forced into being high volume, or they would get clipped. A provider only seeing 1 guy a day ( or even less) is highly unlikely to have a pimp. Even agencies don't like dealing with low volume providers because they view us as lazy. They want women willing to see 3-6 guys a day, on short notice, and not bitch about what the guy looks like or what color he is.

Years ago when I was hobbying in DC, there was a young lady I would see whenever I was in town. On the day of our scheduled visit I called her (before texting and email) and told her I was just a block away. She said "great" and told me to come on in and make myself comfortable and she would be with me in a moment. So I enter her apartment and settle in. The door to her bedroom opens up and she walks a guy (staring sheepishly at the floor) right past me and out the door. I am in shock! She then says " ok, I am ready for you" . . . I got up and left without saying a word.  

Sheesh. The only thing I've seen or read so far worse than that is the scene from "Brooklyn's Finest" when Richard Gere (cop and john) is sitting on the steps outside the apartment of the hooker he loves, listening to another guy banging her.

very nice of you to eliminate evidence of other clients.  i too know this is all p4p but i dont like to have my face shoved in it.  i'd rather have my face shoved somewhere else.

doing the lady K-9 like watching it slide in and out oh oh what's that few more strokes yup it that time of the month BUZZ KILL

I was seeing a young latina years ago, as we getting ready, she asks me to reach over to the night stand and get a condom out of the drawer,  well, the drawer was loaded with condoms, not just a few, I mean loaded with condoms. I got over the shock quickly and proceeded with my business.

Yep the drawer full of condoms is indeed a buzz killer.

..spot on, Rod1 We're all people and p4p doesn't mean uncaring. Guaranteed that if you show up bruised as hell at a session, the provider will ask if you're OK before anything else takes place.

Did you not hear of the high end Vegas pimp bust earlier this year? The ladies were all "very well reviewed" on TER, and even posted regularly on the boards. Rates were 600 per hour and up. Everyone thought they were independant. Sure, nobody should assume that all providers are pimped but also don't assume that all "high end"  indies are not pimped! Just goes to show, that you never know, and it is not always obvious.

I used all the towels I wanted, because I could! So towels in the bathroom don't necessarily indicate a woman has seen multiple men. I mean I may be different, I don't know, but I haven't had an incall with more than one guy in years. And because I know I don't have to reserve those towels for more than one guy any more, I use them as I see fit! Back to the bruises, I've had a client fuck up my legs, but I also wake up with bruises regularly. As a kid I walked in my sleep, so I believe I might be doing the same thing at 30 yrs old, because I haven't had a client who leaves bruises in years, but I still wake up with them.

That's why I said "Rarely." 'Most' pimped women are from backapage...that's just a fact.

If the drawer is still full, it's obvious they are not getting used all that much lol. I buy mine in 100 count tins, and that could take a year to go through.

on another site mainly, and I went to visit her one night at a VERY upscale hotel. As I walked in.. I was like WOW  

Okay most of the topics here have been BEAT TO DEATH. So I'm just gonna touch on a few...

Okay most of the topics here have been BEAT TO DEATH. So I'm just gonna touch on a few...