Does size matter to a provider?  I'd like to get a providers point of view on this subject.

thank you.

It matters to some more than others. LOL!

No, size doesn't matter. But...sometimes a longer one will hurt me. I just tell the gent, that my insides are tiny...I know with my body it doesn't look that way, but we are all made different.

I have noticed with my clients who are larger whenever I tell them that, they go "really, i thought I was average."

My thing is oral...so unless your talking tongues, yeah, give me a long tongue...I have some screaming to do..lol

Shaye

Small, and bad - huge disappointment
Small, and good - huge surprise
Big and bad - such a waste
Big and good - absolute heaven!

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fun even if he is average size.  But 99% of the time for most women, size is so low on the list of What's Most Important that it's practically off the list.

But most women who tell men that size does matter are hostile toward men, and are just enjoying messing with their minds, because they know that most men are so vulnerable on this subject.  They enjoy hurting men in subtle ways, like masking their "size matters" comments and subtle sexual putdowns in friendly-sounding conversation.  

discussions among 3 late 20/early 30 women.  The first sexual thing they talked about the men they met was how big or how small their equipments are.  Judging from the giggles, signs and laughters they had when individual sizes were mentioned, I easily draw the conclusion that size does matter.

vibe that he's trying to beat her into submission, it's a turn-off (unless, of course,she's in a mood where it's a turn-on, LOL, but a man shouldn't just assume she feels that way - make sure she has given you strong signals before you decide this is what she wants).

It's just that most women don't want to feel like he's trying to beat her into submission.  If she stays very wet, you're probably doing fine, even if you're going at it pretty good.

if they know a man is listening that's part of the fun too, kind of a "girls only" joke at his expense.  

Or maybe, if he is big, it can be a way to stroke his ego or reward him for being a nice guy.

was not on guard so to speak.  In fact, one complained that her husband's penis is too small, the other said she won't keep a boyfriend if he is less than 8".

They giggled when the big and good ones were mentioned; signed when the cute and handsome guys they met had small ones; laughed when they talked about someone who had a tiny or thin one.

I mainly listened and kept my mouth shut in order to collect all those priceless info.

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like some beautiful ladies are ice queens and some plain looking ladies are sex machines.

The good thing about this fantasy world of hobbying is that hobbyists should just enjoy themselves and not worry about their sizes unlike what happened in the real world.

Happy hobbying to all.

It's a way of saying "the men judge us by our boob size and things like that, so we'll just do the same to them!"  LOL!

But a man's size really has very little to do with the pleasure that a woman feels, and women who mention size to men are mostly just being mean and messing with his mind.  It's easy to do with men, because they are so insecure.

Women who enjoy being mean in this way to men are messed up, plain and simple.

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Correct: It's not really the size but how you use it!

I think it has something to do with all the factors, including chemistry, the motion he is using to please you with, or it could be all about him. If it is all about him (which consists of wham, bam and boom)most likely she is waiting for him to finish lol

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a sexy, beautiful woman who enjoys Greek.  There were no misunderstanding about it.

We just have to agree to disagree on this one.

like a sweetheart all the same.

Size means nothing. Asian regardless of size. Big, small, lean, thick. It don't matter. Asian c be the best.

size of your wallet? yes
size of your dick? no
I'm not exaclty the biggest or tallest of the male population, so naturally the entire anatomy is proportionally average sized at best, but somehow the last BBBJ I received felt great regardless.
enjoy what you got and brush up on your oral skills. that's what I did and it works for me.
likes to lick, mr.man

So Spec. are you going to do a Specasar report? on penis size and link it to these ladies emails??? LOL!

I don't know why guys should concern themselves with something they can't really do anything about anyway.  I can't imagine it's as important to a provider as it might possibly be to a  'civilian' woman there is money involved.  But WTF...how many guys are often asked "Is it in yet?" or have a woman decline intercourse because it's too friggin' big?

listen to honest opinions of some still relatively young women about men in general.