Have you ever had a 1st session with a provider that was so perfect, and so etched in your mind as such,  
that you didn't see her again? For me, it's the fear (fear?) that it could never be duplicated, hence dulling  
the memory of that perfect evening. All three were one and done, first time seeing her. And I have no regrets.  

I've been blessed as it's happened 3 times.  
One was a 5 hour squirt fest (my first) and I didn't take the opportunity before she retired. 10 years ago.
Another was a 2 hour squirt fest ... There's a good chance I'll see this gal again. April 2016
One was a recent 90 minute date that morphed into a sleepover, where I was ravished again at 4 a.m. and then again at 8.  

NONE of these was with an ATF. But the dates were among my ATFs.

 


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Well, if she'll have me back anyway. I did have one over the top experience and despite trying to schedule, was never able to hook up with her again before she retired a year later.

Along the way I've learned to not try to duplicate those perfect first dates. I just let nature take its course. As I write this, I'm thinking of one of those near-perfect experiences I recently had. It was our second encounter. It was just this morning. I though she was a real keeper after the first, and this second date can only be described as a fantasy come true. As we parted, she mentioned how breaking from routines was fun. Now the pressure is on to think of something creative for our next time!

I was in Chicago for a few days and met a young fresh one in a luxury hotel.  She said she is a music student and was only in it for a short time.  I had to get into 69 with her.  I had done this with many women but her image just forever burnt into my memory.  Next time there, she quit long before.  I was never able to locate her again.  

This is part of it, sometimes something so perfect happened and it became only a memory and there is no chance finding it anymore even knowing that she is out there ... who is she? how is she doing in her life?  

I contacted others, but no one has answers.

All while in Vegas on a late night spree at about 3am. Two were a pros/CG's, the other was a Russian Civie who was on vacation with her family....Long story on the Russian but all three nights are still etched in my mind. Would love to see either one again...but I ain't going to Russia.

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the second session is better than the first, so it begs the question that if I stop after one session that was great, how do I know the second wouldn't have been even greater?

as one of my strongest desires is to see that girl asap.
It's been the very next day and with a few, first thing the  
next morning when possible ... even with agency girls as  
I then prefer to see them before agency hours. Of course,  
WITH the agency's permission. No makeup required...lol

The ones I to which I referred ... just too damn unique to
diminish with a lesser performance which could be my doing.  

Im really not overthinking this, I guess you had to be there?

My language pet peeve.  Sorry.

To beg a question is to infer an answer in the asking of the question, such as the infamous line:  Do you still beat your wife?

I hear the term misused all the time even by people who should know better such as media types

subsequent sessions get even better, though sometimes not.  Still and all, it would be foolish to not see someone who provided such a wonderful session

I repeat for sure ... 100 times with one gal, many as soon as the
 next morning. lol  But I 100% agree with your point as it's my  
modus operandi. Except on the ocassions mentioned.  

If that's foolish, so be it. But the image of those evenings is still as vivid in my mind as the night they occurred.  

I'm not looking for agreement or what we do ALL the time. I'm asking about unique and has it ever happened to anyone else.  
I'm not expecting an avalanche of consensus.  

I can find all the outstanding encounters that I can afford. LoL
Soooo ... Once in a Lifetime... for me, it can occur more than once because I let it. I refuse to key semantics get on the way.  

When it comes to sex.

starting times with agencies.  Some will work with you and some won't.  I had a great run a few years ago with a hot Viet girl who worked as an RN three days a week, and then at an agency two or three days a week.  She would meet me at 7:30, we did a couple of hours, and I hardly missed any work.  Usually, the best I can do is 9:00a start, but many girls have been willing if I book two hours, and the booker is usually up by then.  

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Every session is usually a one-and-done for me. Better that way. With so many providers out there to sample why possibly ruin a great memory.

 

 

 

 

 

 
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Is this a "learning grammar" Board? - I thought this was a sex Board.

Its possible, some, if not most providers can be so perfect in every way, not just behind closed doors. I wouldn't dare to blow my own horn, however, this explains my inconsistency here. I hope the few who have had the pleasure can vouch for me.  

Besides the obvious a good "bang bang", I give my best and so my guys have always come back for more and more and more and more, and before I know it almost a year goes by with less than a handful of friends. Most will do anything for me, most trust me and will go out of there way to please me, and vice versa.  And by no means do I mean I am perfect, I only give my best.

One thing is for sure, there are women here who are perfect in every way, and as you enjoy a good doggie, dig deeper you might just discover a gem.  

Zoe Piers

so seldom wrong I don't mind being corrected if I am once in awhile.

I'm somewhere between coeur-de-lion and nothroboston.  While I'd agree that the second time is often better than the first, the first would have to be good enough (though not necessarily "so perfect" as stated by the OP) to leave me wanting more.  Absent something that good, I'd go with nothroboston and the comment of variety being the "spice of life"!

There are a few ladies that I keep going back to because they are great to be around and the sex progresses and changes as time goes on.  

If going back meant doing the same vanilla things, in the same order, it would become a little boring. But, the ladies I see, keep changing things up.  A S&M session,  then a GFE session,  then a threesome,  a massage before etc.  
Keeping it fresh is what works for me. And these ladies know what works for me, and what doesn't.  I also learn what works for the ladies and I found that when they are seriously aroused, things get really wild.  

Sometimes, the best session ever is number 1 and sometimes it's number 12 or 18.

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I had a great session with. She used to tour, but nowadays, she is mostly stationary in Vegas. I've tried to see her, but our attempts for appointments have failed. Part of me does not want to repeat cause the first time was awesome and I doubt it can be topped, but then another part of me realizes that every woman I've repeated with (only 2 but I'd be willing to repeat with every woman I've seen) has been better on the repeat.

And yes and no.. it depend on man.
How he feels about himself  and what he thinks about intimacy with a woman

For true man - who wants have whole experience with a woman - second time. third time is even more rewarding .. when finally we have learned each other soft spots and can find all buttons of each other and on body and in mind and in soul
 Those man becoming better and better lovers with EACH new date..
 
 yet there are some men who are concentrated ONLY on porno performance ..
I am as a woman - may deliver such that they never have had - and as result - then their drulling over date they have had .. emailing few years .. and then finally do admit  that they not booking because they afraid that they can not perform again second time  on that level of the first date. .. * because such men concentrated just on the porno - i do read them - as we say - kind of the bird is seen by the style its flies - so i do know well what they want from the date and they have it - OOOO !!!!! Sex all 4 hours.. not stopping - by the way - that is my ex marry me at first place - that was a mistake on my side that I missread him and misunderstood .,. those men are shallow in my opinion and afraid of life and can not make woman happy - as they do think that we women  we want only inches and dollars...
 Basically what I am saying - you men get what you asking for.- Then your own fears driving you to isolation .. and dreams only.

I have men who are following me years basing on the first experience ..those are dreamers and not practical men. Just as kids .

real man knows - it would be better on the second time.. third time .

True intimacy is rewarding

Just happened to me.  Perfect in every way.  No desire to go back.

I can understand wanting the "best" experience (or experiences) to remain in the brain. But, I always return and am usually disappointed by the 3rd session. But, sometimes in the 2nd or 4th or 5th I get a repeat of the first session feeling. Keeps me coming back and staying in the hobby. Its an addiction, and the "euphoric recall", if not tempered, will keep the dopamine and serotonin receptors hot!