At somewhat last minute when another more desirable one came available? What excuse (Lie) did you give original provider you booked with

I didn't cancel on one because a more desirable one became available.  

I don't always cancel last minute,  
but when I do,  I have a very very good reason and usually outside of my control.  

I had to cancel with a lady over the holidays who I had wanted to see for some time and had been anticipating seeing because my Step Mom was sick, in turn I got sick. I would never go see a lady sick. I cancelled 2 days before our scheduled session though so that she could have availability to schedule another client in my place.

so no hard feelings toward you.  We as escorts understand guys cancel.. for all sorts of reasons. and if you just RATHER see someone else.. that is a legitimate reason.  More polite if you don't actually say that too us.  Best if you can give some heads up time.   Like before she  leaves her house and before you have absolutely confirmed for that evening w/ the girl you are cancelling on. Cancelling on her while she is en route would be super shitty.  

I was in Vegas and had scheduled a outcall. I had set the appointment up a couple of weeks earlier, the day before I left I got a gout flare in my foot. The appointment was for the day after I arrived. I was taking colchicine for it but was to stubborn to not drink, which didn't help and my foot swelling up on the plane didn't help either. I called the lady the day before and tried to postpone and reschedule for the next day. She said she'd like to meet me anyway (I would think to see if I was bullshiting her) so we met and she saw how fucked up my foot was. She then said she'd happily come back tomorrow but at that point I figured you're already here let's go for it. I did get off, but I definitely was not at my best. I didn't write a review.

NOT DONE BY GENTLEMEN.

If you don’t have the guts to ask a question with your handle, why ask?

When I make a booking I'm making a commitment. Canceling last minute because someone better came along is bullshit. I won't do that.

Besides, by the time I book an appointment, I'm pretty hungry for the lady. It's a must-do, must-have. If another woman catches my eye, I figure she'll still be available tomorrow.

... And that was for a funeral of a close friend. I gave the young lady 3 days notice and was able to reschedule, albeit two months later because she was providing part time then.  

Too bad an eleven just contacted me, BLNT.

It's happened to me once while I was touring and it happened with a well known hobbyist.  
He booked me on my tour since his ATF was out of town and I went to the city specifically for him, he ended up texting me 2 hours before our appointment while I was on the road to the incall saying I'm sorry but my ATF is back in town unexpectedly and I won't be able to see you today. Perhaps a better time.  

unfortunately, yes, it does happen. More than one thinks in this world.

For every jerk client who cancels with a lady because someone hotter comes along, there is some woman canceling on a client because a multi hour or overnight date wants priority.

Yes it sucks, but to think it doesn't happen would be naïve.

and yes Taylor, I am actually agreeing with you without any snide remarks. I'll save those for later. lol

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your response is still there  
and you seem to like talking to yourself rofl

I, personally, wouldn't do that because it's just downright wrong. And I have been confronted with that issue myself once or twice having the limited availability that I do. But in my heart of hearts, when you commit, you commit, that's just the name of the game. At least to me it is. But I'm sure many others will disagree. Sometimes it's not always about $$$ as the bottomline, even here. But yes, there should be a line drawn somewhere.

but sometimes it's so much fun, it's almost like a need. lol

but in this case, we actually agree. A commitment is a commitment, even when something that you think is better comes along.

Zen vibe from the peace and harmony here!!

but that doesn't mean that a mangina can't be right every once in a while. lol

Yes, flaking out on someone whether for more money or a hotter piece of ass is a dick move, (or bitch move) no matter who is doing it. On the woman's side it's unprofessional, on the man's side if he doesn't think she's hot enough, he never should have booked with her in the first place.

I think I should go get drunk now, I am being exceedingly "nice" today and it's beginning to give me indigestion. lol

When I travel for biz, I like to sample the wares in other cities. I always advise the lady that I am traveling and will text or call upon take-off and landing. Given the airlines record, I guess I should consider myself lucky that I was so severely delayed only once, that I had to cancel, though was still able to let the provider know 6+ hours in advance (since I was going to the left coast).  

I've only canceled one time. I was actually on my way to the date when the SO calls and says she's on her way over with lunch. Surprise!!! I immediately pulled over and texted that I was not going to make it. It was about an hour before the time and I felt terrible and tried to reschedule for later in the week to make up for it but got a cold shoulder about it. Thing is, it's the only time I have canceled yet I've been stood up by a provider 4 times in my short hobbying career.

An all too well 'other' common scenario that takes place quite often as well. A gentleman asks a 'particular' lady in mind to join him for a 'particular' date, but forgets she has perhaps something else planned with nothing to do with this world. All the while he's 'immediately' pouncing to find a 'replacement' for her, when he forgot she simply can't make it. Again it 'seemingly' was intended for the particular lady in mind. Or so it was thought.

I had a three hour drive to get out to her.

But she insisted I come, so I made the ride although it took two hours longer and nearly a foot of snow fell.  I also nearly got killed slipping on the snow covered ice when I got there.

But it was worth it.

She let me stay over at her hotel for a discounted rate also rather than have to go back at night in the snow.

I'm glad she insisted.

I have had to cancel on a few occasions but it usually has been 3 days or longer before hand.
Each time was because either work or a family issue came up.
I also  have been canceled on three times in last two months, one of those times being last Friday,  
After being in contact with " my friend" on and off all day she cancels right as I am about to leave to meet her, not the first time she has canceled but never like that before.
Excuse ......to long of a trip to just see me !!!!

that things can happen....but at least send her the $ for hotel. Many of us are low volume and don't have several appts in one day and make a reservation ONLY to see YOU. So...that would be very unfair and disrespectful.

of P4P and none were last minute.  To me, the only acceptable reasons are medical (don't want to give her my cold) or logistical--meaning either I have some sort of transportation issue whether it be the trip got cancelled by management or a flight delay when I had scheduled too tight to my expected ETA.

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I always make sure my Day is Free and Clear when I see a Provider. When I make an appointment I always keep it.

YES, lopaw!!

I cancelled once on a provider due to cricumstances beyond my control. Gave her 2 days notice. She wasn't happy, gave me a lot of crap about it. Needless to say took her off my list of those I would like to see.

I wouldn't back out for these reasons.

I have had this misfortune of canceling twice over the last 9 years. One for flight cancellation and the other I was very ill. On both occasions we rescheduled. I have been stood up a number of times in Las Vegas and it feels horrible given the preplanning, references and anticipation. Therefore I take this seriously just like a real date. I realize that a provider  takes time to prepare herself for me and I do the same. My date run  $400-900/hr.....I take this seriously...this is no Sunday school! This is lighthearted yet serious business from both camps.

But it wasn't last minute and she was glad that I didn't bring her my germs.  

Plus that's just another one for my "to-do" list... Of course that's before I started rationing my "coupons." Lol

especially last minute.  Sometimes providers are coming from out of town just to visit you and then you cancel last minute on them?  I had one provider come over 130 miles one way to see me on a multi-hour visit.  Going home she totaled her car.  Regardless of the benjamins, you don't do that to someone, and that goes in both directions.  I've never had a reviewed TER lady cancel on me except once, and that was a very unusual case that I was glad to get cancelled.  Had some BP girls do NCNS, but that's before I learned to use TER to screen.