So, point by point.
You started off well by apologizing for using Gay-bashing as a way to lash out at your detractors.  But then you slipped back into your self-serving evasions.
Look, dude, I'm going to say it again and state I don't think you're a bad person, just very naive and opinionated, with those opinions based on an almost complete lack of experience, despite which you give inane advice at the drop of a hat.
Too, the things said to you are not "faceless" and "baseless."  You give poor advice, write badly and are extremely sloppy with your thinking.  Thus you get criticized.  You don't like it, argue back and often bend and distort the clear meaning of what your opponents are saying.  You have tried to manipulate people using PMs that were harassing nature.  You have never apologized to me for trying to use PMs falsely accusing me of having certain personal issues in a failed attempt to get me to say something that would get me banned here. This was not the action of a "nice guy," or someone who does not need to "win." You are overly emotional and take words on this board far too seriously.
But in that sense it's really no different than most other boards, where people flame at the drop of a hat from behind the relative safety of their keyboards.  Big deal.  No one but you has a problem with it.  And I, for one, never analyzed the review in question.  In fact, I did not even read it.  But your lack of discretion in PMing female members to find out things about guys you didn't like would drive me to never see anyone you've reviewed, simply out of concern for my privacy.
As for all your examples of ways in which you've been ill used here, they are bogus. There is a reason people react to you the way they do.  It is the way you post.  This is a board where people with some serious experience in this game and in posting spend their time.  If you, or anyone, comes on here and posts blather, you will be responded to, and in an uncharitable way.  So grow a thicker skin, get some game and grow up. You act like you're the only poster who's been given a hard time here.  What a joke.  Do I really need to list all the board idiots who get flamed here? Fidiot, Fungus, Dungy, Epsius, Escalade, Taylor.  This list is almost endless.  And yet you have such a victim complex you think it's all about you.  Pathetic.
And where did you get the idea there's an "elite club" here that deals in OTC time?  Another delusion.  Yes, a few of us have developed friendships over the years as a result of enjoying each other's posts and even spending time face to face.  But it's not a club that reflexively denies people membership, just a loose affiliation of like-minded people of both sexes who are happy to welcome others who know what they're talking about.  As for the OTC part, it's not a goal or a requirement.  I do get a lot of OTC time, but I don't demand it or expect it.  It either happens or it doesn't, and I don't even want it with most girls.  And it is most certainly not "coerced." I find the idea of that offensive.
Last, I'm sorry to hear you're going to "keep on being me." If so, that means you're incapable of learning or growing up.  And if it makes you feel better to imagine that "derision" is all I and others will ever have, well, keep on drinking that Kool-Ade.  You have no idea how happy and fulfilled I am.  In many ways it's been a fairy-tale life so far and TER is merely a tiny side-show.  I know that's true for many of my friends here and elsewhere in this game.  Because, unlike you, I have actually met and partied with many of the men and women who inhabit this and other sites. They are great folks who are an important circle of friends.  It's a shame your primitive attitudes will forever keep you from experiencing that.
I have officially and very belatedly given up hope for you.  But I'm glad to see you're sticking around. A good piñata is hard to find.

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We are all familiar with the "Curly Incident" from early this year.  But you fail to point out that everyone on the board told Curly he was wrong, and he accepted that.  You also fail to point out that you distorted what actually happened and never apologized for doing it.  Just as you have never apologized for using PMs to bait and harass me into saying something you could use to get me into trouble with TER.
You are the prime abuser of PMs on this site and of complaints to Admin over others' behavior. They got sick of it and put you on "time out."  And now you're back, whining again.
You are beneath embarrassment  After last night's performance when your alias got flipped you'd think you would hide and lick your wounds for a while.  But here you are combative, distorting, self-righteous and clueless as ever.
You are a mess, Rod, and really should seek help.

accusations against me, that I spammed your cell phone which a) we have no proof that it ever happened, b) I have no interest in doing, and c) I have no means to do as I don't want nor have your phone number...is....****drumroll**** YOU...  

now don't let it happen again!

I publicly and privately apologized to him, which at least at the time he accepted..  I don't know why he keeps going back to the same thing over and over again.. Perhaps that's the only thing he got..

you used an alias to not only sling third grade insults but to give yourself a reassuring pat on the back in your whiny S&P thread. I don't have words for how fucked up that is...get some help, man, before you really go off the deep end. Or at least take break from posting, you're way too deeply invested emotionally in this stuff and it can't be good for you. And btw, Steph was dead right when she said this stuff rolls off everyone else's backs. I know you're incapable of learning that but it bears repeating anyway.

He was already in a timeout, and only been back for 2 weeks. The only way to ensure permanent change is to change the way he thinks. But when one starts with the mindset that "I am perfect, and doesn't need to change.." discussing any progress is a futile exercise.

I never contacted anyone three months after the incident.. Another figment of your twisted imagination.. Its as solid as you claiming that I spammed your cell phone.. Care to prove what was sent 3 months after the incident, and to whom?  

combined with a total inability to realize you're wrong and need to change.
But I agree with Curly, I'm fine with your idiocy because you are entertaining in your idiocy.  So keep it up. Your so-called apologia was nothing more than a long-winded defense.

Dude, it's not the Board,  it's not any of your correspondents and it's not the L - tryptophan in your holiday turkey.  Your thin skin betrays you with every post.   Forget my and everyone else's opinion:  Just ask yourself whether this continuous cycle of obsequious and obtuse posts followed by derision followed by whining followed by disdain followed by hurt feelings, ill tempered discord and an inevitable emotional semi-apology is working for you.  If it is not then you might want to consider a change.

From the discussion board guidelines:

deeply invested is twisting all those things, some version of which probably happened, to fit your world view and into something deeply personal against you as a person rather than as a board persona. And deeply invested is keeping a file, mental or otherwise, of those distorted memories such that you can throw them into a post just a few minutes after mine. Blinded by arrogance, you fail to see that as many have tried to help and guide you as have taken a wack at the piñata that is you. More's the pity. Maybe Courtney's post below will help you out some, but I fear you will only take from it the pieces that validate what you believe already rather than understanding the gentle constructive criticism she's giving you.

I've got a light work day, don't be a buzz kill!

Everything in the post to which you just responded is true.  And you still refuse to respond to my claim about the PMs you sent me.  Why?  Because you are guilty as charged.

need to reconsider out stance on Rod not being a bad person..

He simply claims he deletes all of his PM's , kind of like Lois Lerner, and we see how well that is working out for her. lol

I don't think so.

The thing is that most people are tired of his childish behavior..  Although it does have entertainment value, there is a quota for how much BS a person can handle in a day.. Bandwidth has already exceeded.  

The pinata? Well that's an entirely different matter.

Or put another way, how can the people who are literally "laughing their fucking ass off" be the ones "deeply invested" when compared to the guy sobbing into his keyboard?

As for "Court" I wonder how many dates she is going to get in the near future where the first topic of conversation is going to be "is TidWit as lame in person as he is on the board?" Poor Court, I hope he tipped very, very well. lol

Sometimes, I am a bit emotional.
I own it.
Sometimes, I am a biotch.
I own that, too.
Mostly, I am a sweetheart and more empathetic than most-
I own that, as well.

Welcome to the wonderful world of being a "dick poster!"

you fucked up , okay then you come and apologize then what ? there are rules rod and you broke them ..now don't make jokes and think poor rod boo hoo hoo is gonna work . contrary to what some think I have no other handles and play by the rules ! so should you and not take this lightly because you think its okay and now you get a new alias , that's bulllshit .. we should get to pick it for you and you complain way to much ! so just lose the laugher in  this thread okay , be fucking humble ,

In that case, I encourage him to contact the lady and ask her to provide screenshot of what I allegedly sent...

wrap him up and soon you too will be going for snails . devin be careful what you wish for you may get him . lol  

What about all of your annoying PM's sent unsolicited to guys here? Any defense? Even when ignored? You're pathetic.

always messing up , all I know is after you saw court your behavior is worse . this is courts fault lol lol . Courtney put rod on his leash !  

please take a self imposed break. This post will not help the situation. And YES are too emotional about the ribbing.

You came back too fast and furious here Rod. You were all over the GDB board in a matter of DAYS after being reinstated. I tried to get you to slow down but you wouldn't listen.

Please go back and look at the threads on this board from day 1 of being back at look at the build up and this time TRY and learn from this big mistake and stop blaming others. By the time you were out of control emotionally and calling for TER admin to let PMs be posted on the GBD and then when you were still outta control started that thread on the S&P what did you think would happen.

You told me you were going to not respond to the jabs one day and the next day you were doing it. At this point I knew there was nothing I could say that you would listen to about it you were "gone" at that point and I knew you would implode in a big way.

By talking about two people who made you resort to what happened, you are again not taking any responsibility and shifting the blame.

You came back and in two short weeks you did everything I warned you not to do. You thought you were in control and you weren't. I could see it but you refused to see it.

Why don't you just apologize for screwing up PERIOD and not go into all the whys? So I'll end with this advice which you probably won't take: Stay off TER for a week, then when you gain some perspective, don't start here on the GDB. Start on other boards. Maybe certain people will leave you alone on other boards like he Newbie board or something. But I can't broker any deals now. Stay off any of the volatile boards. And this board for you is volatile. You weren't ready for the excessive amount of posting you were doing here.

Your undoing here cannot be put on others and if you go back and look at the progression of your undoing here on the GDB you will see it clear as day if you allow yourself to see it. And as far as people being "upset" about your review, I beg to differ, and that mindset is exactly what I'm talking about.

The people you are referring to wouldn't have ribbed you as much if you had kept it to a minimum here on the subject. You were over the top about it. The sail thing was funny and needed no explanation from you. You could have taken the ribbing for what it was and brushed it off, laffed and said something like, 'WOW' it was funny to watch her reaction to it and the waiter  couldn't get it off the table fast enough, or something."

When peeps rib me about my age, I don't go all rouge about it or take it personally. It's FODDER. Doesn't it hit a nerve sometimes, maybe! Do I let it bug me for very long or get all upset about it on the boards, NO! It rolls off my back 'cause this is the GDB!

This board isn't PC and it hasn't been in the almost 10 years I've been a member here.

Well that's all I have to say about what happened And I'm not going to get into a debate with you about it!

Steph xoxo

FOR Christmas can I please have some attention , as I have no life and need it badly . thank you santa and I will leave out some KFC n Watermelon .  
oh can I ride in the sleigh santa and play with the elfs and how is mrs claus . thanks rod  

remember a day or so ago you wanted to set the over under on turdy's impending meltdown and you wanted to guess how many "weeks" it would take, I think you will agree now that my suggestion to set the line by how many hours it would take was much more likely. lol

Our little turdster just can't help himself, he keeps hitting his thumb with a hammer and then blames every one else for the cast on his hand. Now if you want to set a line for him ever learning to change his ways, THAT line could be set in decades. lol

cum back and tell us all how it was . that's more fitting , get it ." fitting".

I know Steph means well but really...

It's become embarrassing to watch. And I don't mean for Rod.

Ms. Pot, please let me introduce you to Ms. Kettle.

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Another hooker that seems to not understand that a homosexual is not a choice.

I agree with you, he's done some downright nasty shit.  Not the kind of things a "nice" person would do. I think when he gets all upset (which is a lot) his mind justifies his lies and distortions.  I'm sure he's "nice" the rest of the time.  Like when he's asleep.

largely due to Rod's signature blend of ignorance, arrogance, and hypersensitivity. It was never going to unfold any other way.

In addition to being simply harmless/lame, Rod has been and continues to be actively destructive.  For example, he continued lying about Curley.  And his attempt (still not addressed) to use PMs to bait me into saying something he could use against me with Admin.  He is actually spiteful, nasty and devious.  Good thing his deviousness is combined with such blatant stupidity that his little tricks are easy to spot.

I doubled down on Steph's offer of not picking on him for 7 days, by offering not to pick on him for 10 days, and sweetened it even further by not picking on him additional 2-3 days on top of that...

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The  Newbie board is pretty much self policing. Most spats die a natural death before going too far as the combatants either realize where they are, or someone else "gently" reminds them.

The last time there was an outbreak of trainwrecks on the newbie board was the last time Tidwit started posting there. I remember there being close to a dozen trainwreck threads all within a week of each other and all started by Guess Who.

Or just admit you're bigoted comment was showing your ignorance.

As an 82 year old I resent that,  you young WhipperSnapper! lol

Why do some refer to you as a ghost?  

over there, just keeping the peace.

Or even more likely, he is on a PM campaign, trying to recruit people to "his side"

Once Rodney starts posting over there again, BSC Taylor and her many personalities are sure to follow. You are already up to your Adams apple with crazy, over the hill hookers there. Lol.

No, I don't get it. I think you're just a bigot. With a foolish marketing model. Way to go.

Yeah I guess that comment, as well as the one where she tells us how sweet she is and how she is more empathetic than most is just more of her hollow bullshit.

And that's exactly we tried to do, when we gave him a 2nd chance here.. Forgetting all the past transgressions.. But he continues to perpetrate his lies against me and inicky.. These lies have real life repercussions when I book appointments with ladies using my handle.

Nothing Tidwit tried with me had any effect at all.

Hey Mr. Titwell!! When the escorts are telling you that you are taking this whole fuckboard thing too seriously.. You should listen.

lol, so true - and nice to have one place w/o the this extra drama! (eom)

He's gone again. So....no more fun with Ron for a while! Drat

Even if he got banned again he's still here...you know this  LOL

Just make sure he knows not to out himself so quickly.

lmao ,,,,,,,,,,,,omg , rod he would eat all the cookie in his jammies ...lol  


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With, Inicky, Ga, Curly, Rod, and Steph (to help keep the peace).
If a lame publicity stunt is good enough for the Pres, then it should be good enough to bring fake reconciliation to the TER GB too!  I'll buy the first round.

is thousands of guys putting you on their DNS list.  You are officially One Dumb Ho.

And suggesting that Rod is a T-boy...at least you got that part right.  He has tried to kiss up to the T-girls.  But even they weren't impressed  LOL

I have traveled a lot further for a lot less. Set it up and count me in, but somehow I doubt our little turdster will show up

I had that figured out already.  

And I give the guys major credit for holding off as long as they did. And I don't think you know how many people have tried to get thru to him, including some of the usual suspects back in the day.

Some people will not allow themselves to learn from their past experiences/mistakes. I don't think he's cut out for this board yet THIS board is where he came back to, not listening to anything I said, and I TOLD him what would happen if he came back here full force. It did and he was warned.

Please stop, I got on you for this very thing regarding the PAST when you first got hyper excited about possibly coming back here. I said to not go back to what happened before, just MOVE forward with a clean slate. You couldn't do that Rod.

What say you?

Are you really surprised?

And I won't even whine about it! The rest is a moot point.

It certainly was quite a FAST paced implosion. I can't go back and read his OP on this thread, so please tell me, did he ever apologize to knowingly using his alias on a thread he started on the S&P Board? I was completely stunned and rumor has it even you didn't think that GhostofChgoCPA alias was Rod. Boggles the mind.

Steph xoxo

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don't think rod belongs here or guys like him .. if he never had serious relationships or as never been married this isn't healthy for him or guys like him . he flirts with girls and wants to fight with the guys who get girls . when he first came here I think I shot him a pm or two to stop or change he basically said fu ..so bad attitude . he just doesn't get it and doesn't take this as a stepping stone . its not healthy for him nor is he learning to interact with others regarding relationships so lose lose situation for him .. your advice  and words are wonderful and I too hope he listens and learns not for any of us here but for rod , not a bad guy just one who needs to grow up .  

... which I won't debate you on.

get trapped into saying or supporting what she can't back...

He just said he used the alias out of frustration with a couple of us.  For an apology it was rather un-apologetic.  Actually, he only apologized for using gay-bashing terms against me and GaG.

You think you've been randomly selected by a bunch of bullies through no fault of your own, when in fact you've been singled out because of your own behavior here.  In your case it goes back well before Rod ever showed up on the scene and was far more dangerous.  This has been well documented and has led to your being banned, so you might as well blame TER itself, not just a "handful of people on this forum."
You keep counting on people forgetting.  We won't.

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... who doesn't know the facts.