So I've now been with a provider who has reviews that claim she does BBBJ, kissing, and other things that she doesn't do.  And some of these reviews are first timers, so its not like she is waiting to do it on a second date.  I asked her about it and she said many people make claims that aren't true?  What would someone benefit from doing that?  Isn't it in all our best interests (providers and hobbyists) to keep things real?

Someone trying to keep their TER membership active...

Maybe they made assumptions on things being available that they didn't try. (time or circumstance dictating)

Perhaps she was with an agency first that had a shill...and now has changed her services after going Indy...

Lots of reasons. But the one big reason...no one has bothered to send a problem report for her...so her profile will stay that way until someone tries to fix it.

Once something is identified in a lady's profile it is sometimes almost impossible to change.  I've submitted problem reports to fix/update something but it often doesn't get updated.  Even in one case the lady also wrote that she has changed what was on her menu--still not good enough to fix it.

others who have reviewed her, did receive the services they described but maybe she was having a bad day OR for some silly reason, she was uncomfortable doing some things with you.  I am sure that may not be true but a good reminder for all that just because a lady does one thing with one person, does not mean they have to do it with another person.

... because reviews are subjective.

This subject has been brought up over and over and I have never seen a consensus on this issue.

When it comes to trusting a review... It's one of three choices: Believe It, Don't Believe It or Go With Experience.

In all cases, you have to go with your instincts, not your weiner. If your instinct tells you to ask someone in a Private Message... do it. Don't rationalize it.  

Regarding this provider you are referring to, I don't know how much research you have done on her, but did you ask any of the reviewers questions in Private Messages?

Just because a provider tells you that a review was false doesn't make it so.

Serpius

reviews written by honest and trusted guys whose veracity has been proven

like myself!!  

I've read reviews for a few ladies I've been with that state she doesn't kiss, CBJ, etc., but my results have been different.  When I asked them about it their response is I do that with some guys and don't do that with others.  It's obviously her prerogative, but the inconsistency can't be great for business.

So it may in fact be a reality for you that these things don't happen, but other guys have a different reality.

There are only two things I guarantee...bbbj and cim. Anything else will depend on hygiene, size, and skill. I don't want a guy going down on me who bites my mouse, and I am not kissing someone with bad breath or who just wants to slobber all over me. I will try and work with that person vs. just not doing it, but if they are still determined to make me uncomfortable, see ya.

Size below is another factor. It does not take a freakin genius to read my reviews and not contact me if one is even above average, but what do I get? Guys who assume I am going to let them fk me anyway once they have paid, and it's not happening. If a girl has tons of reviews saying she can only handle x amount, don't contact her! Don't get all pissed when you arrive with your tree trunk, and she says "no way." You knew beforehand that was the case, and YOU decided to push the envelope.

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Unless the reviewer is experienced and reliable.

The reviews are usually some poor souls idea of what he hoped would happen.

Asking gals...yep, they talk.

And if you have something in mind...if these scaredy boys would just ask...she might say yes  

SO many seem to offer services that later reviewers don't get.  Maybe a shill or maybe she's gaming the system knowing the profile is set by the first reviewer...  after that she changes the menu.  
I look at the last several reviews & especially reviewers with a number of reviews that I trust.

I think the YMMV part goes without saying and always assume so, but appreciate hearing it from a provider.  And the other details in the posting are worth noting as well.  Size does matter —and not always the way one assumes or would like to.

When he further describes one as a "great gfe" and only gives her a damn 6, that says even more. I am not sure if he insists on CBJ, but he claims it cuts off his circulation lol. No shit.

Had LFK, closed mouth kissing with a CBJ before the first pop. After we spent some down time talking while I was recuperating, she just went right to the BBBJ and then DFK like crazy in CG and mish during the second time. I didn't even bother to ask what happened or why.