Been hobbying for around ten years. In the early years I would do repeat visits. But that was mostly due to nervousness whereby repeat sessions I would feel more relaxed with the provider.  

It's your money and your time, doing something you don't particularly seem to want to, seems backwards to me. Personally, I don't really see why providers would frown on one and done. Many guys are looking for new pussy. They want you to come back, but I don't think they'll be like that guy is an ass for not coming back. I might be wrong.  

If you really don't think you'll get something more out of multiple visits I don't see why to worry. Certainly there are other's seeing the lady so it is unlikely she is missing meals or a place to stay just because you did not repeat.

Why do you care?  Lol      It goes with the biz.  Chemistry and connection are usually why guys repeat because it can make average sex seem better.  

Aren't going to care if you see them again or don't. Yeah I saw your earlier response on what your deal is.
So don't sweat it, hit it and quit it. Remember a stiff dick has no conscientious, that's why we do what we do.

to us providers
i will add that when you get a reference check from another provider on a one & done client that was a generous gfe sesh, there may be a cartoon bubble above our heads of "aww".
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But don't worry about it if you don't.  

Seriously cdl, are these the same prime hunters that shoot the deer that is tied to a stake from 20 feet and think they are ready to face down a tiger? lol

I'd say for the novelty.   Pick up artists do it for the chase (and the novelty.)   But their return on invested time is very low.  

greyhounds.  They tried chasing civvie women, but like the greyhound chasing the mechanical rabbit, they never caught one, so rather than live a life of constant frustration of the pussy they crave being just out of reach, they substitute with the "chase" of working girls, knowing that they WILL definitely make a catch and get laid.  The hunt is what they find exciting.  Once they get the reward of a successful catch, they are ready for another "chase" and are ready to start over with the next one.  It may be like shooting a staked deer, but it does NOT make them delusional that they are any more ready to seduce a civvie girl than they were before.  

I have seen one woman most likely a thousand times, and I have seen at least a thousand women only once.  

I am kinda in your boat. Aint no pussy like new pussy, I usually say.  

Sometimes Variety Is The Spice of Life
Kisses
Sheila

You don't owe a provider anything other than her fee, respect and politeness.  If you treat her like a fellow human being, I'd say you've fulfilled your obligations.  Otherwise, what's fun to you is up to you. There was a time when I saw a particular lady somewhere on the order of 30 or 40 times. I only stopped because I moved away for a spell and by the time I moved back she had quit and become a ridiculously successful civilian world business woman. Those 30 or 40 times were fantastic every single time and I would gladly have made it 50 or 60. But I can't imagine the lady would have felt slighted if it was only 1.

Can you imagine if you only got laid once a month and that one time was lousy? That's what a lot of the guys here have to deal with and that's why they do so much research before booking a session.

Ill have to disagree. I don't think I'm a high volume monger compared to many. Sometimes I'd also only see two-five girls a month. And sometimes it's a lot more, lol. I'm a binge guy, that's why I pretty much stopped drinking. Blacking out and shit and trying to figure out what happened the last night whole not being able to intake any food due to alcohol poisoning was not good for my career

I do sympathize with the low volume guys, but I can't empathize since I am both a binge and a "functional" alcoholic AND sex addict. I do both maintenance and binge fucking, and I do the same with alcohol, although I rarely seem to overdo it that often with either booze or hookers the last few years. Maybe my body is telling me something after over 45 years of booze and sex. lol

If a particular lady not only gives great service but full allotted time, get little hassle drama & you enjoy yourself enough to want to repeat! You aren't obligated for anything but what you commit to on any given session.  

How can you NOT repeat when you find a provider who gives good head? Many of my regulars achieved that status based on the particular skill!

Why pay for the same pussy over and over again?  
Never understood regulars.

Do you get a different meal at McDonalds all the time, or a Big Mac meal? You eat a porterhouse steak all the time at a restaurant, or get something different every time.

7 years and getting tired of the same dick. Does nothing for me 🤷🏻‍♀️

I understand going back once in a while, but explain to me week after week after week? Why pay for that lmao isn’t that kind of like being married? I never understood that.

Being married is ... a truly piss-poor analogy!  I take it you have not been.  If you had, and your wife was as good at sex as the girls who become regulars, you'd still be there and happy.  If she wasn't, you'd know how bad the analogy sounds.  
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Good sex, like good music, involves repetition with variation at many time scales.  (There was a fad for calling this "fractal" a while ago, if you remember that.)  If the repeated actions at second-, minute-, and hour-scales are being played skillfully by one woman, getting better as she gets to know you better (and vice versa), it can be good to repeat with her regularly for the assurance of satisfaction.  
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Also, many regular guys try out others between repeats, in search of variation.  
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Some guys get their jollies from "the thrill of the chase", uncertainty and conquest.  Some of us do not, but prefer excellent sexual experiences with low overhead in wasted time and effort and uncertainty.   I'm one way, you're the other.  
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That should explain "it".  Of course it will not convert you, and it isn't meant to.  But now you can understand.  
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And, by seeing and reviewing a different girl most every time, you are doing us less-adventuresome guys a good turn.  We may need a new regular one day!  
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OK?  Bye!

Umm you’re talking to an ex provider who married her regular😉. And  no I still don’t get it.  
Ok? Bye

I've been married twice.  Cheated on the first wife with a civie and got caught and divorced.  Finally turned to escorts/sugar babes on the second wife, still not caught, but she's naturally jealous of neighbors and coworkers etc.  So really have to tread carefully.
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I really have trouble staying interested in the same providers -- by that I mean seeing them a couple times a month.  I had a girlfriend (the one I cheated with on the first wife) who we'd only meet maybe once or twice a year.  That was far enough apart that I'd look forward to the meeting.
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But with escorts and SB's that you can pretty much see as often as your bank account allows, I start to lose interest.  Really need to see someone, anyone, new.

Your choice!

Just like we have a choice if we want to see someone again you have a choice to see whoever you want whenever you want. Enjoy yourself, life is too short!

If money was not object, I would do a combo of same girl ( assuming my time with her was exceptional ) and a few new ones.. but because of Covid.. my funds are now limited so... As much as new girls are tempting, I play it safe.. That being said there are pros and cons.. pros... better chemistry, exploring more fantasies...cons.. eventually the girl gets very comfortable, shows up not as well put together and puts less effort into the experience.. when that happens, I stop repeating.

As far as I am concerned.................it is a bit concerning if a client does not repeat with me (But I do understand & I don't take offense to a client not returning).

We intend to. It's just that something else always pops up.

When a man says "I'll come back" what he means is "I had a good enough time to want to come back"

changes the meaning of a lot of things customers say.  Once the endorphins metabolize and the euphoria passes after a few hours, whatever we say can mean something entirely different.  

It's your choice your money your time and your interest, do whatever you want