Just wondering, because I would love to have to male clients with me for a session.
Oh how I would love to be the sub one for that session.

Sometimes plain ol' vanilla doesn't work with me.
I must be real horny, but still, can you guys answer this question for me!!!

Kisses,
Shaye of Philly

I've had a lady suggest it but I kind of thought is was to titilate and she wasn't serious.  From my point of view, I can deal with two women and myself (but never had happen yet) but another guy makes me a little (ok a lot) uncomfortable.  I don't think I'm homophobic.  I'm selfish and just want it to be about me.

YEAH, GIRL! YOU (SISTER REDHEAD!)ARE A GIRL AFTER MY OWN HEART! LOL LOl.
You've expressed my all time fav - two men! Fortunately, in my private life, I've been indulged by my sweetie..but in the Provider Life...

heh heh..

Love you,
Sedona

But I think that especially in this context, you rarely find gents that are that comfy getting naked with other gents, so to speak. That whole homophobia thing. So silly, too, because it can be SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much fun. Remind me to tell you about my group thing in Vegas... Fun fun!

Hugs*
Nicole

IMHO that's a party for my private life. In fact, its a party I've very much enjoyed in my private life. The reason it worked is that I initiated it because 1) I knew she would love it and 2) I thought my friend would have a blast and 3) when all was said and done she was still my girl.  But those are not the reasons most of us would go to see a provider. We're there because we're missing something from our SOs or maybe we don't have time for an SO at the moment. But the relationship dynamic is completely different between real life and hobby life. We're visitng so that we can receive something not so that we can be providing a service ourselves!  MAYBE and only maybe if my ATF and I had been seeing each other for years I might do it as a special gift.  I saw someone recently and I knew they liked women. I had seen in one of her reviews that a guy said she seemed up for going to a strip club.  So for one of our dates I suggested we go to a strip club. Well we did. I spent what seemed like a ton of money that night but not for dances for US - the dances were separate. I didn't even get to see her dances except for some peeks across the VIP room - let alone get to sit next to her. By the time we left I was PISSED. Not because she enjoyed herself -that was great. Her dancer was so into her you can just imagine how much fun my date had. But I was pissed because I didn't get to be a part of it and I was pretty sure I was still the client! Its not like we stopped the clock or anything.  So I'm fairly certain that if I was enjoying time with you I'd get miffed everytime John Doe started getting attention. But then again I'm a guy who thinks you ought to have the courtesy to turn your cellphone off during our date too.

Well, I have had an escort ask me this and have done it twice with her.  Both times were amazing - she couldn't get enough of us!!  The first time I thought the homophobic issues would kick in but they didn't, mostly because I was concentrating on my end of the lady.  When we did brush up against each other it was no big deal.  So, Shaye and Nicole, if you need that second guy just let me know!!

I have never had the request but would love to try it. My problem is, how do I find another guy? I guess you'd have to find the two of us?

This brings up an interesting point.  (I was approached one time by my ATF of that time.  I hesitated at first, then said I'd consider, but by then she had lost interest.)

But here's the problem this post illuminates...  Unless you, the hobbyist, are really into this, you're actually settling for less attention than a one-on-one session, so it does bring up the pricing question...

So here's my question back to the providers...  Say you have a fantasy like this, and you find two guys who are willing, but aren't super into it like you are.  Do you charge each of them 1/2 your regular rate?  Do it for free just to have the experience?

I could see myself doing it. But the funny thing is what be exciting for me is the turn on that I would know she is getting from it. So I guess it would be for her much more than for me. \Probably would have to be a situation where I considered her a friend at the least and with a guy that she was on the same level with, more like a personal night for the 3 of us, so to speak.

I did a group of guys once while on vacation in a sex club, my clit is hard right now just thinking about it, I loved every cum splattered second of it, I was sore for a week at least. I was just thinking I should be in porn movies. my goodness.

I had several hunky studs doing me taking turns. I have to go get my dildo now.

Aut.

This is something that I am very interested in.  I am in no way, shape or form interested in doing anything with the other guy.  But, I am interested in getting with a SECURE heterosexual male who isn't trying to one up me, but is really interested in servicing the woman and making sure we leave her sore but dripping wet.