It hasn't happened often, but clients have told me that they were trying to see someone else but couldn't, and since I'd been on their radar for awhile, they saw me instead. Because I was available. Sometimes they wind up becoming regulars so it's a win-win.
Also, I've had a few who saw me to fulfill the reference requirements of the the provider he REALLY wanted to meet.
That always makes me smile.
Come to think of it, I have one client I see infrequently who only books with me when his ATF isn't around.
So that makes me at most his 2nd choice.....
My point is that quite a few men do indeed "settle" for what's available. Which is great! Because if everyone waited for his 1st choice all the time, there'd be less business for everyone, IMO.
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NOONER: (noun) A sexual encounter during lunch hour, especially one that is illicit.