I am 27 years old and have been hobbying for about 2-3 years now. I have found this alot easier than dating a girl and having to go through all that trouble just to get some.I started with some amateurs not knowing any better but have since moved on to bigger and better lol. I have since been seeing a regular provider for about 2 months now( a total of 4 visits). Recently she has given me her number (not her trap phone number but her real one)  and I made the mistake of texting her back to thank her for a good time. Since then she has been texting me on a daily basis. Now I'm a realist and understand she probably just wants more money and for me to come and visit her more. I told her I love to come when I can, but because of work I can't always go as much as Id like. I then offered her money and gifts thinking this is what she wanted. Funny thing is she denied both of these and said she just likes talking to me and wants to see me off the clock. Now this is a provider who has more than 50 good reviews on this site. I'd like to keep seeing her and paying for it, but I rather not get personal with her. What should I do here? Is this some kind of trap that I am not seeing ? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!

The good ones don't contact you...harass you with texts...and put you "on the spot".

Whatever is going on with her is NOT your problem.  And don't let it become your problem.

Block her number and emails and move on to one that understands why they are hookers.

the advice there was a solid. Take it.

If you can hire people where you work. Hire her, then date her, fuck her, inpregnate her, marry her. Then after she has your baby fire her, divorce her, and then walk out of their lives for ever.

I know that's cruel, but you will allways be one step ahead, and it would make for a great lifetime movie.

if I was a writer I could have made it an actual story.

Mother and child turn to drugs, lose their teeth, start turning tricks together, their speciality double gum BJ's, reunite with dad in Tijuana's boys town

I never send it was a good idea.

You would be better off  learning   to make your own decisions .
 If YOU don't want to see her off the clock , don't see her .
If YOU do want to see her off the clock , do see her .

 From your post , you sound like the kind of guy who might
 fall in a trap .
  If you've never fallen in a trap, you won't learn how to avoid the bad ones , unless you
want to live your life avoiding the good traps too  .

I'm not telling you what YOU should do .
 If I liked her and she offered me OTC  I would take her up on her offer,
 and wouldn't care about other peoples opinions.

 

 



 

 

IF, as you say,  what you want is to "not get personal", do not have repeated OTC sex with a lady.  That's just delusional, as well as possibly dishonest. If you want to know about the risks and rewards of getting personal with a provider, there are hundreds of past threads and everyone's situation may vary.

My real question is about downside risks?  Family?job? If you wind up with a crazy and scorned woman, how bad will it get?

Buy HER an 8 ball, and HER some Jimmy Choos, then call YOU in the morning? Is that because you want to know what color shoes he got her?