I'd chatted with a few guys here and there seems to be a lot of times where if it doesn't work out there is a sense of ok. Just saved $$$$. Not the outrage your expect. After all. You got part of the thrill of the chase. Cost you nothing.

But the world didn't end.  Sure I invested some of my time looking for the right lady, contacting her and going through the screening process, getting ready, etc only to have this situation occur.  Is it unprofessional, without a doubt especially if she's well established.  Again, the world didn't end and I'm not going to get upset about.  Life happens.  

Especially if the clients reference are amazing and excellent. The canceling hurts providers the most, not only are we losing an opportunity but having to cancel mean something bad just happened and we need to take care of it. Don't take it personal cause it usually not about the client. I hate having to cancel appointments but I'm a sucker for my family and if they have an emergency that needs me, they will always come first.

We all know that life happens, and cancellations are a part of that.

I am not saying to double book! Just have a plan B with a phone number you can either call or text if provider A cancels at the last minute and you want to satisfy your urges within the available time constraints.

It is a huge pain for the guy if he booked a hotel just for the date though. Short notice is very hard to fill so you are out the 150-200$ just for the room.  
       I do realize the provider has more outlay and loses more due to NCNS though.

Yup, cancel isn't the same as NCNS (which if I recall means no contact,no show.)  It's people who don't let you know they are going to not show up, so you wait around until your patience wears out.  

... That's why I go to AMPs and stripclubs.  

I get ZERO "thrill of the chase" by booking with a hooker. There is no "chase" or at least there is not supposed to be, that's why we pay them. Why in the fuck would someone want to "chase" a hooker?

If I wanted to chase, I'd go to a dating site. Buy dinner, hope she might wanna fuck, and then hope she is good at sex.

And that works well in larger markets.  However in some of the smaller markets there often is no plan B, especially the later it gets in the evening.  If that plan B is available, it probably wasn't a good plan to begin with.

So you don't feed off that adrenaline rush, the anticipation of knowing whats to come isn't a thrill? Yes we all want our "nut" and that's the end result but it's the journey that's a turn on, isn't it? So tell me you don't get antsy before meeting someone. And I'm not thinking in the whole dating scene, that's a different mind fuck...I don't do that.
We're not robots...
Ok, back to our regular schedule program..

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Yeah, I get that anticipation. But, it's anticipation based on knowing I will be getting a wonderful sexual journey. Not, will I be getting any.

and the avoidance of blue balls.

Agreed in fact I hate the build up or anxiety... and resent when I have to go through the stress for a NCNS... only happend once but really pissed me off

I try to set up dates when I travel and I've had several of my plans A and B, turn to shit for a number of reasons. So you search the TER ads and hope for the best. My plan C has worked out pretty damn good for me at times.

I'm pretty sure I saw that on a fortune cookie ... at a Mexican restaurant one time.

--Signed, Confucius Rodriguez.

I'm never happy about NCNS, but it used to happen a lot more in the old days, before review sites. I had an ATF back then, but I also saw various other providers on a one-time basis. When a one-timer would NCNS me, I would just get back on the phone and call some other ad. On a weekend night, it might be hours before I finally got a replacement to show up, but it was tolerable because I was relaxing at home. I always got outcall service back then.

Had a new provider to me that had setup time like a month in advance; longest lead time in my life. I was driving to her incall when things went sideways. Left her a voicemail on an app she only uses for texting (strike 1 for me - I thought it was a call where she was only expecting a text). She got spooked as they were working in the room next to hers. She emailed me wanting to cancel as I was driving (which I was not looking at my phone - strike 2).  

A true NCNS is defined by a "lack of communication" not a "mix up in communication"

No matter how you look at it, it becomes a waste of time if you're like me and prepare in advance for a meet.

If a provider NCNS's on me I saved a bunch of money on playing. I can always find another provider and play another day.  

When they NCNS on you, all you save are some milk and diapers. Hardly a "bunch of money" lol