I recently had a situation that I guess I need some feedback on. I recently saw a lady who was traveling to my city doing a tour. I think she was in town for two days.

Anyway, I had a 7 PM appointment with the lady. I chose to see her based on the many positive things past clients had to say. Appearance wise she was a knock out. Greated me at the door in a sexy outfit, candles all over the room. Great mood set. While we were talking I asked her how she was enjoying herself while in town. I guess she thought I was interested in how business was going. Anyway, she proceeds to tell me that she had seen 5 guys that day with only two no-shows, but somebody did call to take the no-shows place so overall business was good. Plus she had two more scheduled after me.

Now call me a prude, but I'm thinking damn that's a lot of guys, 6 before me, and it wasn't that late. I didn't feel all that comfortable after that because at the very least, I knew she had to be tired! I knew it was going to be one of those YMMV situations, because even though we clicked on a personal level, I knew on a physical level she would not, could not be at her best.

Now I have spoken to other lady's and they would tell me they would see maybe three guys a day and then their battery would run down. At my job, I tell my manager's its fine to offer overtime to the people, but know that extra hours worked doesn't mean they will be fully productive. When they get tired, that productivity is going to drop, yet they are going to expect more money just for being there.

I just don't want to be with a lady who is just going to "be there". I did not push the issue because I know the lady was tired but I was kind of pissed because she chose to do that volume of work knowing how it would affect her. I know that lady's when they travel, will tend to over book to make up for the expenses associated with touring such as plane tickets, hotel room, eating out etc. Yet I always thought that was taken care of by the hirer rates they normally charge when they tour. Sometimes $100 to $150 more.

So my question is if a lady is going to see more clients than normal when she tours, why also charge so much more than their normal rate? The performance level goes down yet you've paid more. Typically they wont have a problem booking if they annouce their plans because guys will be interested in seeing the "new lady" in town especially when they wont know when or if she will return. Its sort of like getting ripped twice. I guess if you do see a lady who tours, it might be worth your time to book early in her work day rather than later.

I would say its as simple as greed, and it just may well be the case. You had a good point when you said, that guys will already be interested in seeing a lady who is touring because of the new face in town factor. When a lady gets request from all these guys for a limited amount of town, she is not going to e-mail them back "sorry darling but I've reached the number of appointments I'm going to see. Try me back in 6 months if or when I return".

Most lady's are just looking at how much money they can potentially make in a relatively short period of time as well as the no-show factor. Many lady's do not charge a deposit for anything less than a few hours. Many guys wont pay a deposit for a hour appointment. So hence we have a problem. As you indicated, the lady you saw had two no-shows. If she was expecting more, then her trip could have been a disaster. I'm guessing she as other's, overbook just in case this happens, but if most guys do show up then you have the potential of a bad experience later in the day as you described.

There are pro's and cons with deposits but I'm thinking if the lady knew she was going to see a certain number of guys, (most guys will not back out if they have already pre-paid), she would not have to overbook. I'm am potentially going to be in a similar situation. I will be on a trip out of town next week and a lady I had my eye on is going to be there as well. I'm setting up a session to see her. She requests and I sent her  a deposit. The red flag was the other day when I got her e-mail that sort of hinted at "what time did you want again?" Sort of telling me she has a full dance card already and by the time I see her, she will be not up to her best as well, especially since she is only going to be in town for one day.

I typically shy away from lady's who tour for the reason you indicated as well as other's. I never try to go into an appointment with preconcieved expectations for I feel the session will be what I make of it, yet if the deck is stacked against you, its hard at best.

Just my two cents. I'm out!

"Now hit my music!"

In the majority of the cases your comments are accurate with very few exceptions but as a normal practice that others and I personally use always is try to be the first one even if it is 12:00 noon appointment, also try meeting her the first days of her tour and not her last since some of the ladies tend to wear themselves out like any human being would for the overbooking issues that do take place since everyone wants to see the new girl in town.

I personally remember booking a provider in the evening for 4 hours, after the third she was so tired from the long day she had besides my 4-hour appointment that I left her sleeping. Since the 4th hour was free (pay for 3 get the 4th free) I did not mind but under other circumstances I would have, however my first three hours with her were spectacular and very energizing so I can't say that the meeting was bad or that she gave me a poor performance.

Ladies, add more cardio to your workout regimen, take your vitamins and protein drinks too and please pace yourself and learn to say NO or simply extend your stay in order to continue providing quality meetings to all customers day & night. Normal practices are 3-4 clients per day but some take it to 6-7 per day having some multiple hour bookings. There are however, exceptions to the rule that can go all day as if they had just started.

Seth A/K/A The Doctor

-- Modified on 4/28/2002 12:17:29 AM

you called yourself a prude but more like you prejudged her.

she may have been great, just as good if you were the first one.
I think it was naive of you to jump to that conclusion.

After a session and if she was tired, then you can say to yourself, don't book an appointment in the evening with her again.

I know several ladies that if you are #1 or #7, you receive the same treatment, a great session.

But others are into the volume to make their expeneses and then onto profit.

I'm not here to slam you but instead realizet that yes the girls that travel to a town may be more apt to try to book a higher number of appointments and yes, they may be tired if you see them at the end of the "shift".

But to jump right away to the conclusion, then I think it's too prejudicial.

You didn't mention if she was tired and assume that she was....

Time=Money.  I am booked to try a very famous provider on tour in about a month.  Not only is there a totally irrational amount of money involved (although pretty negligible when you compare it to my shopping carts at Amazon.com, .uk, and .fr - God, I am such a maroon) but I certainly considered when making the arrangements that I would run into the problem you cite.  I did it anyway.  Hopefully, it will be worth it.  If not???  Poorer but wiser.  I will review unless she has a strong objection.  If I post a review, I will (politely) address the issue.

-- Modified on 4/27/2002 4:27:44 PM

She did not say she was tired but dropped comments like "Its been a very long day" and "I need to take more vitamins" and "A nap would be so good right now". So no she did not say she was tired or that it would affect her performance, but yes I did jump to the conclusion that because of the volume of guys she had seen, had a direct relationship to the quality of the performance. Like I said, she was a lovely lady and great conversation, but the physical aspect of the visit left a lot to be desired and I attribute that to again, the number of guy's she had seen prior to me. I may see different types of lady's than you but many that I know would say that the number she saw would be an extreme number of clients for them. No guy want to pay top dollar and basically have the lady just lay there or tire out in certain activities and stop or not engage in others because of being tired.

I like the touring ladies. I've seen three in Phoenix since January and I have enjoyed every one. It gives me a chance to meet women I wouldn't otherwise be able to meet. I agree that depending on the lady and time of day YMMV. The first was very highly rated on the other board and answered the phone, seemed obsessed with her rating, and  complained about the lack of appointments, but she was still fun. The second was the best time I've ever had, second to last day. The last was great as well, a little tired and latter in the day than the other two. Overall I have no complaints, and would repeat with all. The prices varied, but the best was the highest, second best was the lowest by far.

I've been in this playground a long time and have seen a lot.
If she stated what you said, then she was being a mercenary and yes, you have a right to feel a little short changed.
In any business, I think you have the right to expect a person to be at their best.
But on the other hand, we are not dealing with robots either.
Look at yourself in the mirror at your job. There are days where you are sharp and on the money, and other days you should have stayed home. I think we've all done this, gone to work and was really not there but physically we were. Now that is short changing your boss or company to a degree. Maybe this is not a good analogy but I am just saying that we are all human.
I've seen some girls that are just wasted after seeing just one appointment and others that could take on the whole football squad and yell for more.
I've had a few fall asleep in my arms or next to me.
They woke up and profusely apologized for being rude, but I thought it was so cool, that they felt so relaxed that they took a short nap.
I know one guy that is so weird about being the second, third or fourth guy in line and is so neurotic about being with a girl that saw others. The some of the TJ guys are the same.
But if it's a high dollar amount and it's a touring lady and your schedule permits, I would try to get an early appointment.

Nobody really wants to be thinking that they are getting sloppy sevenths!

If she was really a good touring provider, she could still maintain the full level of service you expected, and sell it like you were no worse than #2 of the day.

She messed up by ruining the fantasy with too much information.

How the appointment actually went?
You said that you ASSUMED she would be tired and the experience would not be good... but you never did say how the experience actually was.

That said, I personally could not see six or more clients a day, it is beyond my personal capabilities... but that's not to say it isn't ok for someone else. I'm me, they're them, etc etc. I do think she should've kept her mouth shut about it though, and the ultimate question is... had she not mentioned it, would you have had ANY idea how many clients she'd seen that day by judging her performance?

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Nicole

I can't say that I've seen many travelling escorts but some of the escorts I have seen in Los Angeles also travel.  A couple complained that when on the road they saw 6 to 8 a day but when in Los Angeles a max of 2 or 3.  Some of this was caused by agency booking on the road and direct service in Los Angeles.  In addition consider that some people do better living out of a suitcase than others.  Some people can sleep on the plane and in a hotel bed easily other can't.  Although the experience will vary from person to person I would think that in general you are better off with an appointment in the lady's home town rather than seeing her on the road.

I thought I indicated how the session was. It was less than satisfying. I will say the lady got a reprieve in my mind because she did have an excuse for the sub-par performance. I didn't appreciate it because regardless, I still had to pay full price even though she knew she couldn't live up to  her end of the bargin because she over extended herself. I think even if she would not have told me about the volumn she was doing that day, I would have been able to pick up either she was tired or extremely overrated based on how her performance was. Trust me, a guy can tell especially if the lady is, as I indicated before, just laying there or doesn't have the stamina to stay engaged in an activity for more than a few seconds.

-- Modified on 4/30/2002 7:09:58 AM

I am so sorry that you had a negative experience... and feel like you are absolutely entitled to post a review to that effect! I hope all your future experiences are positive ones! Personally I cannot imagine ever just laying there... EEEEKS! I have far too much fun myself for that

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Nicole