I had a session about a mth ago. Guy contacts and ask if I would be willing to join him and his wife. Only thing was the wife did not agree with hiring a girl!!! He and I met at a comfortable place, talk for awhile....I dont usually do couples at my incall especially for evening appts., but as long as I could verify they were ok we were good. Anyway he paid me at our meeting place and I offered for him to follow me back to the incall(obviously I didnt want him to think I would NCNS and take his money)! He actually told me no it was ok and that he trusted I would answer the phone when the time came. He read my reviews, I am no thief!!! Day comes, they call, usual phone convo, location info....etc..We all had a great time, especially he and I knowing something his wife didnt know plus the bonus of pleasing her at the same time....Session Couldnt have been better....
My girlfriend and i are swingers in the lifestyle for a couple of years now and have had MFM threesomes and couples swapping but never been able to find a single female that we were attracted too to play with.
I've always joked with her that i'll just call a beautiful provider to join and that will mean eliminating all the BS that usually comes with trying to find a compatible match. Unfortunately this idea never sat well with her and basically she is against the 'hiring' of anyone for play purposes for many reasons (with the top one being fear of disease) Now for anyone here who actually indulges in the hobby knows, the quality ladies you can find on here are most likely cleaner than most of the woman that you could find at a bar or club.
Anyway, ladies, how would you set something like this up without letting it known that it was a set up? more importantly, do you think it would/could work and be a good idea to do it this way?
...And you will find this to be true of most reputable providers.
It sounds fantastic and fun in theory but its unethical and deceptive. If your girlfriend wants to fuck a professional she'll let you know. Taking it upon yourself to set it up, even if its in the context of a swing scene is inappropriate, particularly if she has already expressed that she is not interested in pros.
Even though she has a greater chance of contracting something from the swing scene you play in, just because she's uninformed doesn't mean you should take it upon yourself to do something she has already said no to.
I get requests nearly monthly from potential clients asking me to seduce their husbands or wives in various scenes without their knowledge.
I decline all, my friends decline all.
does not want to do the hobby thing best you don't try to trick her into it. Hobbying has its risks unique to it like LE. If she is not a willing participant it is not fair expose her to them. That does not even bring up the dangers of adding deceit to a relationship. Threesomes are fun but not worth the denning her the right to chose what risks she takes. What you proposing could work but is wrong on so many levels. It is a very bad idea in my opinion.
I've always joked with her that i'll just call a beautiful provider to join and that will mean eliminating all the BS that usually comes with trying to find a compatible match. Unfortunately this idea never sat well with her and basically she is against the 'hiring' of anyone for play purposes for many reasons (with the top one being fear of disease) Now for anyone here who actually indulges in the hobby knows, the quality ladies you can find on here are most likely cleaner than most of the woman that you could find at a bar or club.
Anyway, ladies, how would you set something like this up without letting it known that it was a set up? more importantly, do you think it would/could work and be a good idea to do it this way?
The larger brothels are also couples friendly. However, you will pay higher prices at the brothels compared to indies since the brothel keeps 50% of what the ladies book. Also, everything is based on negotiations, i.e. no fixed prices for services (with the exception of 2 of the smaller rural brothels).
You are right about the gals in brothels being safe, but they won't do DATY without dental dams, at least in my experience.
If I was into the swinging lifestyle, I would just look for a guy in the other partnership that was either a voyeur or a cuckold. Then you can have your FMF with civvies and everybody's happy.
Just call me Love God. LOL
If I was into the swinging lifestyle, I would just look for a guy in the other partnership that was either a voyeur or a cuckold. Then you can have your FMF with civvies and everybody's happy.
Just call me Love God. LOL
When I took a girlfriend to one several years ago, I couldn't find a provider to eat HER without a damned damn. I agree. The brothel girls will allow hobbyists to DATY without translation, but, IMHO, I really don't want to do that for a high volume gal whose last appointment was 15 minutes earler, no matter how safe.
We guys are clueless compared to them, and God made it that way on purpose for some reason, probably so he could enjoy the unfolding show. This is why the whole idea of trying to find a provider to fool your GF is a bad idea. Good providers also know this and won't participate in such a ruse.
In any case, you have planted a seed of an idea in her head; and if she really wants to do a FMF some time, she will have the idea to bring in a pro, and it will happen.
On the other hand, there's little stopping you from contacting a provider who can bring in a friend for a FMF with you if you really have to have it.
I had a session about a mth ago. Guy contacts and ask if I would be willing to join him and his wife. Only thing was the wife did not agree with hiring a girl!!! He and I met at a comfortable place, talk for awhile....I dont usually do couples at my incall especially for evening appts., but as long as I could verify they were ok we were good. Anyway he paid me at our meeting place and I offered for him to follow me back to the incall(obviously I didnt want him to think I would NCNS and take his money)! He actually told me no it was ok and that he trusted I would answer the phone when the time came. He read my reviews, I am no thief!!! Day comes, they call, usual phone convo, location info....etc..We all had a great time, especially he and I knowing something his wife didnt know plus the bonus of pleasing her at the same time....Session Couldnt have been better....
candygyrlxxx"..We all had a great time, especially he and I knowing something his wife didnt know plus the bonus of pleasing her at the same time....Session Couldnt have been better...."
Great attitude candygyrl.. Just like bringing a unknown provider to the strip club, picking up a stripper for the night. What they don't know, won't hurt them,and is usually fun.
I learned long ago, my chimney sweep job is not the most desired profession, from a ladies point of view.
Just call me Dr. Love.
I'm a fake cardiologist, at the club.
This is an interesting dilemma...I'm sure the thought has crossed your mind, if she only met a provider she'd see that they aren't want she envisions. May I suggest an alternative...find a few "target" providers, go through their sites with your GF, select the one you are both most interested in, and set up and "above board" non-sex meeting for the three of you. I've seen more than one provider advertise a price for public time, either for a meal or drinks, at pretty reasonable rates...or at a normal rate but they will make an adjustment on a subsequent session. It might just convince your GF about the quality of the providers.
You MUST be open with the GF and provider about this though, everyone has to be on the same page for it to work.
Bad idea. Most asp's (IMO) will not see couples unless they have spoken to the lady involved. Plus you have a relationship with your GF most guys would give their left nut for ( she is into the swinging lifestyle), why risk that by deceiving her when she has already expressed that that is something she wishes not to do. Give it a little more time and I am sure that you will find the lady who fits your (and hers) requirements. The only reason that it won't happen is if she doesn't do ladies or she just wants strange dick and this allows her to get it.