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...trouble GETTING VERIFIED!! :s
This is what happens when you're gone for too damn long. 
They just aren't visible 
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I got lucky in that the girl I wanted to see wanted to see me too and was looking for a reason to ok me not cull me. She ended up accepting the word of her client who was good friends with a girl I had helped out years before when she was in trouble and had mentioned it to him.
I guess my point is, if you know enough people someone is bound to know someone else who may be able to help you. Have you explored the networking aspect?
Moral of the story: It pays to be nice to people. 
Sucks Balls!!
This is what happens when you're gone for too damn long.
Many ladies have a strict policy and only take references from INDEPENDENT ladies currently active and seen in the last 6 months. That's cool and I already knew some ladies (the kind I'd want to see) take their verification very seriously.
But it sucks monkey testicles that I have trouble getting verified cuz I haven't had problems like this since I was a complete noob. This particular hot lady I'm trying to get verified with doesn't accept agency references or old references. I can't use vast majority of the ladies I've reviewed in the last several years as a reference cuz I haven't seen them recently. Worse, my P411 expired but it wouldn't help anyways cuz most of my OKs are pretty old.
Another shitty thing is, I doesn't help that the few independent girls I've seen in the last month are seasonal / part-timers who literally disappear for days or weeks on end before responding to any email, let alone a reference verification email.
Sucks Balls!!
I've had gaps in my hobbying too, and currently on hiatus as well...-- Modified on 2/12/2014 8:46:41 AM
He is just venting guys...
DA - If you just explain them that you have been out due to personal reasons, I'm sure they would understand... Just renew your P411 and you are good to go.. But I am sure you know that already...
I've had gaps in my hobbying too, and currently on hiatus as well... -- Modified on 2/12/2014 8:46:41 AM
we do appreciate it when you guys jump through all the hoops for us if we happen to be doing die hard extreme screening at certain points in our career.
I know when I began to screen to the max it's usually because I have a good reason to and there may be some things going on that are making me have to screen hardcore.
from a provider's perspective I would say you should do what he needs to do to make sure he can pass for screening I'm sure she's not doing it to be a bug she may just have a clients wife that has been stalking her or she may have a man that has been stalking her or she may be under the radar of policia .
I can only speak for myself but when I feel things are getting hot you will see I will do everything aside from asking for DNA samples!
when I know everythings all good in the hood I basically just carry a knife and I will keep a big giant open bottle of bleach next to me when I open the door
I would trust how are you handling things more than I would ever trust any other woman's opinion of a client
and in fact I personally think letting other women know that you are taking their clientele is honestly going to cause you more problems than risking going to see a stranger!
I am actually beginning to feel like letting women know you're taking all their clientele is not exactly the best practice and that in itself is not safe'
ever since I stopped screaming I'm getting better scores and a lot more reviews and I'm a lot happier'
I also don't necessarily like everyone to know that all their clients are coming to see me this can cause a lot of indifference and static if people are the jealous competitive types!
some people always have enough business and there are other people that will flip out if they know that 5 to 10 of their clients want to see you that month instead of them------
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the way I look at it if somebody wants to bash you in the nose and throat, toss a black pillow case over your head and throw ball gag in your mouth.
then whisk you away in the back of a van and tie you up and some kind of torture chamber in the basement where you will live until you die for the next three years being tortured.
trust me I watched the identification Discovery Channel en Forensic Files and this happens every single day and I got a 10 times it's happening to an unsuspected innocent person walking down the street.
no matter where you are escorting is not safe I don't give a f*** if you are in a hotel that 700 day kidding yourself and pretending one way safer than the next!
escorting is not safe. People can pretend they're safe because they're at a fancy hotel people think they're safe because the screen the reality is anything can happen at any moment and that's for escorts as well as normal people leaving normal lives walking home from work or going into a parking garage to start their car
I have a saying and it goes like this carpe diem
seize the day and enjoy life while you have it
yesterday is history tomorrow is a mystery today is a gift that's why they call it the present'
! !
so in summary I would say go ahead and jump through all the hoops she has to have you jump through who knows she may be being stocked by some idiots wife was probably calling her on his personal phone because he is a complete careless jerk.
who is making outgoing calls from my personal cell phone that has a cell phone bill that can be traced in which his suspicious wife is looking at and doing research on all the phone number she's calling out to
trust me there are some guys still do this and this is still always going to be a problem it happens when the wife finds out the phone number and then comes to your house and start vandalizing things and then you have to move or whatever may be the case
using the hotel is great but its not that hard to wait until you depart the hotel and follow you home in a car with people want to know where you are I don't know where you are doesn't matter how much you try to hide and go get hotels in Houston call apartments are not using call apartments or you separate apartments regardless if somebody is gone Hall on killing you are chasing you down they're going to it doesn't matter if you're in a hotel although do is follow you out the back door watch you get into your car and follow the car it wouldn't be rocket science you know any safer because you're in a hotel but if people want to keep getting themselves and think the escorting a safe no matter which way you do it that's great go for it!
weather I am in a hotel and install apartment or doing outcall I feel they are all equally is dangerous and I don't ever feel like it is a safe thing I do know I am taking a risk to have a huge reward of living in more comfortable life and not having to work as hard for all the money I make
the day I ever kid myself that one way is safer than the next I don't think that day will come I'm not that naive
This is what happens when you're gone for too damn long.
Many ladies have a strict policy and only take references from INDEPENDENT ladies currently active and seen in the last 6 months. That's cool and I already knew some ladies (the kind I'd want to see) take their verification very seriously.
But it sucks monkey testicles that I have trouble getting verified cuz I haven't had problems like this since I was a complete noob. This particular hot lady I'm trying to get verified with doesn't accept agency references or old references. I can't use vast majority of the ladies I've reviewed in the last several years as a reference cuz I haven't seen them recently. Worse, my P411 expired but it wouldn't help anyways cuz most of my OKs are pretty old.
Another shitty thing is, I doesn't help that the few independent girls I've seen in the last month are seasonal / part-timers who literally disappear for days or weeks on end before responding to any email, let alone a reference verification email.
Sucks Balls!!
You better get ready to be one of those over 30 providers you dogged out honey, because no one is going to hire someone like you do anything BUT take it up the ass. Letting every guy know where you live (ones you don't even bother to screen lol) is the most asinine shit anyone could post, but coming from you, it's not really that much of a shock. You used to make at least a little bit of sense, now you're just sounding crazy. You realize you just told every nut job and cop on this board to contact you, because you don't screen AND will invite them right in your door. Um, what happens when someone tells your landlord you're turning tricks in THEIR property? What happens when someone calls the cops just to fk with you? I D I O T! Good gosh... keep the jokes and the insanity coming. I am about to ask Boston to come take their idiot back, before some newbie provider actually takes your insane drivel seriously. See you on the news, Angel. I realize you have a disability, but it does not affect your BRAIN! Get a fkin clue, before you end up dead!
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