I am a newbie at this little hobby.  I have only seen a few girls for massage and really enjoyed it.  I am looking to up the ante a bit.  I am married and really concerned about catching an STD.  Is this a common issue/problem with respectable providers.  Any advice would be appreciated.

1. Play hard, and while you are at it, make sure you get tested often!  There is free, anonymous HIV testing.  I get tested for everything regularly, and I've never caught ANYTHING.  Being tested often is the only way to stop yourself from worrying.

2. Always use a condom to avoid STD transmission.  Most clinicians recommend CBJ, not BBBJ, to avoid transmission.  Kissing and masturbation is not considered high risk.  You can also use saran wrap or dental dams with lube for DATY, and that is safer than uncovered DATY.

XOXO,
Tattooed Asian Kim of NYC

I have been in the hobby for 5 years and have been with perhaps 50 providers, including several in Tijuana.  Almost never do I see a provider who does only CBJ and I always perform DATY on the lady.  (And usually I see ladies with CIM on their menus.)

I am tested approximately once a year; have never had an STD.

(I belong to a Tijuana discussion board.  The best answer to the question "What do you tell the crossing guard when he asks 'What are you bringing back from Mexico?'?":

"Nothing.....I hope.")

Of course, if you come down with an STD, you might conclude there is a God who is punishing you.....to say nothing of your female doing so.

And:  there is risk in almost anything.  For example, I wonder if Tattooed Asian considered the risks when she decided to have her body painted.  Scientists have discovered that some tattoo ink has high metal content.  She may have medical problems decades in the future.

I think her and her tattoos, are HOT!

is good for you and most ladies will understand..If you choose covered everything no one will complain.

Your comfort, safety and enjoyment is at the top of our list..

While your at it go over to the newbie board and do a search..This question is asked often and their is much to read on it.

Kisses Haley

I agree with #1 and always always using condoms for intercourse.  #2 is harder because w/o uncovered DATY life is not worth living (LOL, but true).  My answer has been to maintain excellent hygiene, to expect the same from  providers, and to make a visual inspection before diving in.  If the visual does not make me happy, I just skip the DATY and almost invariably I do not see that provider again.

I prefer BBBJs but if the provider prefers CBJ I usually just skip the BJ except as a "fluffer."  If I really like the provider, no BBBJ is not a deal-breaker.  Same w/ no DFK (although I do really like to kiss).  

I get tested regularly, including for herpes.  I take lots of vitamins and try to stay healthy and clean.  So far so good.

Always coverup - play safe - if it seems risky it probably is - use your big head and not your little head and stay safe.

I test every 3 months. I have picked up very few STDs over my "career" and all of them were treatable by an antibiotic. And I have not picked up an STD in the US with an escort. I am always covered for P-V but enjoy BBBJ and daty.

Make an informed decision - see the attached link and / or google information about STD risks.

Happy Hunting


Gregory

I think that it is an "informed risk" when I offer uncovered DATY & BBBJ.

I've read the information about it.  I am capable of making my decision, and I just get tested often.

So far, so good.

Thanks to all of you.  I really appreciate your imput and advice.

I am not sure how much you know about safer sex. You can check out the link below and other related articles there.

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