when i first met one of my providers she stated she hated anal sex..much to my surprise she has since changed her mind and now has it available for an extra charge of 200 dollars..other providers i see have it on their menu at no extra charge and seem to enjoy the trip to the greek isles..my flawed logic tells me that providers who charge extra for something actually hate to do it ..thus the extra charge..are providers who hate CIM going to charge extra? are providers who hate rimming going to charge extra? i have never paid extra and never will..i just need some help on understanding why our lovely ladies feel the need to tack on the extra fee for a session..will it attract more clients? or drive them away?....

is indeed flawed. Just because your example decided to offer something she doesn't care for, and charge a premium for it-- that doesn't apply to everyone.

I offer greek for $100 extra, and it's not because I dislike it... quite the contrary. I love greek, and I want to be able to offer it with enthusiasm.

I do think it involves extra wear and tear on my body, so to me, it doesn't make sense to include it in my base gift.

By making it my sole add-on, I attract gentlemen who know they like it, do it well and appreciate my skills. It's a win-win for me!

Rimming, on the other hand, simply grosses me out. No amount of $$$ will change my mind on that one!

have a great new year,

Tabu

There are a variety of activities that individual providers may or may not find unpleasant or distasteful.  CIM, swallowing, rimming, anal, even DFK.
Some may put them completely off limits, (sometimes if only for the safety factor) others may grin and bear it for the sake of extra compensation.

There are also providers that enjoy those very same activities. They may include them as part of their regular service, or they may realize that some men are willing to pay a premium and take advantage of that fact to make more money.

I don't think there's any easy, all encompassing answer for this question Mac. There are too many variables involved.  I think it's safe to say that the larger the "extra" fee, the less tolerant of the act the woman is.  Anal being one of the more taboo of the taboos, it tends to command a premium more often than not, even if the provider seems to enjoy it as well.

At +200, I would assume the lady does not enjoy it. But then again, if her hourly is 1000, 200 is a drop in the bucket.

Its just good marketing on their part to charge extra...

Would you rather, a provider charge $500 for all inclusive or a provider charge $300 + 200 extra for Greek? I would rather she did latter.  A lot of guys are not interested in Greek. What is the point in charging them extra when they are not even going to go there.. She can keep them happy by providing slightly lower fee. Others who want Greek can pay up...

Another dimension is that making it freely available to everyone would want a lot of guys to try it. That's more toll on woman's body. Making it available for extra will weed out lot of guys who don't want to pay up. That means less toll on the body. Trust me. Anal takes a toll on woman's body, especially if your cock is size of a baby's arm

extra prep for the lady to be "ready" for your visit. Could be why the extra $.

a better understanding why some will do it but are going to make you pay more.

Simple economics really.  She hates anal, but likes cash more than she dislike anal, so she charges for anal.  What's not to understand?

Please stop picking on poor lil' blue-boy!  He got his butt singed so badly yesterday he's probably sitting ass-first in a snow drift somewhere, whimpering softly.

And want to overpay for pussy...why doesn't your OP surprise me?

Here's a concept mac...pay less for the pussy you want..and get the service you want.  It's not a terribly difficult formula to understand either.

Or keep on seeing those overpriced hookers you like and bitch that they won't perform certain activities.

It's your call pal  

Or are you really just asking in a backhanded way why the hookers charge so much?  And you can't afford the ones you want to see?

Most providers who charge extra for greek can get it, and know it. I doubt the same providers charging their clients a shit load are not also fucking their boyfriends with greek for free, so there goes that logic. I am sure some providers who charge extra dont like it, but many do so because it takes so much work and is a lot of wear and tear. If they did not charge extra, how worn would that ass be from every guy wanting to partake? It is a pse service and pse is more. Porn stars already asking a grand don't need to charge any extra but a girl at only 200 an hour should charge more or shei s going to be quite worn out.

Any woman is entitled to charge what she wants.  And every man is entitled to pay what he wants.  Only when the two intersect is there a transaction.

That's the be-all and end-all of this entire issue.

Don't start thinking that some girl is gonna lower her rate because you are telling her that a competitor will offer a cheaper price.  This isn't Wal Mart, and women aren't gonna pay attention to such nonsense.

A provider might love it, but she might realize that she can get more for it, so why not?  Economics tells us that there are always suppliers that will do their best to extract consumer surplus under the demand curve.  That just means that the first guy who is trying to get anal sex is likely to pay more than what she would probably charge as a market rate for every guy.  And so if she's smart, she will try to get that first guy to pay as much as he is willing.  Say the going rate for anal is $100 extra.  And say that she might be willing to offer it as a $100 upcharge.  But if that first guy REALLY wants it with her and is willing to pay $250 for that, she might sense that and only offer it to him for $250.

This whole business is not unlike any other business:  You try to extract as much value as you can, and so does she.  We try to do that by reading reviews and seeing who does the most for the least amount of coin, and she decides to see clients she can charge the most.

It's not a "she likes this" issue as much as it is a "she can get this outta you" issue.

They charge because they know you will pay, and they will continue charging until they no longer desire to be in the biz, actually become interested enough in someone where economics don't matter, or can no longer command the price they charge.

Again, it's really not that complicated.

PS if you read all their websites, you'll see that they charge for their time, not sex

EXACTLY! Anal is "exotic" and "taboo" to some people, dirty and disgusting to others, and perfectly normal and enjoyable to many.  Since planning in advance is required for an optimal session, most ladies want to know in advance, and the extra charge is worth it to the men who wish for it.

I've tried it, and it is not something I crave or seek out.  If I was offered it during a session as part of the fun for no extra charge, I still might turn it down, but it depends on the moment.

Supply and demand are what sets the rates.  The imbalance between anal demand and anal supply causes the price to be higher.  That's greek economics that functions properly!

Sy

Saying that because they charge or charge extra for something means they hate it makes no sense, because if that were the case they would just fuck us all for free.  I doubt very women could  say with a straight face that they are horny and wet for sex much less anal 24/7, so that is my point. Anal sex is something you have to be warmed up to I would think. You can't just walk in and cram yur cock in her ass, and exactly how much warm up is there going to be in an hour?

do it with guys at bars for free. Flawed logic again.

When I quoted your post and said "flawed logic" that was meant for the OP. Sorry bout that.

I've seen you post this idea a couple times, so maybe I can help you out a bit here. Just like everything we do, it's really more of a filter than something we do or do not like.

1) the clients. More than anything. When I first started, I didn't charge extra. But you know what I found out? 80% of clients had no idea what they were doing back there, but 100% wanted to give it a go in some shape or form anyways. That area does not lubricate itself, and it actually really HURTS if you come in and just ram a dry finger in my ass while we're saying hello, or try and stick your dick in without even asking. Or even worse, those ones who had only ever seen porn and came in guns a blazin trying to pound me like they had seen in movies. That, I have zero patience for.  After a while, I got fed up with it. These guys were taking something I really enjoyed doing and ruining it. So, I started charging. And you know what I've noticed? The ones who will pay for it are in general so much more enjoyable than the ones who only want it if its free. They get it, they're respectful, and they're often either properly experienced, or the kind of newbie who wants to do it right the first time.

2) general health. Remember the clients who have no idea what they're doing? Well, they can do more than put a girl in a bad mood, they can really make you sick. Those same clients who wanted it only if it were free are the same ones who would stick a finger in my (or even someone else's in the case of a double) ass and then want to put it right back in my hoonanie. No. This is unsanitary, and can mess a girl up for a week or more. You have to be aware of where your hands have been and are going at all times. Yes my ass is clean, but that doesn't mean I want to risk a yeast infection that will put me out of work for a week. By charging, I can reduce the numbers of times that this might happen, and the type of client who pays doesn't seem to do that as much.

3) comfort. There are also only so many times you can comfortably perform anal in a day, week, month, whatever, and this allows a lady to set her limits without her clients ever knowing. Maybe she only wants so many of those types of appointments. Didn't ask for the PSE or whatever she calls it? Don't even think about it. Simple as that. The client knows what to expect, and so does the girl. There's also a lot of preparation that goes into getting ready for anal so that we can do it on demand and in a way that will please someone else first. Knowing your schedule means no need to constantly be ready to go, or starve yourself all day just in case, you already know when and where you need to be ready. While it may seem simple, being able to *really* be ready makes a huge difference in the feel of the appointment for both of us.

4) I can. And if it got to the point that I couldn't because everyone else was doing it, then I would simply not offer it anymore. Right now, not many girls can or will do Greek, so why should I get paid the same as everyone else for doing more, and doing it when the client wants?

Whether you believe it or not, there is an unspoken pay scale in this industry. Fbsm providers make less than a FS provider. A full service provider makes less than a GFE provider. Everywhere else, those who do more make more, so why would it suddenly mean she hates Greek for charging more for it like everything else? It doesn't. She's just being smart about it. I think some hobbyists just hate when the illusion gets burst when boundaries come into play.

Stands to reason and another pricing thing the guys might not get but there is method to that madness...lol.

you'll good to go. No extra charge !


Happy New Year !

do so at extra cost, often 100.  Supply & demand.  She can justify it with extra prep which some do require.  No matter.
If you want the service, pay up.  If you don't then move along.  Bitchin about the price is unseemly.

That is what my rate would be if Greek were "all inclusive" and even then, most would still be turned down without a refund for the service. That is why. If a rate is all inclusive you are billed that rate even if you don't partake in all of the services. The other way, you are ONLY billed for what you get. If I can't perform greek, the guy keeps his extra 200 when there are two rates, but the other way, I make 800 regardless. Which would most guys prefer? I would have to assume the two rates.