Okay Ladies. I know he is rich, and you would eat his undies, but...
Are you seriously okay with the domination part? I mean the way it is portrayed?
This isn't Frozen, or Beauty and the beast here....
I don't think its cool to glamorize Sadomasicism to people who have no clue to how dangerous it can be.

There are some total freaks in this community.  

But I am very interested in exploring my dom side. I am quite sure though that it hinges on a certain degree of trust. I believe the idea is to push the envelope very close to the boundaries without going past them. Of course "safe" words must always be honored. I enjoy the idea of the mental aspects of the dom/sub game.

Titillated sexual adventurers are hardly likely to do harm.  What are you concerned about, exactly?

The pleasure of dominating and the pleasure of submitting is what sex is about. How could it be otherwise? Every position puts on or the other in control, and a submissive may try to hold back but eventually surrenders in orgasam. If you extend this aspect, you get the sado-masocistic realm. It's not like asking a virgin to bear your first born and throw him into the roaring fireplace to prove her love and total embrace of the wild and free side of life.

with a provider, who can you play wild with?  It is play - hence the expression Pay 4 Play.

I just think that movie glorifies something that should be practiced?
To Put a man in that position of dominance without know how could, and will hurt many stupid girls who think they are cool by rein acting something they saw on a TV screen.
It also encourages young men to do something to women they know nothing about.
plus it ruins everything about the fun of it if I have to worr

Fuck off you useless peice of shit

kind of long but it mentions how people really into BDSM say this gives a false picture of BDSM and could be a danger to the uninitiated.

I loathe this author more than Scoresby  

I haven't seen the movie, or read the book, but I am now lol!

...about the Twilight thing. They agree with you about the inaccurate portrayal.

You will get there..
If you are past it? Move north.

I think it's hilarious the uproar and the anticipation this movie has brought on since it's inception.  

That said, the dood is usually totally layme butt the klown nose thing wuz pritty funnie.

in the lifestyle and I am sure it probably helped out a few marriages along the way.  It has interested me for several years now and I have friends who live this lifestyle everyday and are very happy together.  A true Dom/sub relationship is based on trust and respect. I think there is nothing sexier than a real calm dominant man who has a presence about himself...but I feel the submissive has the ultimate control.

The Story of O was first published in 1954.  I wonder what they asked about THAT?

I read the 50 shades trilogy about 2 years ago. I had not heard of the Story of 0 till recently, a client of mine bought the book for me since I had been talking about the foreign film "Venus in Fur" which is also a must see on this topic. If you email me in a few weeks I'm sure I'll have The Story of O read by then and would be happy to give you my thoughts on one vs. the other.

50 shades of grey is pretty average as a novel honestly.  Not sure why all the hype.  I have a GF who does book reviews and on her suggestion I read it then read another she suggested and it was 10 times better in every way.  Story, grammar, and the naughty bits.  Fifty shades got big purely on coincidental factors.  On a personal note all of us have seen the XXX version of this book 100 times why in the world would anyone waste their time to see the watered down version.  Wild S&M, been there, done that, got the t-shirt.  Who cares?  Mind boggling.  

50 Shadez Uv Gray is rilly, rilly badly rittin!

In our strange and shadowy corner of the  world we get to  witness and participate in a most forward  leaning  adventure  in human  behavior. Willing and consenting adults freely engage in the trade of various forms of sex for money. Some forms may seem outre and others are downright  pedestrian but by and large we tend to  like it as it is.

as a "society" we have a plethora of followers.  

It’s horrible erotic writing to boot.  

...Most of what you said is in it.

It was piss poor badly written Twilight Fan fiction, and to me its coersion and borderline rape, didn't like it when it was crap fan fiction, don't like it as a "Novel" either. But to each their own.

This book could be great fun for a party. A few glasses of wine, open the book anywhere, at random,  and have people read passages out-loud, with passion! There are more than a few that I don't think I could get through with a straight face.....lol..

And, no doubt—-she tapped a gusher—-this is brilliant. It is.  

You have two options:
1. To arrange a date with a dominatrix who has a dungeon you will end up getting sadistic domination session (chains, dangerous sharp objects laying around ad being used on you etc.
2. Arrange a session of sensual domination (in which which teasing and nudity is most probably involved and you will end up getting release too) at your hotel or house with an out call provider is different thing.  
Advice: You Better off if you chose second option
If you want details email me here and I will give you details about it as I do these kind of sessions all the time

As long as domination session is sensual , arousing and exciting the orgasm will be controlled, you will get plenty of teasing, so the session will not be boring.  
Also role play dominatrix /submissive added to all I mentioned will keep things entertaining  the whole session.
 I been sensual dominatrix for long time so if you want details email me here on TER and I will reply with my phone number.

Not everyone's undies taste great...not everyone wants to sell their soul...But everyone has a dark side.

Try A.N. Roquelaure's (Anne Rice's nom de plume) Sleeping Beauty Series.  It's quite fantastic!