I believe my reaction would have been like yours. Shock and disbelief!  Things like this can bother you and sometimes it can be difficult to push it out of your mind..... if possible at all.  I do not think you should feel guilty, you did not agree to schedule.  It is obvious that you feel bothered and I can say that if I were in your shoes, I would have been upset also.  It makes you wonder how long the girl in question has been a victim and how much damage has been done.  Very upsetting.

Dia

Lots of sick people out there, you do seem to run into more of them in the adult businesses than anywhere else. You did all that you could do.

Hopefully he was just messing with you, which would be bad enough.  If he's truely contemplating this then he better hope a provider doesnt turn him into to the police.

Okay so there are the "sickos" lurking, saying ok, you've got a gorgeous 22 year old and her hot father who runs a construction company and has a bod to die for and you're seeing this mindblowing 3 some...chances are she's not really his daughter, it's just the fantasy so he's telling you that on the phone. She might be his secretary or co-worker's daughter. Hopefully, there's one guy in Atlanta or Chicago reading this right now, saying to himself, "Oh Heather, thank goodness, I'm not the only one who'd be driving 77mph to get to that!"

Is incest illegal if the girl is of age and capable of making her own decisions?

HB

ps. and no, i've never fucked a family member....i have however, french kissed my dog.

I don't know whether the guy was serious or just playing a game.  I suspect that sometimes this sort of thing may go on.  You were absolutely right in drawing the boundaries around the activities in which you are willing to participate.  You should not feel personally guilty about this.  A poor comparison would be as follows:

Some providers specialize in the degradation trade.  They perform golden showers, feed clients excrement, etc.  Personally I find that disgusting and doubt that most of the providers I see would participate in those scenes.  Should the providers I see personally feel guilty because other providers participate in this trade?  Absolutely not!  We are ultimately only personally responsible for what we do.  

As members of the human race we should feel sad that some of these things occur.

Sorry I got so long winded.

Not that I'm saying you should name names here.  

e.g. A friend told me of a hobbyist who asked her to provide a third underage to play with.  Soon after I also heard he was questioned by police.  

I'm thinking your caller will eventually run into a provider or LE sting who will make his fantasy a very real reality in the klinker.  

He's probably full of it, but look what he did to your mental state.  I'm so sorry you had to go through this.

Big Hugs
Misty

ruth, the most likely situation is that this guy was blowing you, his use of the word "girl" intended to provoke your question about her age. (after all, he could easily tell you her age without telling you that she was his daughter.)

even if you assume he was for real, "daughter" could be his wife's daughter from a previous marriage, or simply his girlfriend or even another provider adopting a role ... and he just wanted you to believe in the fantasy.

bottom line, there is weirdness and unhappiness in the world and you are not responsible for it. you did the best you could -- you sniffed it out and declined to participate.

Almost sounds like a crank call. Sick minds out there people. But probably was not... which is even sadder.

Walking on the edge does mean that others who walk a different edge might think you are different. Consensual sex with a stranger does not morally equate to having sex with your daughter.