What is your postion as a Hobbiest on DATY?  Good, too risky, safe?  oduterl

If I can't handle eating it, I'm not gonna fuck it.

Determine your own risk assessment.  For me, its pretty much a necessity.  Therefore, I find it safe enough.  Does she ever give you a fluff up with the condom on after you've been inside her or while you're changing positions?  Do you kiss her after that?

I had dental problems through much of my childhood that led to me being very shy about my mouth. It is hard for me to kiss honestly until I really get to know a girl. Add to that the fact that I am a very very analytical person and I simply can not bring myself to DATY in this environment. It isn't that it is something I can never do, but it is something I could only do with a SO. If I am going to do that it had better be my Y and no one elses.

The very thought while I would be trying to DATY that she had seen someone or more then one someone possibly even that same day would just not work for me in any way shape or form.

between her knees, flat on bed...  cup her buns.  Try to get diagonal on big bed elsewise possible to fall off end or at least end up with feet on the floor.  
i love to get her going...

I lay on the bed with my head at the headboard. She straddles my face and leans forward with her hands on the wall or headboard as I lick, suck and nibble while squeezing her ass or fondling her tits...

There is nothing I enjoy more than eating pussy.

I love doing it....Love it!!

But I am very selective about whom I'm doing it with.

I have a hard time with this one because I keep thinking she could have some guy's sperm in her.  What if she is not just wet because of the fore-play???  I know it's ridiculous because the lady is providing the same service to me and has no clue when I last had uncovered sex.

But next three-some, I am going for it.  There just might be a three person shower before the fun begins.

I love DATY and the ladies who are into it. Unlike those hilarious reviews I read I know that I am not going to bring a provider to 3 Os in a session but that doesn't mean it can't be fun for us both. And not only do I try to learn from all the doubles sessions ive participated in but I pride myself on quickly adapting to each new lady's request to do it a certain way. Or as farmboy would say "As you wish."

http://www.sexinfo101.com/cunnilinguspositions.shtml

This assumes an FMF, threesome.  Would you do the same with an MFMF foursome?

Chances are very slim that a quality provider will have a guy's semen waiting for you!  If she did, you've not done your own screening.

Make no mistake - there will be another FMF.  If for no other reason that I cannot wait to watch another woman suck my partner's cock again.  

And you are right, screening is important.  As is having a certain level of comfort with the provider.  For instance I would have no problem giving oral to London Rayne or Saturnsky, but I also know enough about them from the boards to feel comfortable.  Ladies - I hope you do not mind me using your names in a post.

And oddly enough, no, I do not have the same reservations with MFMF.  Someone once sent me an article about how women become more willing to do things sexually as their level of arousal increases.  Obviously true...

Whatever rings her bell.

Hear hear!!  The best!!

Agreed that DATY is a necessity for me.  I won't book if it's not on the menu.  Also greed I'm happy whether or not her orgasm is faked as long as it's not too obvious.  Don't start the moaning too early girls, I'm not THAT good. I certainly expect I'll have a better chance getting her to an O with oral than with intercourse.  One of my favorite memories is with a provider who, after seeming to have an orgasm from my oral efforts, had a look of surprise when I came up for air.  It made me believe it was real.