Just wondering if you enjoy spending non play time with a provider as much as play time. After I play with the provider I'm seeing we just talk about everyday life. I like to take her to dinner and just hang out with her. She's never in a rush to leave. Well with me anyway. Sort of adds to the Girlfriend Experience. She's pretty Awesome.

Yes, there are women who I could hang out with pre and post sex, and just enjoy their company.  However, I will not pay for that experience; it has to be OTC.

A lot more now then usual now too then in the past as the SB effect starting to bleed into TER style escorting, which is great for us mongers.

...with me after a session to just have a cup of coffee and chat. I enjoy it immensely.

I love it. I have done that many times with two favorites in the past. OTC late lunch or dinner after PTP time.

...coz at first glance I thought that OTC meant 'Outside The Club', an acronym commonly used in the stripclub world. :

Just relish in this new day and age in mongering. Lots of new girls jumping in, prices going down with these hot ass SB's, whew! Good times are ahead sister! lol

as "off the clock" time quite often refers to time "outside the bedroom". So there are a lot of similarities.  

Yesterday OTC.  I paid for a couples massage at the Ritz Carlton and a steak dinner at Flemings next door, but nothing for her time, including a few hours of bedroom time at her place in Ktown.

if not more so.

My ATF is a fascinating, charming and always interesting woman and I've found over the years that our time together gets longer as I love the play and non-play aspects of our time together.

Which was not created by you, but was created for you!

I personally like that one, but it's never really caught on.

...since I have usually used "Horse" in that spot.

Substitute "whore" for "horse"

After the time is up, some ladies kick your ass outta there, and some ladies sit on your lap, and won't let you go. But it's not called mttugfe. It's called atf, and I'll be back soon.

Jake is the one who coined the term and we don't want him to become any more "full of himself' than he already is. lol

And don't worry.  It's hardly possible for me to think more of myself than I already do.
Which also goes for my many fans.

After BBFS.  Combining the two is so intimate, don't you think?

Lucky you? Another way to put it is people are social and it's natural to spend time together no matter what background.

and then I realized it was the acronym you don't see any more, not that you aren't getting the service. lol

Anyone I agree to play with has to be the "hangout with me" type. It would feel so unrealistic and transaction otherwise. I don't ever agree to meet "just here for the goods" or the "quickies" guys, hence the minimum duration. Gives us both time to indulge in some other ways.

I really like the women I book with.  I enjoy talking with them;  I enjoy playing with them.  They are absolutely wonderful companions.  I frankly adore all of them.  There is one girl "R", for example, that I am just completely head over heels with....

And I are great friends . We've done all kind of things together. I even been grocery shopping and helped clean her App.. I never see anyone else . Never had a problem being best friends with her !

My ATF a I call our relationship as friends with paid benefits. It does happen.

Many people here are STARVING for attention, and the second you cross that green fence, they're planning their divorce, and your marriage. (Trust me, I fell for the OTC trick many times in the beginning. I don't pay to watch her eat bs - all of those men have slandered me to the heavens and back, except one lol.)

Don't worry Courtney. There are still a few of us left who pay em to leave.

I can handle it pretty well. I have no problem if she can't go out to dinner after we play. There's been a few times she could not hang out after we played. That's fine. Most of the time I see her she can spend OTC time with me. It never costs me anymore than our standard  session fee to spend OTC time with her. When our time is over we hug and kiss and drive off. While I'm driving home she even texts me to say she had a great time seeing me. I'd say she enjoys spending OTC Time with me.

And you're exactly the kind of clients that providers who provide GFE want to see.

I love all the fun in the sheets, but I also enjoy a glass of wine, intelligent conversation, being silly together, all that good stuff. Getting to know the client and feeling comfortable with one another makes the sex much better, in my opinion.