My favorites know I love to spend time with them but they also realize that I like meeting someone new. Most of them actually help me with references or actually make recommendations of who I should see, either out of knowledge or curiousity.
I still try to see the first woman I found, since starting this endeavor, as often as possible but others have entered into the status of those I would not give up. I love my favorites but always seem to see that someone new who catches my eye.
I can say that I probably will no longer go on SexFests. My vacation last month that including eight different ladies in eleven days was a bit of an overload (it wouldn't have been so bad but the day and a half with a favorite kind of took it out of me; at least the rest got a good laugh about the rug-burns).
So I guess I'm spoiled; I want the best of both worlds.
DrX
For purposes of this discussion, I will divide hobbyists into two groups -- those who are Harem builders and those who are Safari hunters.
Harem builders: Have a certain number of providers and do not actively seek out new providers.
Safari hunters: Enjoy the thrill of the chase to find new providers they can click with.
Out of curiousity -- can you easily place yourself into one of these two groups? If so, which one?
-Hoot.
I'd probably best fit the category of a Harem builder who sometimes goes on safari. LOL
I have to agree with greywolf, but the safari's are quite frequent.
I agree with this.
I do like the comfortable feeling of seeing someone I've seen a bunch of times before but do enjoy the excitement of seeing someone new. I keep saying that I'm going to stick with 3 or 4 regulars but I keep branching out!
I have been seeing one lady for about 4 years. Used to be monthly whenever she would come to my area to work. I started thinking that I need to see her a bit less. Last year she moved away to the west coast and I was a little bit bummed because I thought that was it for her, but she's been coming back to the east coast about every three months and I find that perfect - even monthly visits were getting to be a little much.
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Precisely. And more a Harem guy the older I get. And now, with the pandemic "break," ringing up
my old Harem girls even "feels" like a Safari !
I'd probably best fit the category of a Harem builder who sometimes goes on safari. LOL
Good luck on your quest! LOL!
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My favorites know I love to spend time with them but they also realize that I like meeting someone new. Most of them actually help me with references or actually make recommendations of who I should see, either out of knowledge or curiousity.
I still try to see the first woman I found, since starting this endeavor, as often as possible but others have entered into the status of those I would not give up. I love my favorites but always seem to see that someone new who catches my eye.
I can say that I probably will no longer go on SexFests. My vacation last month that including eight different ladies in eleven days was a bit of an overload (it wouldn't have been so bad but the day and a half with a favorite kind of took it out of me; at least the rest got a good laugh about the rug-burns).
So I guess I'm spoiled; I want the best of both worlds.
DrX
(basically a sex trip with a little tourist stuff thrown in), and was thinking I'd like to pack in as many ladies as possible.
When you say "overload" do you mean it just isn't that much fun packing in too many? I'd probably bring some vitamin V. Any advice? Thanks in advance.
Two vixens a day during a vacation is a nice pattern, maybe three if you're really feeling up for adventure. Get lots of rest, drink ample fluids, and remember to daty occasionally. Start each day with a bbj and you'll live to be 90, or at least croak happily.
Take lots of Vitamin V if not contraindicated. 50 mg 45 minutes before each rendevous works for me.
There are so many cities now where you can go and see major hotties twice a day, that it's amazing. Toronto-Montreal, Victoria-Vancouver, Buenos Aires, Caracas, Rio, Prague, Bratislava, Bucharest, Kiev, Odessa, St Petersburg.
The world has become one big candy store.
I prefer Buenos Aires over Rio, for the reasons shown in the links.
As to info and reviews, I check out Captain69.co.uk,
Dexterhorn, and ClubHombre for what they are worth.
The City "Other" here on TER has a surprising number of
reviews from Euro cities.
I keep finding sites and saving them for references.
The truth is out there!
In most of these countries the risk of being ripped is much smaller than the US. All Argentine girls swallow. You call the agency and meet several of the girls first, or at a bar, to avoid any switching. You just hold onto your $$ until you have the right vix. There is great quality and quantity.
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except Prague. Given your extensive experience and willingness to submit reviews, maybe you can help in this regard. Thanks.
check out this site, a lot of info, some useful and some not, but many posts by hobbyists who have visited many foreign locations.
http://worldsexguide.org/
your fancy, you can't expect to actually see that particular one; instead, it is best to simply see the girls pictured at any given time on the website as a sampling of the pleasures to be had. In any case, I'm ready to get on the plane!
I visited Argentina for the first and only time about 10 years ago. I went to the Buenos Aires, the Capital and stayed near the city center. You walk around any major city and you'll see hotties, except Buenos Aires, IME. I was shocked! I was there a week. I finally saw one on the subway. She was Argentinian Chinese mix. (Good luck trying to crack that code.) I also had issue with the famous Argentinian steak: Bastards don't season the meat, (not even salt,) they just throw it over a fire. They put Chimichurri on cooked meat. I went to a well established restaurant, (open for 50yrs!) Freaking Japanese Navy walked in to dine, so I was expecting an Epicurean delight. I ordered a nice hunk of meat. The waiter didn't suggest any side dishes so I figured something would come with it, like at ANY well established restaurant. My order arrived: just the meat nothing else. WTF! It was a nice steak, woulda been fantastic IF they had seasoned it.
That wasn't a mongering trip, as I had the Brazilian GF in tow. It was a disastrous we argue towards the end of it and broke up after returning to Rio.
BTW, I speak Spanish was there no language issue.
After seeing these Argentinian escort pics, maybe I should give BA another chance. 15yrs back or so, BA had a great casita, massage scene, but the local LE shut that down. AFAIK, it never recovered. I'll have to do further research on international sex guide, which is better than the worldsexguide, IMO. And currently, Argentina's border is closed due to the Pandemic.
I lost count of how many times, you animal! If it's of any consequence, it took me a couple of days to recover after you left. But, you did wonderfully nasty things to me and made me cum harder than I had in a long time.
Here are kisses for your rug burns... or whatever else needs kissing. xxxxx
I had always been a safari hunter, but then I was captured by one of the lions. Almost two years ago. I'm still her prisoner.
Personally, I'd rather see a few and have a deeper connection than a lot with less of a connection. But that's just me!
That site Gemidos it´s off but, but i think this is your new url https://www.dulcesdiosas.com/
harem approach is that it eventually devolves into the same level of excitement you have in a marriage, which is why many guys and gals get started in this hobby in the first place. While I love the deeper connection you get with regulars, a time comes when the excitement and anticipation at seeing them fades, and nothing fills the gap quite like the thrill of a NEW "hunt." A girl that can keep me interested for more than four to six months is truly special, IMO.
I see about 5-6 gals about once every two to two and a half months and each time I do, it's a bit like getting reacquainted and really missing them and enjoying them. These relationships have spanned between 10 and 30 years, so they are working out quote well.
Even visiting gals i see go back over 10 years. One that I'll be seeing at the end of the month goes back 18 years.
However, sometimes I still do meet a new gal, which I did last year. I hope to see her on a visit to Vegas later this year.
By seeing some of my regulars LESS regularly than I do now. When I say "regular" it usually means at least twice a month. Maybe that's why it gets stale after awhile.
I have only three or four that I go back to for a short time every couple of years. Of course, the more frequent turnover in the Kgirl market limits the number of girls that might still be working locally two or three years later. We will go hot and heavy once or twice a week for a month or two, and then cool off until a few years later when it repeats all over again. I agree the reacquainted part can be just as exciting as with a new girl.
I never look like this, in my visit to Argentina the Escorts are very accesible!
...i hunt to build a SAFARIUM!!!!!....sometimes those in my HAREM decide to move on....
..I thought Harem was a new browser. LOL..
It used to be a lot more fun to go and "hunt", as you put it, for new "prey" when the economics of the hobby was more reasonable. Now with some raising their rates 2x / 3x / 4x what they used to charge, and not to mention onerous screening requirements, I'd rather stick to what I have and add reasonable ladies to my rotation.
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I was talking to my ... um hobbying 'mentor', basically my friend who has been going every week for more than 10 years. He tells me he has a '3 times and done rule' where he stops seeing a girl after 3 times. The reason for this, which I agree with, is that after around 3-4 times the service for the majority of providers seems to deteriorate for some reason. In his words
' at first the massage was a!, then slowly massage was shittier, no tease just flip fuck and get out'
I found the same thing too. I saw this girl exclusively over the summer and I noticed by the 4th time I was not getting the same type of service as I did first two times. And by the 4th time I was totally hooked on her, bringing her gifts and tipping heavily - but the service was actually getting worse at this point.
I currently have 3 regulars. They have superior skill of tongue and throat.
I also selectively Safari based on backchannel info, or even rumor if outstanding throat skills.
I am mostly a harem builder. But, as others have said, I still like to go on safari.
I, too, adore a throat specialist. My limitation is that I require a magnum friendly girl. Which is why I tend to focus on my harem.
I like variety. Also it protects against forming unrequited attachments.
I have had the pleasure of seeing numerous ladies numerous and it's great when it's available. BITOD there was a lady I saw a couple of times a month for the better part of 3 years There was a sensational duo that I saw probably 12 times spread over 18 months. And I've had the pleasure of finding a "team" of 5 different ladies with whom mixing and matching duos (and the occasional trio) was phenomenal. That lasted 4 1/2 years. And 2 of those ladies i saw about 25 times each in 2 years.
But everything has an expiration date. Ladies retire, change cities, find an SD, fade in looks or performance, you name it. Thence begins the quest to find a new teammate or a whole new circle of friends.
The older I get i have found the company of one lady fulfilling. See her every month