I found a GREAT strip club where most of the time I can get laid in the private rooms (they even have hot tub rooms where we automatically both get naked!).  Do you consider this 'escorting'? I'm not giving her anymore or less money either way and the girl always initiates without me saying anything.  In fact, the first time it happened (which I still can't believe!) the girl didn't even want a tip!  The room is pretty expensive but I'm paying that no matter what happens.    

No, but it is prostitution. Not that I give a rat's ass, just don't kid yourself about what you are involved in...

Same difference. Escorting is just a fancy way of saying  Prostitution. Either way there is no difference. As far as Strip Club Sex, you're better off finding a Provider. Going to a Strip Club is way too expensive for what you can get from a Provider.

..."Bye hun, gotta' go blow some guys to pay my rent."

Providers are a much better option. Kind of feel bad for this one but last time I went to a strip club a gal propositioned me. I did the math and it worked out to about 900 an hour, being a bit drunk I said "I have banged a lot hotter gals than you for a lot less cash" I thought she was gonna slap me. Probally not the best answer but I'll blame the alcohol. The look my buddy gave me was priceless he thought I was just full of crap, I'll let him keep thinking that its nice to have secrets. Goes to show you the truth is always stranger than fiction.

1975  in houston... as I did not have the cash on me, they offered to take my gas card!  I wasn't interested so they suggested I leave.  I did.  But flash forward a few years and a different location and oral sex was available - not even in a private room....  then flash forward a few more years, and pretty routinely I would be propositioned.  Sex, oral sex,  had one gal squirt, but the absolute best was a BBBJTC NQNS.  She told me to let her know when I was going to blow... I tapped her on the head, she kept going, never slowed down... finally I sat there spent, and she asked why I tried to pull away, she just smiled and said, now where was I gonna put that?!  

Um, actually there is a huge difference! You are not paying an escort for anything specific, other then spending time with her. Period. Whether you have appetizers and talk or become intimate, she is not paid for you to get any particular 'acts'. And, though you may not hear about it, there are several gentleman out there who genuinely just want company. There have been instances where the date didn't go further then being in bathing suits and cuddling in a hot tub. The point is, different levels of escorting / companionship are NOT the same thing as Prostitution. You can jumble it in your head as one all you want, but they are two *very* different things.

LOL wow...

and anything else that happens is between consenting adults behind closed doors," is no protection at all, and simply not reality.  If you think it is, see how far it gets you if you get busted.  Look at your reviews (I did and they are really good, and some are from guys I know).  They describe specific sexual acts (of course, those are "fictional," LOL! according to TER).  But anyone reading your reviews will come to you with the expectation of performing those acts with you.  Sure, I know there are guys who just want to cuddle.  But they are few and far between.  If someone arrives wanting your entire menu and you say, "Sorry, Jethro, I just feel like cuddling tonight," you're going to be dealing with one ticked off gentleman, followed by a really crummy review.
The difference between escorting and other forms of P4P sex are simply not two *very* different things.  Sorry.  Before you rely on that disclaimer, better consult a competent lawyer.

If the former, she probably has a rule that she doesn't see anyone outside the club's walls.

If the latter, she probably knew that the food sucks.

Actually, (and I say this on my website) my reviews are what happened in *that* particular instance and it is not a rehearsed act that you can expect a replay of (This particular part isn't on my disclaimer page but else where on my website). All I'm saying is, not every client is receiving what another did, it's about connection, not specific acts. And, I have NEVER had an instance of not delivering, but yes they are different things. You aren't paying a specific amount for a specific act, and not every act happens in every instance..I'm just making a point, not relying on anything...and just saying not every gentleman is the same..not that I would ever tell someone I just wanted to cuddle, nor have I ever.  

And, yes, no two sessions are identical, I agree.  First of all, either party may choose not to do everything on their own menu.  I do get that.  My concern is the use of the silly phrase I quoted (and you used, but apparently in a different context) that also appears in some gals' web sites, as it if protects them from LE, which it resoundingly does not.

you got the math right while you were drunk! Must have had some awareness and sense to what you were saying.

I know I'm fooling myself!  And the amount is $250 per half hour (I would usually do an hour, I used to do an hour and a half which is crazy) and then I would tip $100.  Even with drinks, that's not too bad I guess.

or a car and pay for it. YES
It is escorting.

Yeah, I wasn't quoting any disclaimers with my reply..I was just speaking about the comparisons, ..I guess I live the truth, It's not just something to say or put on a website. What is "YMMV" by the way? lol
 

It's hobby talk for "You may not receive exactly the same service."

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she plans to quit, and when that day comes, I'll be the first to know, and she will happily go out with me then!  but until that day, she sees noone outside the club. But actually, the food in that particular club is really, really good.  Great Steaks.

Called it what you want, you're paying for it whether at a strip club or at an "in call", it's all the same.