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coach618925 44 Reviews 1059 reads
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Gentleman....not including when you are asking for the lady you are about to meet to dress in a specific outfit, how do you prefer her to be dressed (assuming you are meeting in her room)? Nice tight jeans and a low cut top? Sexy lingerie? Bathing suit in the summer? A simple dress?  

The second question is do you prefer to undress her during foreplay or do you prefer lying back and watching her undress herself?

Ladies....not including when you are asked to wear something specific what do you prefer to wear? Do you wear different outfits depending on time of year? Mood? Do you like to wear something sexy? Casual like well fit jeans and a low top? Hose or no hose? Etc..

Do you prefer that the gentleman remove your clothes or lingerie during foreplay or do you prefer to remove it yourself?  

Do you like it when the gentleman suggests outfits or do you prefer that he allow you to make the choice?

Thank you

ramc75 14 Reviews 732 reads
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Is a light, thin dress that has a single strap on each shoulder. Preferably with nothing on underneath. After a little making out I like to turn a lady around so her back is against my front and slowly slide the straps off her shoulders so that the dress falls to the floor reveling her perfect naked body. If that isn't available,  anything simple to operate yet not too revealing works as well. Think silk robe. I like to undress a lady but don't want to spend half the session doing it. Would prefer the extra time be spent undressing me.

TinaStar4u See my TER Reviews 668 reads
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My go to is a little black dress... I have about 50 of them..lol
But it also depends on the time of year if it's winter I will go for a sexy sweater dress with a garter underneath...If im going to him and its winter always tight jeans,sexy top and some boots (Like to keep a low profile)
I love outfit requets as it often means role-play =)
And i prefer to undress myself..i usually rip my clothes off as I love to be naked..lol.. unless the client prefers otherwise

no_email 3 Reviews 661 reads
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because nothing says Woman like leg attire. :-

freddobbs 504 reads
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I like the idea that I'm having an encounter with the girl next door, someone I ran into at the grocery store, a woman I met at the mall. So a pair of jeans, a casual blouse, nothing extravagant, that's what I generally prefer. Another look I enjoy is the professional office look, the slightly slutty secretary look. Of course all of this is a fiction, but this whole hobby is a fiction, and that's the fiction I prefer.  

And I definitely prefer to undress my new friend. That's one of the most fun parts of the encounter.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 567 reads
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I dress appropriately as if we were going steady.

Panthera12 354 reads
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I was so looking forward to seeing you in a maid outfit. I guess I will have to settle for naked unless you still own a pair of Daisey Duke shorts ;)

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 673 reads
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I never wear jeans or shorts to meet a date, unless we are going to the mall or the damn beach.

cspatz 68 Reviews 491 reads
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simply tell her to wear whatever makes her feel comfortable. Besides her clothes are in a heap on the floor in a nano second. Who actually throws them there is unimportant.

Panthera12 332 reads
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I'll start looking for that BP slut without delay.
No 2shot sluts, don't worry.

donbecker54 19 Reviews 541 reads
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I haven't been really specific to a provider about what to wear, but I let her know that I like short tight dresses, stockings, push-up bra's, and other lingerie. I like the excitement of discovering her a layer at a time. I'd love to have a girl strip for me, but I question that many are willing or are actually good at it. Then again, I haven't asked yet.

justanillusion 315 reads
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I don't do dress up because I know what I feel comfortable in in order for me to perform at my best. If a guy wants to direct my wardrobe, I decline

OneofaPair 332 reads
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I've got to ask (and for HonkinOnBobo, too....underrated album, by the way)...

This is a situation in which a guy is hiring you to fulfill a fantasy.  Why would you be so against providing that service?

I can understand not wanting to get into roleplaying (and that includes costumes, like the maid thing) but if a guy says "I get really turned on by g-strings," or "tight jeans get me excited" or "could you wear a skirt with no panties?" why would you deny that bit of titillation?  or if he requests that you arrive in something casual so that it doesn't look out of place if you two have a beer together, how is that a bad thing?

I may be just reading posts from you both incorrectly, but it comes off as "if you ask me to wear something, I'm going to tell you to piss off".  It seems to me that your job is to feed his desires, and, if done well, you end up with a repeat customer.  Granted, you should absolutely say no to anything that you don't want to do, but a simple wardrobe request as a deal-breaker?

Of course, maybe the view is more that your job is just to show up and get him off, and he's going to have to take it any way he gets it?
Posted By: justanillusion
I don't do dress up because I know what I feel comfortable in in order for me to perform at my best. If a guy wants to direct my wardrobe, I decline.  
 

codiboy101 4 Reviews 616 reads
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....is whatever you look the best in while being descreet enough to not draw the wrong attention. However once I get to know a lady I prefer a very well worn, well fitting jeans, a white button up shirt unbuttoned to point the girls are nearly peaking out and barefooted with a playful pedicure. I'm a laid back guy and like a lady who can make simple easy relaxed cloths look sexy as hell!!!!!!!!

Fallen_Angel See my TER Reviews 549 reads
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A man's white dress shirt unbuttoned to the navel, with bra and panties or just panties.

oldted 16 Reviews 609 reads
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Whether it be a job interview, on a date, or this profession will be more successful than those who don't put thought what the other person would think.  

Most ladies I see do this well, but there are many who dress in a way that screams, I don't give a shit. Why would a guy pay to see that when he gets that attitude at home?

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 588 reads
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Agreed. I have read reviews where the provider showed up in sweat pants, hair all messy, and did not bother shaving her legs or putting on makeup. I guess if you like that or request that look, it's fine, but....

donbecker54 19 Reviews 451 reads
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Posted By: London Rayne
Agreed. I have read reviews where the provider showed up in sweat pants, hair all messy, and did not bother shaving her legs or putting on makeup. I guess if you like that or request that look, it's fine, but....
Was the provider in France? ;)

oldted 16 Reviews 514 reads
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That if you are not sure of the clients feeling about dress you better wear a business suit when you go see them.  

Same with provider, if the client doesn't say anything about dress, don't show up in jeans and a t- shirt.
 
Posted By: London Rayne
Agreed. I have read reviews where the provider showed up in sweat pants, hair all messy, and did not bother shaving her legs or putting on makeup. I guess if you like that or request that look, it's fine, but....


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ihateuga 255 reads
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Why so angry?

Posted By: HonkingOnBoBo
I dont play dress up for first meetings.  He gets special treatment when he becomes special to me period.    
   
 I wear what makes me feel sexy and confident.  If im feeling as if im being puppeted by some pupeteer the last rhing im feeling is sexy and confident which then reflects in my performance.    
   
 Ive yet to have anyone complain as I look better naked anyway.  
   
Posted By: coach618925
Gentleman....not including when you are asking for the lady you are about to meet to dress in a specific outfit, how do you prefer her to be dressed (assuming you are meeting in her room)? Nice tight jeans and a low cut top? Sexy lingerie? Bathing suit in the summer? A simple dress?    
     
  The second question is do you prefer to undress her during foreplay or do you prefer lying back and watching her undress herself?  
     
  Ladies....not including when you are asked to wear something specific what do you prefer to wear? Do you wear different outfits depending on time of year? Mood? Do you like to wear something sexy? Casual like well fit jeans and a low top? Hose or no hose? Etc..  
     
  Do you prefer that the gentleman remove your clothes or lingerie during foreplay or do you prefer to remove it yourself?    
     
  Do you like it when the gentleman suggests outfits or do you prefer that he allow you to make the choice?  
     
  Thank you

justanillusion 269 reads
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But if his request is something I would feel or look stupid in, then no. Why would I do that and then feel awkward and ruin his experience. Not all escorts do everything for every client. That is why there are so  many to choose from who will WILLINGLY do whatever request a guy has.

Yes sometimes a "simple" wardrobe request is a deal breaker. What is simple to a guy might be a complete turnoff to a lady.  

And if a guy wants me to run around in a get up that makes me feel ridiculous, that is a guy I don't want as a repeat client.  

Why is it so hard for some of you to understand that because we offer ourselves in this way, it does not mean we will do anything and everything for whomever asks.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 291 reads
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She looks good in it. I don't think it is a "turn off" to many guys, as I have heard some request just that, but I don't dress that way to meet someone spending that much money. That is something I would wear for a day shopping, not on a first date...especially, on a first date (so to speak lol) with a guy who is paying me. Besides that, many restaurants have dress codes

justanillusion 299 reads
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Meeting outside an incall or hotel room, I personally would dress accordingly to where we were going to meet. Otherwise, when he comes to me, I will wear whatever I feel really great in. It shows through in the session

oldted 16 Reviews 241 reads
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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 397 reads
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Ok, maybe not from BP but I do have a maid outfit bwahahaha. I love dressing up for my dates, or why bother? If I wanted to fk a guy wearing nothing but a t shirt, I could drop my rates and just not pay to advertise. I don't like looking how I do in real life with guys who pay me either...it keeps things in perspective when I can pretend to NOT be me.

coach618925 44 Reviews 265 reads
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I want to thank all of you ladies and gentleman for your thoughts on this thread, I hope more comments are still coming. I feel this was a great subject and has provided for great conversation and mind stimulation. I love the variety of answers that have come in from both sides. Thank you all kindly.

Posted By: justanillusion
Meeting outside an incall or hotel room, I personally would dress accordingly to where we were going to meet. Otherwise, when he comes to me, I will wear whatever I feel really great in. It shows through in the session

xxxhair 569 reads
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For me, there is nothing more sexy than a women in a white bottom down blouse and a short skirt with no bra or panties.

JenniferJonesDC See my TER Reviews 310 reads
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Oh shit, I guess my clients who told me I looked hot wearing a white tshirt and jeans yesterday were all just covering the truth that nobody likes casual girls!

But seriously, I think you can tell from the client what they are looking for. I think it also helps to know where the client is coming from - if I'm meeting for lunch and he's coming from the office, I'll be a bit more dressed up than if we're getting a drink, or just bypassing that step all together.  

One client recently asked me to dress as though we were colleagues. And since he was coming from a formal work event, on went the not-too-sexy dress and killer heels. There were no complaints. :)

It's just instinct I guess...

 
Jenn

SummeroftheChickenRanch 426 reads
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I prefer the conservative but sexy black skirt/dress that conceals my stockings. It puts me in the mood to put you in the mood...........SMILE

X's Summer of the Chicken Ranch

justanillusion 438 reads
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And a guy wants me to wear jeans and a tank or white t, I wear it. I don't do dates in public, so I have no need to dress up and still get my rate. Some men want what they want. Some of us can oblige and some of us can't. I will  not in any way, subtle or otherwise down what another provider does. I am not in her shoes therefore I have no right.

We all do what is comfortable and profitable.

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