Doing this with an alias, so that no one can accuse me of a reverse ThreAD or something similar.

You might consider picking up a couple of lottery tickets.  

She needed a very light touch, so I evolved a technique that involved a very gentle flickering tongue-tip kind of like the beat of a hummingbird's wing.  It seems to go over with other women as well.

That's a subject to itself.

...  I said "clients", not guys.  

I'm glad you had such great sessions with these women, but really bro... save the embellishments for the reviews.

Sure thing coach.  Get the color of your exalted name changed, so you can be the mod you aspire to be.  Or just get over yourself, and not take this place so seriously. SMH.  

Did you say "clients" before or after your edits? EOM

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Re: Did you say "clients" before or after your edits? EOM

Ha.  Before. But truth be told, I was not thinking of Lopaw when I said clients.   So she is within her rights to smack me down anyway.  

Because not listening is a guy problem, not a "client" problem.  And I'm sure there's lots of women on this board who'll back me up on that.  

...you were posting with an alias, so it's not bragging because no one knows who you are.  Also, if Bluto had taken a few seconds to check, he would have known that you have NOT posted any reviews using your alias.

Sorry to disappoint you, but I have no aspirations at all.  

Your post makes me want to offer you up some free DATY . . . along with a paid-session of course.  

it's the only way I can do my job as an elected public servant.  

I remember doing a threesome followed by having one of the girls staying overnight with me while the other one left after an hour or two (I honestly don't remember how long it was, it was one of THOSE kind of nights. lol) but after the one chica left, the other one told me how rough the other girl was and asked me to never be as rough with her coochie as the other chica had been with her.

Most men take cues - whether they tread carefully waiting for the cues or have to be guided because they've just jumped in with no regard is another issue.  

Senator would be an excellent mod. Vote Yes.

...and I am a delicate DATYer. I like mine very light, at least in the beginning, so i approach it the same way.  
Come to think of it, I got a massage Saturday and the masseuse got a bit excited and gave me some oral that I wasn't expecting (I did get to return the favor, heh heh) and she did dive in with abandon. But even then she applied little butterfly strokes that had a perfect pressure.

I recently visited and reviewed a provider who wanted me to use a MUCH lighter, softer DATY than I have ever performed.  I tried, but I don't think I was able to make it soft enough to please her.  About half of the providers I have seen have usually expressed appreciation for my DATY skills, but her comments, and your posting have got me thinking that maybe I AM doing it wrong, and need to re-think what I am doing.  I usually ask the ladies to tell me what they want: faster, slower, harder, lighter, up and down, back and forth, circular motions, flicking, etc.  And in the past, I thought I got it right.  But now.........???  Ladies, please help all of of us to understand what you REALLY want.  I try to make the session as much about pleasing her as it is about her pleasing me.  And that by making the effort, she will remember me, making future sessions with that same provider more comfortable and less stressful (and more rewarding for both of us).  

It wouldn't matter how many women reply to this - unless it's the woman you are with it's a moot issue...but I hear you. As a SW I think there is an expectation (and rightly so) that we can articulate what we want and how we want it. Some women feel awkward about speaking up but to those ladies I say don't say 'I don't like that/that's wrong' just say 'if you do THIS/do it LIKE this it will push me over the edge/drive me wild/you get the picture'  
Sex is actually one of the easiest things for men and women to talk about - it's the emotional stuff that can be tricky.

Great thread! Love this, more feedback from the "Cookies" please. We`ll do whatever you want, just show n' tell us.

Please provide lick by lick guide for the rest of us can also have DATY sessions that make us rock stars. Honestly, I have had many providers tell me they have received best orgasms from nice DATY sessions even better than orgasms that were delivered with a 9 iron.

I like mine rhythmic, starting off light to medium licks back to light pressure around the lips. Then butterfly licks on the clit.

I'm exactly like the ladies you described. I literally have to tell everyone who daty to go Extra light and it seems they will forget and go harder again. It literally hurts me with barely any pressure so unfortunately I have to keep bringing it up.  

I take my cues directly from my playmate, as we generally talk about our likes & dislikes at the beginning of the session. I generally start with a lighter approach when approaching the kitty, as it can be a shy and skittish creature. If I start light, I can always increase tempo/pressure/flick rate, according to her feedback (whether tactile or aural).

is the technique a lot of guys have learned to do.  

But for the life of me I don't see many, if any similarities in how I eat a pussy compared to how I eat a hamburger.

...ok, so now upon further reflection, while I thought my last date was having an intense orgasm now I'm thinking she may have simply been screaming 'do you want fries with that'?  So much for choosing the Combo Date from her menu

omg,  

Excuse me while I look up the Shakespearean Insult Generator ...

Some fucking fool actually bit her clit and it bled.

Consider yourself lucky, Lopaw. The most ferocious DATY /FIV I've received has come from women- including one gorgeous lady that actually left me bleeding, ☹️.  
That's not to say that I haven't experienced overzealous gentlemen callers, as I have. But I can back up Gambler in saying that most guys have NOTHING on a feral, horny lesbian 😊

I fashioned myself being pretty good at DATY after being married to a woman who only got off that way for 27 years.