In the past few days I've been getting text threats claiming that I've wasted a provider's time and I have to make good. The threats include graphic photos and personal information including my address. A few things: I have never wasted a provider's time or no-showed. I almost always use a burner but there have been occasions when I've made inquiries on a personal phone. No need to lecture. Almost always isn't good enough. I know how reckless that was. Has anyone else received this sort of threat? Any suggestions beyond ignoring it and hoping it goes away?  I haven't yet responded. PMs welcome.

As I am actually disheartened to hear you are being blackmailed and I am sorry what you are going through.

Thanks for your response. To be clear, I'm not a time waster.And I can certainly understand a woman getting angry because I know a lot of your time is wasted dealing with bad faith inquiries.  If anything (I can't be sure), this likely came from a query I made off a less than reputable board. The person who sent this was not a woman, "he" claimed to be a cartel pimp. He threatened me with graphic photos of those who crossed them. He knew my address and other personal info I didn't share with anyone.

That's the plan for now. Hoping they don't reach out to others.

You mention "graphic pictures" This must mean this is a provider you have actually seen before, is that correct?
Second question, if this is a provider that you have seen before is this something COMPLETELY out of the blue or do you have some other, perhaps unresolved issues with this woman.

I DM'd you with some ideas/info.  

I believe this came out of a couple of text inquiries I made yesterday morning. Not with anyone I've ever seen. I say this because it came on a rare day that I did this (again, no appointments or anything close to a confirmation was made this was initial inquiry stuff, like "I saw your post, and I'm interested in talking about a possible meeting." There was no name attached to the text threats and I do not recognize the phone numbers (two different). The graphic photos were of generic murdered men, ie future me. Not of me with a woman or anything sexual.

I'm fairly certain this is from someone I've never seen. It more than a coincidence that it started soon after a rare day that  I sent out a few (2-3) query texts while browsing several less dependable, no TER sites. I stated my interest but never came remotely close to anything like a set date or confirmation. The threats  came from a random person from #s I never saw claiming to be a pimp, for whom, other than as part of a cartel, I do not know. The photos were not of me but of brutally murdered men, presumably at the hands of a cartel. Likely sourced from the internet and repurposed to intimidate assholes like me. Mission accomplished!

I certainly understand the provider's point of view but the OP shows the other side of the coin. Saying that not all ladies are like that is certainly true, but it's equally true that not all clients are a potential problem. The bottom-line for many clients, including me, is to never divulge information to a stranger which could be used to permanently destroy your life. With photos and his real-life address in play, I don't know that simply "moving on" fully encompasses the reality of the situation.

with me.  I tell them if they want me to take them seriously, give me a sample of the personal info they think they have about me.  It usually ends there, because its all a bluff, but if this kind of thing bothers you, get a private post office box for your phone bill from a place you can pay for a forwarding service to send your mail to another address, or another post office box.   If that's not enough, move to Texas.  Its an open-carry state.  

A few years ago I saw a provider who is now retired. I found her on twitter and booked 3 months in advance and paid 100% up front because I was going to be in a city for work that she was touring. I should have read more of her twitter feed before committing to an appointment.

Plausible deniability.  

I would try to see why she is convinced that you wasted her time... Because those are some serious threats. She has to be angry for a reason or she is somehow trying to benifit from it. Maybe ask her what exactly made her think that? If she is still nasty to you and not answering your question; then i'd give her a bad review and lock your doors. Although, she also might be bluffing.

How did you receive this? you know for sure? Recently many were emailed a blanket fishing scam. they said they knew all my secrets, photos and who I have seen. Got my info from p411. I was worried for about 2 minuets then moved on with my life. (6 months ago LOL)
I know a provider that received the same email just worded differently.

Again, I don't believe it's a provider. I believe someone took my number after a text query on a sketchy non-TER site. I believe and sincerely hope that it was not targeted specifically at me but more of a general scam where they harvest the numbers of someone stupid enough to use personal info and try to extort them. I've been on the board for a long time, have a stellar reputation and am courteous and respectful to all I encounter. So far, no further posts. I'll keep the board apprised of any new developments or if it goes away.

How the fuck did a hooker get your real address and other personal identifiable information in the first place?
Oh yeah, that's right. You volunteered them as part of their "screening" process.
Newsflash idiot. Substitute "screening" with "blackmailing" and you're all good.
Have fun.

I read it as pics showing how the pimp messed other John's up who "wasted" their time.

Please read the message right above yours. He doesn't think it's anyone he's met with before.

He admitted to using his real phone. They probably got hos personal info from his phone. He also said it wasn’t a provider.

Provider. Not a provider. Who the fuck cares?
Dumbfuck is mixing his real life with his extra-curricular activities then comes in here riding a Waaaambulance.
Ever heard of a burner phone? Anonymous email? Free texting apps?
Losers are so careless with their identity and personal info and act surprised when it bites them in the ass.
You reap what you sow.

who he gave real world info to and blackmailed him.  Granted he made a mistake and none of this is TER related.

He didn't say this happened with an inquiry on TER, and it appears he hasn't received anything yet that would prove this isn't a bluff.  

as the attempt at blackmail itself

Hmm.  That is why you should always stay away from those Colombian ladies.  They always appear to be very sweet, but they are usually very calculated and when push comes to shove ruthless.  

First of all there is no way you can know if this is a provider or her pimp.  You say thy have your RW phone number and address, which is really all that is needed to start identity theft or worse unwelcome company in the middle of the night.  Or it can be one of your friends (or your wife’s friends?) trying to reform you.   There are so many possibilities.  Depending on where you live LE is not going to be much help because they are too busy to worry about one john who got himself in trouble doing something illegal. At most they will route a patrol car to drive by your house a couple times.  They won’t do much else absent an in person threat or battery.  

I don't think the "name/phone" is a BIG deal, as ANY fool/criminal can get that info off the web, EASILY.

He already said that the pics were of dead guys, that the blackmailer " supposedly" killed.
I guess I'm too easy going...cuz I'd laugh that shit off. In this age coming up with pics of crime scenes is far too easy, so I just have trouble believing some " mafia hitman" is looking to kill me. It's probably some scam trying to extort money from the guy... hoping that hes either naive, or has too much too risk to take a chance that it's a hoax.
But like I said....I'm probably too easy going, as others on here see it as a real threat.

Thanks to everyone for the advice, good wishes and even the abuse! Why not? I fucked up.  

you're right, I glanced over it.
For ME, that would be HILARIOUS!  
Really, you think sending me some pics of someone you supposedly beat up is supposed to INTIMIDATE me?!  
LOL!  
Now, if it were a "DICK pick," and I had some kinda "distinctive" dick (say someone with Peyronie's disease) then, MAYBE, I would be concerned.
Even then, I'd tell the dude to "FUCK OFF!"  

...of WHO you give out "personal" info to, and how MUCH.  

Yeah, did something dumb and texted someone from a BP type board.  Got the text telling me that I owed a fee or...  Included some graphic murder pictures and the name of a cartel.  Since I travel, I buy burner phones from different cities.  I’m also retired SpecOps.  On this Dallas phone, I told the guy to send some of his best and they can meet my other SpecOps friends and party.  

I should have mentioned, when answering the ad, you get directed to a “verification” site.  That’s the point at which I figured it was a scam and went no further.  Then I got the threats a couple of days later.  And I have shown the entire sequence to an LE friend.  They were very interested.

Those two texts on consecutive days have been  the extent of it. Hopefully this has blown over. For those wondering, and if it happens to you, I chose to ignore. No bold response. No response from me at all.  To each his own. Just supplying the data from my experience. Ten days later I'm feeling a bit better and yes, lesson learned.

Quite often the best action is no action at all. Once they know they can elicit a response from you it encourages them to push harder.

You talkin' from PERSONAL "experience," son?  

someone mentions "TROLL."

you are giving an example of YOU receiving a "dick pic" instead of being the one sending them?

... the same ASSHOLES try to pull the SAME nonsense with me.

one and the same?  You  do know posing on the same thread with  your screen name and alias is prohibited, don't you?  When I was new, I did it once and got a 30-day suspension.  Can't say whether that's still the policy, or not.  I guess we will find out.  

I think that’s in Lolo’s  dna, so he won’t be able to change his typing style if he changes names.

Um, I think BOTH of you can get OFF my DICK, and get a LIFE, losers.  😎

like this is what he meant by Random Capitalization Syndrome?   At least this time you didn't capitalize "losers."  Are you not really sure anymore?  

... to be YOU.  🙄

I have at least three sessions a week with hot young Asian girls, and I work in two or more gorgeous indies a month.  Check my reviews.  (Which, by the way, may embarrass you because they are  so detailed).   I wouldn't trade places with you or anyone else here for any amount of money.

... it’s plain to see you’re just a SAD, PATHETIC shell of a man (or is it “BOY?”). 🙄
Shame on ME for even taking the time to respond to your RUBBISH posts.
What, your little “friends,” “GooGooGaGa,” or “inkass” aren’t around to ENTERTAIN you?
Go play with your “RealDoll,” loser.  😎

to work on your comebacks.  When I have you on the ground with my foot on your throat, this kind of response is just bush-league, and gets you no points with anyone.  

... I can see now WHY you’re listed as the TOP poster on the entire board.
Very easy to do... if you're willing to post any “BRAIN FART” that comes to mind.
But I’m a bit more CONSIDERATE of my fellow members, and keep MUCH to myself (contrary to appearances!).  😳
So, “good luck” at the top of the “peak.”
I've given up trying to “reach” you, and as time goes on, I’m sure my rank will fall FURTHER.
But, if it’s in the midst of PRESENT company, I’m POSITIVE I’m not MISSING much.  😉

Enough credit.  You have a special gift for inspiring brain farts in other people, and sometimes just farts in general.

All  you guys need to chill

The discussion board Nazi?  Sonny, we don't have a "safe space" here for millennial whiners, so maybe you should take your anxiety someplace else.  

They don’t put up with all this nonsense!  There are 10 year old kids that have more maturity than this!  Grow Up!  Enjoy The Providers and Stop Creating all this worthless drama!

Like I said....relax.  Who am I?   I've seen every angle of this game.

Angel....exactly

that tells us nothing about what you are referring to by "every angle of this game."   A very safe and innocuous post that doesn't any pressure on yourself to deliver specifics.  A thousand guys have been here just like you that think they are big-time mongers.  Go ahead and think that, you will just end up making a fool of yourself with no help from me.  

of the content of your post if you are a guy, a Provider, a trannie, or what.  Where do you fit into the business.  Tell us a little about yourself since you are new.  

There is no SHE involved . It's a stolen photo being footballed around into sights such as Private Delights or Call Escorts, Escort Fish,etc. All communication is done by text and they ask your location so they can say the provider is at a nice hotel or apartment nearby.  When you get there, if you go, they ask for an up front payment . If you make it , that's the last you will hear from them. Mind you there is no girl in the process. You are probably texting with some goon who can maybe speak some English.  
 This happened twice to me. Both times they didn't get a nickel out of me, because I only pay cash. I did wast time driving out to locations however. When They realized I was "on to them," the gruesome photos threats came by text 2 days later. Then they stopped coming after I quit responding to them.
 Never pay in advance by Vemmo etc if you don't know the provider
Always demand that you call and speak to the girl. There is no  girl . That's pretty sure.
and ask for a right now selfie with them holding up 1  2  or 3 fingers.
 That will usually end it.
 This is why I have a VIP membership.
 I swear, half the adds out there are scams and frauds. We are easy prey because who of us  wants to go to the police?

Did you sign up to AM with your personal email?

GaGambler you hit the nail on the the head. These cockroaches who were sending threatening texts probably post stolen photos . So there is no girl at all. When you text what you think is the girl you are commincating  with a goon. They will try to induce you to send upfront money They may give you an address after you tell them where you live. You go to the address and photo text the card number they told you to buy; then you've been had. They will not respond to your texts . They are gone . You've been robbed.
  Let's say you are on to them and break off appointment without paying anything. That's when the threatening texts come, with the gruesome pics. They demand 1500 dollars for wasting time of one of their girls. They say there are men near your home waiting to kill your family.  This happened to me and it really shook me because they had my address. I waited around and no one came. I contacted LE and they told me this is widespread scam going on and ignore the messages.   These cockroaches are , yes , looking for low hanging fruit. If they send out 100 threatening texts a day, maybe 3 guys will send them money. That's 4500 dollars they got for this scam.  
This whole business has become vicious and crazy. I think I may move on .

They are gruesome photos of dismembered bodies with the threat of " this will happen to  your family for wasting a provider's time. " They demand 1500.00. If they got your personal # they can usually come come up family member names and addresses from a routine search. They threarened to murder my parents who have been dead for 30yrs.
  I too got the same text while at work and they stated they were close to my house and ready to kill if I didn't pay. That shook me up and I left work and watched my house. Nothing happened. I spoke LE and they said this  is common and ignore the threats and these cockroaches will move on. Which they eventually did. Chances are it is not a provider doing this but some half illiterate goon find your text messages to providers. Get a TRACPHONE at Best Buy.

I was raised not to be threatened by anybody. I was in the military and not afraid  of anyone. But yes I got one of these text messages where they had all my information my mothers information and my sisters information and it fucked me up. It starts off with a text message with graphic pictures and it goes until you owe me money for wasting time. They don’t tell you how much money but then once you respond it’s $1500 I believe. They had me so fucked up I paid it. Then the next day I realize it was a scam if you Google it and check out the Internet it’s the same text message that goes to everybody. It’s a scam just blocked numbers and eventually it goes away.

You ARE a moron. rofl.

We’ve seen this exact MO discussed on this board, and the common consensus is that it’s some operation that doesn’t have anything to do with wasting a provider’s time, but everything to do with compromised information.

You pounce on people..

I’ve seen a few of these posts now from people saying they received “graphic pictures” along with threatening text messages.  But no one has described what’s in the pics.  

You seem to take this VERY seriously. I OTOH am simply LMAO at you. PLEASE keep up the good work. I know I really should take it easier on people too dumb to defend themselves, but watching you melt down in anger is just so fucking funny that sometimes I can't help myself.  

If this douche bag is ever captured and convicted, he will receive no pardon from TheGovernor!

Chances are these are foreigners and you have no jurisdiction 😊

That was actually answered before. Might have been in this long thread (but I'm not going back and reading all these 73 posts to find it), or it may have been in one of the other threads on this exact topic. The graphic pictures were violent acts on strangers, dead people, some with decapitated heads and stuff like that.  Not of any family members or locations or anything like that. You are exactly right that they could have easily been copied and pasted from the Internet.

here trying to highjack one of my stalkers, I might not take it so lightly, but since I have three now, and I've always been willing to share with you, if you want this one, you can have him.  Just be forewarned that he is about as tightly wound as anyone I have ever seen on this board and is not too bright.