Almost any possible question has been asked before.  Here are a few answers:

 
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/play-list-ideas---building-blocks-915473?frmSearch=1#915473
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/once-upon-a-time-i-was-having-832056?frmSearch=1#832056
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/bienvenue--caf-du-lita-910747?frmSearch=1#910747
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/sexy-playlists-815236?page=

 
And then there's perfectstorm: http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/meh-i-dont-care-if-there-is-music-or-not-805886?frmSearch=1#805886

 
The most important thing about the playlist for many providers is that it is timed to end a few minutes before the end of the session so they know when time is up without being clockwatchers.

I've found the age of the provider and nationality plays a big part in music selection. I'm not surprised when the music starts playing that they selected the genre. Young providers (sub 22 year olds) sometimes play rap or similar. Its a mood killer. Older providers, over 30, something more soft or classical music. Asian and K-Girls some sort of Korean soft or pop music. I would say 85% play music that is soothing or mellow but there is a 5% young crowd, Eastern Europe, that sometimes plays really harsh music.  

That being said, I usually play my own music if I don't like theirs.

I try to use a genre that is sensual and relaxing. Spa music or jazz are my top choices.  

Seeing that I only do outcall. I set the tone with the music. It's soft and easy, no AC DC, Metallica, Black Sabbath or loud shit, No rap either. I'm not running some strip club on my dime, plus I have "neighbors".
Here's a short excerpt from a message someone sent me who appreciated my style, god bless her...
"I'm doing great! And of course I remember you. Both times at the Bellagio. You had the best playlist I've ever heard! A little bit of everything! "...nuff said...lol

many hotel rooms have youtube app on the TV ..  i select  smooth jazz ..  you can literally search on Youtube  "music to have sex by"    other nice thing is you can turn off all the lights and the light of the TV projects a nice soft glow, its all you need.  

Music is a touchy subject. As someone who spent a lot of time and money at storefronts, I could never get with the relaxing Chinese folk melodies, I get it its supposed to be relaxing for massage, etc, but as I was there for FS, it did not fit the mood, lol. Very distracting for me to the point I'd be losing a boner a few times.

Also not a huge fan of kpop, which kgirls (especially older ones) play often. However, I once tried to keep rhythm with kpop playlist for 40-50 minutes straight. Was very exhausting to say the least, but also quite fun.

If I'm doing an outcall (usually in Vegas, but have to be super careful) I just use my laptop/phone playlist and hook it up. I usually try to haggle with providers at incall if they're nice enough to let me put something on that I'd like. Lol.

street Walkers?

A little of Both.. Just talk about it 1st & Decide

Mixing Buisness with Pleasure..
Is Music Yo My Ears...

1. It kills the mood:
Well, her performance didn't help either, but... years ago I met a FBSM provider. She Turned on the music and it was some sort of mellow MUSAK covers of pop hits collection. I've heard better stuff waiting at the dentist's office. It was so laughably bad that it really was a distraction.

 
2. It turns me on:
A FBSM provider that I had seen at least 50 times over the years ALWAYS played the same music. It was actually a compilation of an artist that I really enjoy, and after a number of sessions, hearing certain songs on the playlist began to evoke a Pavlovian response by me as I knew, based on the song, how she would be ratcheting up the sensuality. I honestly never tired of hearing the same set week after week.
One day she mentioned that her media got damaged. I was a little sad to hear it. She never replaced it but it turns out our sessions were just as hot without music. Now, hearing any of those songs on the radio brings back great memories.  

I put on Linda Ronstadt and the Nelson Riddle Orchestra. Nice stuff and actually romantic.  

choose music you want to fuck too

...if the person you're with doesn't get it..move on...music+sex equals mutual orgasms when you are with the right partner...