I'm curious what your experience has been with second rounds in sessions.  Who typically initiates them, you or the provider?  I had a great run where the ladies were eager to get back in action after a brief rest, but in my last couple of sessions, after one round, the lady was content to chat away the rest of the time, never giving any sense that a second round was available.  

If the gal you are seeing is a regular who knows you always like two or more rounds, then often they initiate it, but when seeing a gal for the first time, more often than not the client must be clear about what they expect.

I can't really make it happen until I have a 3-4 hrs of downtown. I have gone  for the 2nd shot maybe once or twice with a hooker in last 20+ yrs or mongering.  When i do overnights with my SBs I often go for 2nd round in the morning..

Hey MintyFreshness,  
  Maybe the last session(s) you had where the "PROVIDER(S)" were chatty.....Maybe they wanted you to kiss her and make the move. Have you thought about that?

Usually after intermission with the happiness of hydration it’s go time. Sometimes I will offer a massage to relax & calm a new friend, so it’s not to much pressure. Multiple pops are always available if able. Idk about other providers, but I am only speaking for myself. Maybe just speak out next time, and say something to your provider.

How much you used for the first round, and how much time is left.  If doubling your first number adds up to more time than you have left, they will usually not offer a second round.  It's not complicated.  

The ladies I've seen over the last few years all seemed to be expecting it after the first pop.  A few have even initiated, or at least tried.  But they all quickly realized that, given that I'm a superannuated player, it's just not gonna happen.  Mostly, the ladies stay naked, lounging around and giving me a come-hither look--until I start getting dressed.  I particularly like that some of my duo dates will continue playing with each other as a way of enticing me back to bed (at least that's what I tell myself).  Oh to be in my 20s again!

Are you telling us you need three or four hours downtown or downtime four the second round?
Auto miscorrect rides again.

I kind of like the downtown metaphor take on that post.

Ditto.

That's why I was asking.  To me, it felt like the chattiness is a way of saying fun time is over but you don't have to leave yet.  I wouldn't expect an escort to play coy like a high schooler and wait for the guy to make a move, but maybe that's a thing. Just curious for other perspectives.  I'm not super aggressive or pushy and am more laid back, so maybe it's on me for not initiating a second round.

There's agencies that have that on their menu...And this can get complicated .Say you finished your first round and you have time for one more shot, then she  kinda :cough,cough: and sticks her palm out, like its gonna cost you sir....what a buzz kill, huh? But that's a different story in its own.
But, going back the original thread. I usually start the second round, if I'm feeling it and if we have time. Most ladies can pick up on the vibe of the guy. Usually it happens when we're relaxing after the first tryst, her legs draped over me while we're laying down,sharing a drink. Conversation is smooth...and then all of a sudden..."Oh,oh..what have we got here" and then it's off.

I think it really depend upon the situation and the two (or more) people involved.  

Not this agency. You get every minute that you paid for. 2nd and 3rd helpings (if you're man enough) are always on the menu. It's been that way for 15 years.

what you are describing that are at odds with each other.  The first is, as you describe, "are you man enough" to have enough ammo for three rounds.  The other is whether you "are man enough" to last more than two minutes per round without splooging all over yourself as soon as she touches you.  It's just a matter of perspective and experience.    

If you never make a move, I think the girl would mostly likely think you are done.

This is contingent on what the provider advertised or agreed to ahead of the date. Always enquire ahead .

downtime bitch..  Good catch.. You got good eyes for an old fart.. LOL

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When you're alone and life is making you lonely
You can always go downtown
When you've got worries, all the noise and the hurry
Seems to help, I know, downtown
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And you may find somebody kind  
To help and understand you
Someone who is just like you  
And needs a gentle hand to
Guide them along ...

but did miss his own typo with "four" rather than "for".

I have always went by the rule that an hour appt is an hour, 60 mins or a little more. So I am good w however many times he wants. But I also sometimes feel weird about initiating because you want them to know you are open to it but you don't want them to feel pressured or bad about it.  I usually ask "can you go more than once" at the beginning that way they can just pop one off if they do two.  

Well said, Stephie.

Yes sometimes I amaze myself when I am to the point. Quite eloquent. Cuz other times I am a hot mess. 😘

my own experiences and networking with other mongers by PM, Customers' expectations are often unrealistic in relation to the time they book.  If I book one hour, I never have an expectation of more than one pop, but sometimes, with certain ladies, it happens, and I consider that a bonus.  If I know I'm going to want to go two rounds, I will always book two hours and my expectations are always met.