Sensual Char, in a post below, alluded to a drop in the number of reviews she's had written about her recently.  

The gents I see tend not to review anyway, for a variety of reasons, but I have noticed that recently the number of reviews I've received recently have really declined.  I've even been asked if I'm still active since it's been awhile since I've had a new review.

Are there any other ladies out there who've noticed the same thing?

I see a great deal of the same Gentlemen on a regular basis. So I don't worry about it if I am not reviewed. It is nice to get a new review every now and then, but not a big deal.

Every once in awhile it's nice to get a review just so men know I haven't crawled under a rock. However, I have regulars, so reviews from them would be repetitive. Also, many of my gentlemen callers are very conservative and don't care about kissing and telling (so to speak).

Hugs,
Ciara

most of us do see ladies (some repeated - some on a 1 time basis) and do not always write about the encounter.  TER makes it somewhat difficult to submit a review for a well reviewed lady - that is - you have to fill out the entire form (her stats, what services, and so forth and so on... and guess what... even when you update a piece of  info, it is NOT usually incorporated into the database... so why bother?  it would be simpler is there was a "button" that permitted you filling in the ladies name, phone number and web site... and the rest of the form could be automatically filled out... they can do that you know, but alas, TER chooses not to!

That is one obstacle...

A second is, after you write one review on a lady, there is NO incentive to submit a second... as you do not get "days VIP credit" for the second one... and in fact it might be rejected if there is "nothing new"

Finally, unless you are a few gents who like to run the numbers up.... most of us just don't have the time (I know, Kinda hard to believe that of me!)

As a separate note, there are ladies who even if they did "crawl under a rock" and quit providing - and I were in their city or they in mine... I would feel kinda insulted if they wouldn't even stop to have a cup of coffee with me... of even lunch... as I truly view them as friends.

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but am VERY fond of as a person... I would love to hang out with her, but I understand that this is a biz... she is just interesting to me... and she is well aware of how I view our friendship!  But alas... it just tis.  I recommend her to everyone... as I know that she is a great provider.

I haven't seen a new review since January. The review I have from March is a regualar who is always kind enough to update his review whenever he sees me. Once again, I am starting to see e-mails asking if I am still active.

I've said it before and I will say it again - guys, even if you don't feel like you are adding anything new to a lady's profile, just write the review anyways. They are just as helpful to us as they are to you.

I also have regular clients that I see, so I don't expect reviews from them.  However, I do see new clients as well...a number of which claim they saw my reviews here.  And as I stated above, my clients tend not to review anyway (most for fear of being found out...they want no traces of this hobby on their computer..others because they don't kiss and tell..still others for other reasons...).  I just wondered if anyone else had noticed a downward trend in the number of reviews they had seen lately.

TER would make the process a little easier as well.  I do understand the time consuming part.  I've had three separate gents in the last month who all stated they would write reviews.  Still nothing.  I wonder if they're reviewing on different message boards of which I'm not aware?

Thanks for your input, Biz.  As always, a thoughtful response.

I ordinarily don't review a lady unless she asks me to, but you seem to be suggesting that giving a review ought to be a matter of course, whether the lady asks or not.  Correct?

I usually don't write reviews because - as previously stated - it's just too time consuming.  Another site I belong to has a system,  that when you click on a provider already reviewed, the basic statistical information is already filled in and all you need to do is write the dirty details.  So, the first reviewer gets the bulk of the work, but everyone after that (unless they want to change the statistical data) has it easy.

and I think five pages of excellent ones are more than sufficient, but once you reach that level, a review once every month or two is more than enough to let prospective clients know you are still around and your level of service is still high.

One of the reasons I don't review anymore is the form to complete is just too damn long.  Have you ever tried to complete a review?  It's a half-hour activity!!

If the review form was a bit less, or if you could choose a lady and she was "prepopulated" with certain characteristics on the form, it would be far easier for me to review.

I just don't have the patience.

I recently tried writing a review, it was declined for lack of intimate details. When rewriting a review a guy has to put in ALL the damn information again, forget one thing and you have to go back and put in ALL the damn information again. AND do your rewrite again. It finally got to the point where it wasn't worth it anymore.

I wanted the girls to have reviews because I think it helps them in their business and I liked the girls, but when it comes to the point of being a major league hassle to just tell others I had a great time, then I no longer do it.

b-

Now you've got me intrigued.  Who could it be?

     I have sent in 2 reviews and neither one was accepted--mind you this was about 2 years ago
and have since declined to submit anymore. I assume i am not the only one who has had this
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and it is hard to review a girl and i have had several reviews for girls just be refused because they were not descriptive meaning if u do not know how to write smut then u wont get ur review posted.
it really isn't fair to a girl who tries so hard to get reviewed and then when she is and she has went beyond the mile still isnt reviewed because it was not enough dirt in it because the guy doesnt have knowledge on how to write it. it like from the Forum u have to write like they do and lot of guys don't have it in them to write like that.

If a lady already has reviews, then yes review her. Chances are pretty excellent that she is aware of her reviews, and does not object to them. If she doesn't have any reviews, then you might ask. It may be that she does not want reviews written.

I almost never ask gentlemen to review me. Doing so seems tacky to me, though of course I am sure many will disagree with me. But for my part, I don't want a man leaving wondering if I just went the extra mile because I planned to ask for a review.

On a side note, has anyone seen those commercials where the bell boys are literally carrying a guy to his hotel room, and he asks if they are just giving him special treatment because they knew he was going to write a review of his experience? I crack up EVERY time I see it and think of TER!!!!

Although looking like one in the right context is cool by me too

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That I shouldn't go to the grocery store in a micro-mini skirt, 6" CFM heels, and a tiny tank top???

Geeze! Somebody needs to tell me these things!

I have heard this alot.

Even from men who have 40-60 reviews under their belt. The biggest complaint I have heard is:

The form is too long and if you make a mistake by forgetting to fill a section in, it sets back to a blank page and you have to start all over again.

I have a 'long fun romance' with most of the men I see and have been seeing the same ones for a solid six months now. (my first 2 reviews in 2006 are not of me)
New reviews from them would be redundant, unless they were to talk about our travels together in the newly submitted material.

Alexa

I have many old friends and they just don't write reviews but the many newbies I see have said they write reviews and they are declined.Many gentlemen just don't like the kiss and tell aspects of writing areview or afraid it may come back to bite them some day.  It is a lot of work to write a review and just want to thank those guys that take the time and let them know how much they are appreciated. Either way there are a lot less reviews out there. I have noticed in my area a few ladies are always on the new review list. I have had only one review for April, now if that was the case i'm in trouble. Kisses Haley

although it was a bit of a mixed bag, so not sure if she'll be happy with it or not. But its been submitted, so now await the 72 hours random rejection notice.

they may never have written one, or got it rejected without sufficient explanation and given up. There have been other posts bemoaning the seeming randomness of rejection.

some of my sweethearts go to greal lenghths to keep their play times and play mates hushed so they will never review no matter how often you see them

To the monthly  PTA meeting like that as well lol

No Kidding! I second that observation!

That is a big problem for us ladies Sins. If we are not on the new review list for our area we are in most cases simply passed by. Most guys go for the new review list and read until they find what they want. Erotic reading is stimulating and we all know what happens then. If he doesn't take care of it himself he will find some nice lady to share it with. If he hasn't just read your review, your phone won't be ringing
    Kisses Haley

after a while, this might hurt the hobby here...

For example: im a newbie on this board,ive met 3 gentlemen here who all wrote reviews and all 3 were rejected for some reason or another.So now i guess im waiting for "a more seasoned reviewer to review me.

 Im still not discouraged because i do want to become an active member here.im just not the kind of girl to keep asking these guys to keep re-writing these reviews....Id rather them as regulars anyway.Go figure!!Ill keep trying...

I think it was during my "Ciara" phase which followed my Blue Period which in turn was right after my "Midlife Madness".

How is it we've never met?