Most providers will call their worst reviews Fakes or Frauds and say "I Never saw that guy", But my experience over the years is the the worst 2 or 3 reviews on a girl's profile are oftentimes the most honest and accurate and telling. And rarely are they fake.
I know many guys (including myself) when evaluating profiles often will discard the 2 best and 2 worst reviews. BUT, I've also been very aware that the most critical reviews (not the nasty ones) are the most honest.
Any thoughts?
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you propose, but not always. Many guys do on purpose to see gals who piss them off just to bash them in a review regardless of how great the service was...THAT too is a fact.
My worst 3 reviews, just say I can't take much d*ck, which duh...real shocker there. I had one idiot claim that greek was a service I normally provided but was not available to him...hmm, my pse and gfe rate have always been clearly posted dumbass, so if you did not pay the extra charge it was NOT included. Besides that, he was hung like a horse!
There are many contradictions that are easy to spot as well. The same horse d*ck guy said he felt I 'rushed him' then in the very next breath said he spent a good 20 min. eating me out and bringing me to orgasm..um, wtf if I were rushing you, I would not let you touch me at all idiot!
So at times, there is truth in the worst reviews, but other times they are simply cheap assholes wanting to bash a girl who charges more than they would like. They feel by giving her a bad review, she will have to put her rates in line with the cheaper gals he sees. Guys also make threats for reviews. "If you give me 100 off I will give you a higher score." No thanks, prefer to get paid for the job I said I would do. "If you let me go bbfs, I will give you 10/10." Again, fk off.
Also consider many other factors such as hygiene, chemistry, etc. I don't have solid 10s because I can't act that well, and I am not going to lick a nasty ass or hairy balls for a damn 10! If a guy rubs me the wrong way for some reason mentally or physically during the action, it is a bit hard to convey "You're fkin hurting me dumb ass so please stop," without him being offended. Even saying it in the nicest way tends to hurt egos here, so fk it. You hurt me once, I will ask you to please do it another way. Do it again, you're getting a foot up your ass.
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The words in the reviews can be very telling, about both the provider and the reviewer. London, I agree there's a difference in a man's experience based in large part how he acts.
Does a guy have to pay more for the "foot up your ass"? Or is that included in your ultimate GFE package?
London,
Personality ipart of the score. Your sharp tongue lashes a guy I can understand a point drop or two and we go to the high end escort to feel good not hear the truth. Maybe your different with your clients, but I notices there arent any top 10's in N.O. Maybe it's a city with high expectations.
and depending on the reviewer (is he a veteran or newbie) there's usually something t to be learned from that review. And you can always pm that reviewer if need be.
I think every one can have a bad day, or maybe she clicks or has chemistry with one guy more than another.
Just because she has one or 2 bad reviews does not mean that the girl is actually a bad provider or gives crappy service.
Not all personalities mesh together the same as others not matter how much you try.
Not all appointments can TRULY be a 9 or 10.. the other guy has to feel like it was a 9 or 10 for him as well.. You may think you are providing the best appointment you can, and the guy may not agree and not even really feeling brave to tell you. Then he writes a review.
It does not mean the next guy wont feel that you were awesome.
see?
you may agree or disagree based on your own agenda, not on an analysis of the data.
She has a bunch of great reviews and one toad. When I read it along with his others it was obvious the guy was a numb nuts who is still pissed off that the homecoming queen said no to a date when he was 17. Get over it dude.
Sometimes you can tell from the way it is written that the guy has no resPect for the pProvider. Sometimes this becomes obvious once you meet the provider.
On the other hand, I have seen one provider who was all 8's and 9's who was overweight and a 6 at most IMO
Old pix, not representative. Otherwise I agree with you.
subjective thing. If a guy literally finds thin or muscular women unattractive and goes for bigger women, he won't ever rate one less than say 8 or 9. The next guy may think she is a 4.
and it's bound to be reflected in reviews.
I see gals with good reviews, but now and then they will get a clinker.
On the whole I've found the reviews to be accurate enough for me.
based on the scores they give. Not all that hard to get high scores when you refuse to see any guy who gives out less than a 9 on a regular basis lol. I just want the money...I am not into any hooker popularity contest.
Dear Ms. Rayne:
Although you said that you aren't into the ratings game, I am sure for business and new business in particular for your highly discerning hobbyist that you might take a peek at them just to insure that it isn't too low so that those who do use that as a primary gauge aren't totally adversed to the idea of seeing you. Although you aren't into them, they need to be high enough to get them in the door so that you can obtain enough business to achieve a desirable revenue stream. This would be key especially in your case because you do charge a two hour minimum in a place that you make your prices high enough so that you are not accessible to the masses.
and the more reviews you have, the harder it is to maintain a high overall average. If you go back to just the first 2 or 3 pages, I would be a 9.4 like all the other 'newly" reviewed providers. The key is consistency. Anyone can get 10 good reviews, but 100? Not as easy.
Bad reviews are usually a result of the client's expectations being unmet after reading previous reviews.
There's this one hobbyist who said that he will not write a bad review because he believes that "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all." That hurts the community a bit.
Also, it depends on what you consider bad.
Some providers consider 7/7 bad.