how would you describe it ?

Since DFK is one of the specialized erotic arts, what makes for a GREAT DFK experience ?

If every person you would have sex with in the future would take your advice for the most satisfying DFK you would ever experience, could you put it into words ?

oh, that's easy for me-you hold each other so tight that you couldn't even fit a piece of paper between you, you close your eyes and immerse yourselves in each other so that the world could blow up and you wouldn't notice..

Now THAT is something I would love....

could be the light flickering of tongue tips, or the casual touching like a cat brushing past your leg, or feeling the surface's slightly rough texture, or a direct muscular thrust straight in, or thrashing like two powerful fish in a bowl, or exploring the space between the teeth and gums, or lightly sucking on a lip...

totally off subject, I have a very funny little story about lisa and her cell phone that you'd appreciate

I do not know about writing a manual, but if you want to experience incredible DFK first hand, I highly recommend you contact gypsyeyes aka Alyssa Shaye in LA.

Just like a little puppy - if my nose isn't wet after a good DFK, then something is amiss!

It comes very natural to me.I think the key is, it has to come from your soul.I suspect this is the reason alot of the ladies
will not do it.

it would have been a tasty nuance if TER allowed DFK on a 1-10 scale instead of yes/no/maybe...

It seems like there are huge differences in kissing, with a consensus that great kissing is crucial for great sex

most people praise it or complain about it, but has anybody been able to say what makes it good ?

The cranio-sacral massage people claim there is a slow wave that moves from the sacrum (the triangular bone at the base of the spine) up to the skull, then flows back down again. As a massage technique by itself, I think it's lame. But... never say never...

In a moment of passion with a beautiful young woman I cradled the back of her neck in my right hand as we were, um, discharging great quantities of orgone... there was a very distinct wave that started with the pelvic motions that travelled up to the deep muscles of the base of her head and neck. If I gently squeezed her as her head rested in my hand, I could sense the wave as it moved up about one quarter second after her pelvis contracted. This is a subtle pressure technique, exactly the right squeeze and exactly the right timing is needed. The pressure and timing must have been spot on, because the wave started rolling up and down her spine. When it rolled back down, her vagina would contract potently around my lingam, then release as the wave moved through her diaphragm, causing her entire thorax to move in sync, then her neck would lightly tense and I would volley the passion pulse back down. Needless to say....

Afterward she lay there and murmered, that was goooooooood....

yup, 'twas indeed...

WowNikki -- Hot, intense, passionate and urgent. Energy could light up NYC.

Felicia Foxx -- Delicate, graceful, slow and erotic, the desire her kisses ignite could burn down LA.

the best DFKs are out of body experiences.  you lose track of time.  your spatial sense is replaced by intuition.  urgency comes and goes.  language becomes hand groping, head tilting, the small or heavy breaths that are exchanged.  hmmmmm.

DFKs can be akin to thumb wrestling.  can you tell what I'm thinking?  Do you know where I'm going?  I want you, the DFK says.  I need you, the DFK says.  That time in 4th grade when you flirted with Susie comes to mind.  That upcoming vacation to Phoenix comes to mind, ah.  That rambo movie where he's getting electroshock therapy comes to mind.

electricity races.  swirls and dances.  Your head swells, explodes, and when if you open your eyes, wow.  As michelle said, a wet nose?  If you want to know what a woman is like in bed, then DFK.

hm.   ah.

He runs his fingers lightly upon the curve of my jawline, up to my cheek and then tangles them into my hair...I quiver. The distance between our mouths is fading. He gently pulls me towards him and then, ever so lightly his lips touch mine, and he hesitates. The slight touch of his mouth on mine as I breathe in a small bit of his breath.

After a moment he presses his mouth against mine with a bit of urgency, but his lips soften as he opens his mouth and lets his tongue slip between my lips, hungrily searching for my waiting tongue. His hand falls from my hair and moves down to the small of my back where he urges me towards him.

To be entangled like this is heaven, because no matter where this leads, a deep passionate kiss is always a great appetizer for whatever course is to come.....


xoxoxox
Lass

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It's what you're really about in that moment. Many have told me they won't do it because they want to keep it for their private lives. For others its part of the protective barrier they keep around their souls.
 Whatever it is, it is tied closely to the core energy of the person.
 For a long time I resisted for health reasons. Instead I got a lot of practice in cheek touching, and looking back on DFK as compared to a really sensitive cheek to cheek feeling, I think you can communicate as much with either one. (but shave first with a brand new razor blade and moisturize till you feel like a baby's bottom!!!)
 Women love a tender embrace on the cheek, more emotional and feeling, soulful even. Like Lass alluded, the whole head and neck can be a powerful erogenous zone, the way you gently touch the face, stroke and cradle, kiss the eyes.
 One girl opened up to me after we had known each other for quite a long time. It was all in the way she ran her hands through my hair. For her this was a huge emotional risk, but she's famous for DFK.

Cletic Lass, I've got to get back there sometime to see you!