The primary reason, that hasn't changed, is to meet basic needs for intimate companionship and human touch until such needs can be met in a more preferable way.
The secondary reason didn't exist until after I had actually met some escorts; because doing so initially was quite a hurdle for me.
The secondary reason is simply because I like the escorts I've been with. They have ranged from brighter than average to absolutely brilliant, have all been pretty, have had wonderful personalities and usually a great sense of humor etc. etc. I genuinely like them as people and enjoy their company.
Some of them have taught me interesting things I didn't know about myself.
Others have assisted me in numerous other ways. There's a lady who is no longer listed here (voluntarily) who has *really* enabled certain worthwhile things for me.
In essence, I have found dealing with escorts to be a very mind-expanding experience that in some cases has enabled me to become a better person.
This, by the way, is something I never expected going in. If you are wondering what I was expecting -- just take the worst possible stereotypes and multiply by two. Hey -- I'm glad I was wrong.
And -- oh -- lest I forget the tertiary reason -- we have sex. Really great sex.
The sex part wasn't always thrilling for me but I played along until I sort of figured out why I couldn't enjoy it and fixed that. (I was like the hobbyist version of MacDaddy until I figured out what in the hell was wrong in my head. Except, unlike her, I didn't hate the providers and wasn't mad at them. I knew the problem was me. LOL)
But NOW it is quite enjoyable. So enjoyable I actually look forward to it! There's this one lady I've seen before and keep thinking about ... and oh my ... some of the things I want to do with her can't be put in writing. LOL
Still, once the primary reason is gone, seeing escorts will cease.
I can’t start seeing these providers not because they are hotter than other or did more but just because I can’t get dates. I tried online dating sights no luck just replies you ugly you can’t spell. I tried bars no luck there either found one dated her most of 2007-2008. I not real ugly I 6.0 and 202 LB and rate me sight say I in top 55 percent base on looks But no GF so turn to providers for sexual need. I still have nowhere to turn for emotional needs.
As much as these ladies stimulate my mind, body and soul, you got my funny bone buddy! 
Thanks MDK!
buy a volleyball Wilson brand. draw a face on it lol
To be honest? Because I'm lazy but have a very high sex drive. It's that simple.
I'm a single guy. I have needs. I go out and have dates and meet women, but there are many times where I just want to f*ck and jerkin' off just isn't going to cut it. I think many of you know exactly what I mean.
So again, it comes down to simple laziness and the ease of the web. All I have to do is search through TER & other escort-based sites, click a few times, dial on the phone/email, setup the date, have fun. Rinse and repeat.
I've been "hobbying" now for about 15 years, and things have changed *a lot* due to The Internets (TM). I've made mistakes. I've dated a number of providers. I've made a lot of friends. I keep a small number of providers who I see often, and then break out once and a while to see someone new.
Finally, I still date civvies. I date often. Why? Hobbying can be highly addictive. You *always* need to keep your head straight. Dating civvies for a single guy like myself, keeps me in check.
Like most every other guy that does this, we hobby for the "fun" of it. (Now I sound like a Putt Putt commercial.)
I am uber picky about the women I "date". There are certain character traits I want that I just don't settle for and I don't exactly live in an area that produces many women of my type.
I have a couple of close female friends that I go out with a lot etc so in most ways, my "emotional" needs are met, just not the intimacy.
But then again, I'm wired odd. Lol.
I have no desire for civvie relationships. Meaning, meeting a lady in the grocery store, striking up a conversation, and making a date, HOPING I get laid.
Not to say that's the end of all means. I just feel more comfortable in this forum.
It's much easier to be with a woman I know I'm going to have sex with and talk about whatever. Know what I mean?
She's going to see me naked and vulnerable in a matter of minutes. I like to think I'm better looking than I am, and better in bed than I actually am also.
Neither are the case, but they're cool with that. Or at least say they're cool with that.
Caring? Maybe. Professional? Sure. Envelope? Absolutely.
My thing is I take/pay for extra time because I like to talk with these ladies. They're VERY interesting creatures and I get more out of our session than getting a nut off.
Just me, I guess, but if it ain't broke why fix it is what I say.
I guess each of us have our reasons on why we hobby. For me, it's primarily sexual. However, I do have emotional needs as well. I do not look to providers for that, and because I know myself (at least I hope I do! LOL) I feel the absolute need to date civvies.
Also, sometimes it's nice having sex with someone who *truly* wants to have sex with you. Yes, maybe the civvie isn't as hot as the provider I saw the other week or maybe she doesn't do certain things that I'd like, but I also know there are many things that I do not get from hobbying. There is a reason why hobbying is called "Pay to Play."
Also, I am a natural "giver." I love to please. I just cannot help that. In a weird way, this can be a problem in hobbying. Go ahead and ask around.
I'm not saying that there aren't providers out there that like to be pleased or to be on the "receiving end of the giving," (I'm using the term "giving" in the broad sense, not necessarily DATY, etc.) I am saying that I can't expect this *nor* should I expect this.
Interesting question, I can get all the pussy and love at home but lets face it same old,,same old gets.. well, it gets old. Do not want a relationship and cant get a hall pass to go to bars and doing one of the ladies i work with is too risky.. i see hobbing as a perfect solution for my need for variety and there are no strings attached. After the hour or whatever you dont have to worry about her falling in love and making it messy. No strings no commitment and no games. Thank god for providers.
I want to have sex with young, attractive, sometimes beautiful women. Considering my age, 60, and the fact that I am neither handsome, rich, famous or charismatic the hobby is the only practical route.
In the past two years, I have seen six providers and I have had a very, very happy experience with all of them.
I would not mind having a civvy girl friend, but I am not at all interested in women anywhere near my age.
I was married for many years and now it is time to live out my fantasies.
Amen, Bro! Except I'm 70, and ladies my age just aren't interested in sex anymore.
you want to post negatively on everyone of his posts in order to shut him up. I sure wish he would post much less also. While I think he is a normal person playing a game, there is a chance he was born differently or had an accident. If so, he should be allowed to post SOME and be a part of this group. There IS a chance he is for real.
Only reason I stick my nose in this time is this actually was a decent post for once, so why not cut him some slack this time? So why are you in the hobby? To just post negative responses at TER?
There is a special and unique pleasure in spending a few hours or a few days (in the old days between marriages) with an attractive interesting woman in the setting of the hobby.
Forget all that mushy sweet talking BS about connections. You do it to get fucked!
I stopped dating civie women for the most part. Since I am married I have very little to offer them and have to settle for a relationship that is less desirable then one with a provider. I am still looking for the same things I was looking for in an affair but with out the "go psycho to my wife" factor.
It's cool to see the different thoughts on this subject, very enlightning.
Nurse Marti
The primary reason, that hasn't changed, is to meet basic needs for intimate companionship and human touch until such needs can be met in a more preferable way.
The secondary reason didn't exist until after I had actually met some escorts; because doing so initially was quite a hurdle for me.
The secondary reason is simply because I like the escorts I've been with. They have ranged from brighter than average to absolutely brilliant, have all been pretty, have had wonderful personalities and usually a great sense of humor etc. etc. I genuinely like them as people and enjoy their company.
Some of them have taught me interesting things I didn't know about myself.
Others have assisted me in numerous other ways. There's a lady who is no longer listed here (voluntarily) who has *really* enabled certain worthwhile things for me.
In essence, I have found dealing with escorts to be a very mind-expanding experience that in some cases has enabled me to become a better person.
This, by the way, is something I never expected going in. If you are wondering what I was expecting -- just take the worst possible stereotypes and multiply by two. Hey -- I'm glad I was wrong.
And -- oh -- lest I forget the tertiary reason -- we have sex. Really great sex.
The sex part wasn't always thrilling for me but I played along until I sort of figured out why I couldn't enjoy it and fixed that. (I was like the hobbyist version of MacDaddy until I figured out what in the hell was wrong in my head. Except, unlike her, I didn't hate the providers and wasn't mad at them. I knew the problem was me. LOL)
But NOW it is quite enjoyable. So enjoyable I actually look forward to it! There's this one lady I've seen before and keep thinking about ... and oh my ... some of the things I want to do with her can't be put in writing. LOL
Still, once the primary reason is gone, seeing escorts will cease.
been priveledged to spend time with. Thank you ladies!
Because I enjoy dealing with retards(and a few ok guys, but mostly turds) but my salary is better than that of a special ed teacher.
your money comes from. Who could resist such a charming person?. OOOOPS better hurry, you're gonna be late for your Man Haters meeting. Don't forget also, the externinators are coming today to get those pesky rats out of your trailer! 
Actually I have a lakefront condo. I'm not one to do something gross and illegal without having something to show for it.
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